Married Providers

[scruffycowboy]

So the last provider I had a session with was married. It's not the first time but I have some questions to throw out there for those who've been married while in the business:

1. Does your husband know?
2. If yes, how'd he find out? What was his response? Does he support you providing?
3. If no, how do you keep it secret? Have there been any close calls? Do you have any friends who know and cover for you?

The guys can answer too I guess but I figure most cases the wives don't know and if they did they'd cut your nuts off!!

Scruffycowboy

[pyramider]

Why would you care if the hubby knows or not? Or why would you thinck their relationship is any of your, or my, business?

[Guest070818-1]

I've been wearing my engagement ring in my pictures for years now and I don't hide the fact that I'm in a relationship with someone very dear to me. It keeps all single weirdos away!

Anyhow, here are my answers:

1. He knows. He knows. He knows.

2. I told my fiancé about my escort life and he was totally fine with it. Having met me while I was a stripper, we had already had the conversation that 'business' is 'business'. Nonetheless, he supports me in all of my pursuits, not just as me being a provider.

3. I'm a terrible liar and I once dated a guy who later found out that I was an escort. When he found out, he broke down in the living room crying. I didn't want to put another man through that situation, so I vowed to be upfront about sexwork. Going back to #2, my fiancé met me years ago in the strip club so I was able to come clean pretty quickly.

[DallasRain]

I am and have been in an open minded hedonistic marriage for over 30 years...my guy has even done mmf and mfm playtimes with some of my eccie gents

I say live like ya wanna live..and be happy

[Heidi.Fly]

I am happy to answer this question.

1. Yes, of course, he knows everything.

2. He has known since my first bng. We make our decisions together much like most of you probably do with your wives.

We decided that life is too short to hate your sex life. I mean, sex is one of the best things we've got in this life. It's THE very best thing to many of us. Why be unhappy just because the social convention says we should be monogamous? It's much more fun to share.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by Heidi.Fly

I mean, sex is one of the best things we've got in this life.

You have obviously never met me.