Interaction before the date. What do you guys and girls expect?

[Allegra Hope]

Guys how much contact do you expect from the ladies during the time you book an appointment until the time of the actual appointment? Let’s say your book an appointment a month in advance, do you expect the lady be texting back and forth almost every day?

And girls, to what point you consider the text exchange is a little bit too much?
Does it bother you? I’m not talking about the guys that we already met and we keep in touch, check on us once in a while, wish us happy bday or Valentines. Your hobby buddies... I’m talking about guys you haven’t met.

Thank you for responding. I really appreciate everyone’s opinion.

[RyanFromTER]

I don't think I've ever scheduled a month out. A week. Maybe two at most. It breaks down to:
-Initial contact PM/Request
-Confirm date and time
-Confirm day of
-"I'm here" text

The end.


There might be two more if I want to request an outfit.

[haihawaii2000]

I schedule, confirm day before, text when on the way then when I arrive. I pm until on the way and when on the way. Now if I repeat there is generally more interaction when we are both comfortable with each other

[TexTushHog]

I expect clear, cogent directions that actually make reference to the four cardinal directions or an identifiable intersection (e.g. drive north from downtown on 75 and turn west on 635, the take a right at the Preston exit. Turn right, or north, on Preston.). Not directions that are dependent on landmarks in some part of town I’ve never visited, (well, there’s a McDonald’s by the freeway down the street. Turn there. And I’m around the corner by the liquor store).

Other than that, nothing else.

[funjohn]

It depends on the situation for me. If it’s a one time encounter, at the in call, with no special requests, the two call process is fine. The more time and variables introduced, I do think more calls are necessary, more money is eventually going to the provider. In a regular encounter (multiple visits over time); much as in an ongoing business relationship, the hobbyist may want to touch base more often, check in, etc.. .I think if the provider finds this to be onerous, she is not thinking big picture or long term (as long as the hobbyist is not trying to cross the line into something the provider is not comfortable with). Where the hobbyist is not crossing the line, I think the two parties can work it out.

[grean]

Originally Posted by RyanFromTER

I don't think I've ever scheduled a month out. A week. Maybe two at most. It breaks down to:
-Initial contact PM/Request
-Confirm date and time
-Confirm day of
-"I'm here" text

The end.


There might be two more if I want to request an outfit.

A month out is a long time. In that case though, I'd say a a text a week prior just to make sure everything is still good. And of course a text to cancel as soon as possible, if needed.

Everything else from that point should be the same as if he setup the appointment just a week prior.

[Chung Tran]

a month equals a year in this business, WAY too far out to set an appointment.. a week is too long.

my last Provider was a 6 minute heads up.. yes, 6 minutes. granted I was shocked she responded immediately, and surprised she was ready in another 5 minutes.

I find it rare that I can book even 24 hours in advance.. sure, the Provider may agree, but when the hour of truth advances, silence rears its head, or excuses take over much of the time.

I certainly won't be flirting or otherwise anticipating during those 24 hours.. I'm just happy if the date really happens.

[rexdutchman]

Yup,
Quote:
Originally Posted by RyanFromTER
I don't think I've ever scheduled a month out. A week. Maybe two at most. It breaks down to:
-Initial contact PM/Request
-Confirm date and time
-Confirm day of
-"I'm here" text

The end
Good TCB skills are a must

[grean]

Too many stories where a guy gets too clingy via text and weirds a girl out to the point she cancels.

[Hercules]

I'd say you have a old school prospect since it used to be if you wanted to see a high-demand lady you had to book well in advance. But if he's bugging you on a daily basis (which is NOT old school) then I'd say you have a potential problem client.

Ignore him and see how he reacts.

[Stallion81]

Have I been bugging you too much, Allegra?

[johnclark]

Originally Posted by haihawaii2000

I schedule, confirm day before, text when on the way then when I arrive. I pm until on the way and when on the way. Now if I repeat there is generally more interaction when we are both comfortable with each other

This right here. If it's a month out(which I just can't see happening) I'd PM two weeks out, then one week out. No texting or calling until day before. I don't think I've ever booked anything further out than one week, even while traveling.

If she's texting me every day I'm blocking her and moving on. I'm not looking for a long term relationship. Well, other than with you.

[darkwader]

I expect stock tips, recipes etc till the day of. it's only fair

[Zee Man]

I am not sure what I expect besides a check in a day or so before the appointment. I enjoy a few pm's on 411 or here from you from time to time.

[DownForWhatever]

A month? That's like looking at the 10 weather forecast...too much can change.

I usually book 5-7 days in advance, with a confirmation the day before and an "on my way" text. If either of those go "radio silent", I've saved myself the travel time.