Awkward situation

[tydefan1966]

How do you handle the situation when the door is opened and the provider you are meeting doesn't look anything like the pictures in the showcase? An experience I had was from a well reviewed person that was nowhere near what the review or pictures depicted. How do you proceed?

[dj8rocks]

Whoa... that would be reason to turn around and walk away. If pics don't even come close to the showcase pics, then the questions start piling up. Was it an eccie provider?

[Pounder]

I really don't know what I would do to be honest. I have not had that happen to me yet luckily.

[tydefan1966]

Unfortunately it was an outcall so it was in my hotel room so I couldn't walk away...ha...I stalled by talking for a little bit and then negotiated a much shorter visit that involved mostly self service for a lower rate.

[Mammiejammer]

I'll turn right around and walk away and in your case where it was an outcall to a hotel if someone showed up at my place and looked nothing like their pics they would never have gotten past the door I would just simply tell them hey update your pics or post some that aren't fake and I would have shut the door. MJ

[Precious_b]

Originally Posted by tydefan1966

Unfortunately it was an outcall so it was in my hotel room so I couldn't walk away...ha...I stalled by talking for a little bit and then negotiated a much shorter visit that involved mostly self service for a lower rate.

A hobby sage in Texas would have her leave and than promptly go to the desk and ask for a room change.

[TheOtherMan]

I've had that situation a few times. In all cases, I've gone ahead with the liaison, and only had one bad experience. Once, she actually looked better than the fake pics, so that was a win, but usually the pictures are just outdated and the gal was a bit larger than advertised or older than advertised. I don't mind a few extra pounds or years, and the service didn't vary from what I expected, so...

The one bad experience I had was because not only was she 100 pounds heavier, she was also not made up or anything for the date - she literally looked like I woke her up when I got there and she slept fucked through the 1SOG date...

Honestly, I think it comes with the territory. Bait & switch is much more common in other parts of the country. Sites like eccie help tremendously with helping you weed out the bad providers, but it's gonna happen eventually if you hobby long enough. Just leave an honest review and chalk it up to ya win some, ya lose some...

[TiredofTinder]

Yeah, had one that was a good 15 years older than the picture... No complaints on the massage and BBBJ though. lol

[Adaline]

You come see me instead lol

[tydefan1966]

From everything I have read you are exactly right Ms. Addison

[Ellie_AlexandraXXX]

Originally Posted by tydefan1966

How do you handle the situation when the door is opened and the provider you are meeting doesn't look anything like the pictures in the showcase? An experience I had was from a well reviewed person that was nowhere near what the review or pictures depicted. How do you proceed?

I try to keep my pictures up to date and very current especially if there has been a big change. I once had a gentleman walk out on me because I had gotten a new tattoo on my chest that was not pictured in any of my showcase photos, true story lol. Respectfully voicing your concerns about the issue is always a great way to resolve things. Sorry that happened to you, hopefully you have better luck next time around