Why Fear Posting "No" Reviews?

[acn2024]

Originally Posted by Vic Kosslovich

I think the OPs point is that after he posted the review he got a lot of feedback that this was not an unusual occurrence. If others had posted their experiences as well he would have been warned off and saved himself a lot of trouble.

It seems that the focus on "nothing happened therefore no review" are missing that point.

Exactly! That is what upset me more than anything. I did my due diligence and searched her reviews and the forums. If I had come across that ahead of time, I would have found someone else, and hopefully a much better evening. I mean, that's the whole purpose of this site I thought. And so I mentioned here wondering if it's happening everywhere and why?

But I kinda see it now. In looking through the forums more, I see more often than not, anytime one of the guys says an unkind word about any of the ladies, it seems like everyone immediately goes to telling him he's dumb, or didn't follow the rules, or flat out lying, or whatever.... and the only people willing to comment on what she did are hiding in my PM Inbox.

Anyway, I've said my peace and no one is interested. So off to my next adventure.

[mrredcat43]

Maybe those people in your inbox don't wanna fuck up a good thing they have going. I've never seen the provider in question, as I usually drive to tyler to get my rocks off, but Shreveport is a different landscape with LOTS going on, on the backchannel

[JLanister]

Originally Posted by Vic Kosslovich

It seems that the focus on "nothing happened therefore no review" are missing that point.

The point is that Pyramider always misses the point...

[tornado82]

I probably have more no reviews than anybody here. I call it like I see it.

[Analeese]

Man oh man....I'm speechless...almost..

For a couple of reasons...and Analeese pretty much always has an opinion...

Maybe he wanted some Dallas drama.... Or thought he might get sympathy..

[biggestbubba]

Well, since NCNSs don't go in reviews, you are not going to see any "no" reviews for all the people PMing you telling you they were also NCNSed.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by Analeese

Man oh man....I'm speechless...almost..

I know it hurts ... posting taint will make it all better.

[casey_carlin]

Is there a place for guys to post NCNS appts? It should be known if a lady is unreliable or has a habit of not showing or playing games just like the ladies posting a guy NCNS. It's not fair for either party to do this.

Casey

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by casey_carlin

Is there a place for guys to post NCNS appts? It should be known if a lady is unreliable or has a habit of not showing or playing games just like the ladies posting a guy NCNS. It's not fair for either party to do this.

Casey

Life isn't fair, try the ladies area

[Analeese]

Short answer is the Co-ed section.

Here is where I found this out a long time ago.

If you go to the independent provider reviews section...
There is a sticky ... That says NCNS don't go here...

When you click it...it takes you here:
https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1898715

Like others have said no activities bcd...it's can't be considered a review...

NCNS doesn't really fit in any other area except possibly the ML...

Or ladies area for a provider

[BoringM]

You know I initially read the title of this entry wrong. I thought you were asking why people choose to not write reviews at all (like me*). It's not that I don't want to help the provider's business or pass on a good recommendation to a hobbyist, it's just a "big brother" thing. I will however immediately alert someone of any danger of any kind (life or LE related).

Regarding your experience of posting a "no recommendation". My feedback to you would be to just stand by your experience (as long as it's true). Who the cuss cares that you receive PMs or replies from people who have experienced different sessions. Maybe the provider was just having a bad day, maybe the provider used to provide excellent service, but things have taken a turn for the worse lately and your recommendation could be the tipping point she needed to wake her up to get her house in order. You never know.

*I have no clue where those 2 reviews on my profile, but it definitely wasn't me.

[kiki2012]

I was sleepy combined with drinking vino would of been a lousy time lol. So I much rather cancel even if is last minute. Saves the person the $$ then to just have the 'Wife experience ! LoL!!!! :sl eep_1:

[texassapper]

I don't know Kiki... I could probably enjoy just watching you catch some z's if you were naked!

[LickHer]

Even though I've been on here a long time I'm learning more and more that if you give "honest" (even if they're not a full blown no) reviews that are intended to and will certainly help fellow hobbyists make informed decisions, what is written in the ROS will ALWAYS get back to the provider and will most often be spread around to the majority of providers. For some reason, the other providers don't like honest reviews, even if they don't know the provider written about in a review. It's sad the being fully honest in order to help fellow hobbyists is most often detrimental to one's own hobbying experience. And the WK's that don't give honest reviews are detrimental to everyone's hobby experience...

[TinMan]

Maybe you guys are approaching it the wrong way. I've written some, one this past week, and I've never gotten blowback. Unless you count the occasional lady asking me privately why I didn't give her a "yes". I don't consider that "blowback".

If a lady tries hard and it just didn't work out, I'll pass on the review altogether and strike it up to bad luck. If she just isn't cut out for the business, I'll tell her (nicely), then write the same in my review.

Sometimes I think guys post mean-spirited, but factual, shit...then get whiny when the lady strikes back. Or maybe the failure was on both sides, and the guy only posts his side of it...another recipe for blowback.

Maybe it's my tendency to explain my no in the recommendation field. That takes some of the mystery away (for those women who don't have ROS access), and maybe some of the sting of an outright "no".

Who knows why some guys get shit for their reviews when others don't, but maybe the guys who are scared to post a no should consider changing their approach.