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AutumnFoxx21 · 11-18-2016, 05:28 AM

Has anyone ever successfully had a rental agreement between SD and SB? If so, how did it work? We're there problems or did both parties feel comfortable?

SaltyDog71 · 11-18-2016, 08:13 AM

There are two basic SD/SB relationships categories that most of these relationships can be put into.

The Exclusive. Where the SD/SB have an agreement to only see each other. This usually involves a larger financial commitment from the SD, and a time commitment from the SB. From what I see these don't seem to last, because there at some point gets to be jealousy issues, loyalty issues and such. This is border line being in a real relationship and comes with almost the same problems.

The open. Where you both still see other people. This is probably the most common, and will only work if both are adult enough to control their feelings, and not get emotionally involved. The arrangement would need to be discussed in an adult way, and it has to be something both party's can fulfill. If the SD only has X amount of money to put into this he needs to be upfront about it and what he will get for X. If the SB only has certain times or has limitations on what she can do, this also needs to be put out in the open. There are some that have real life BF's or husbands and can't go out in public with the SD. Or many other things that might hinder a relationship. All these need to be discussed and agreed on. Then both sides have to hold up there end or it doesn't work.

I have had a SB on and off for the past 10 or 12 years. Seems that 3 to 4 years is how long the SD/SB relationship has lasted for me. All that have ended are because her moving to the other side of the country, getting married and not wanting to cheat on her new husband, or something similar. The open relationships have worked for me. I have one now, we have been together for 6 months or so, and it is working great. You already know most of the details on that relationship.

PCHobbyist · 11-18-2016, 09:17 AM

Spot on Saltydog! Good advice

golf33232003 · 11-18-2016, 09:21 AM

You can't be going into a sd/sb relationship with an escort mentally because it's not going to work out. Many sds day that an escort don't make good sb.

SaltyDog71 · 11-18-2016, 09:44 AM

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You can't be going into a sd/sb relationship with an escort mentally because it's not going to work out. Many sds day that an escort don't make good sb.

If the girl is wanting out, or not wanting to be a full time escort, and they are genuine in that desire, from what I have seen they make good SB. Strippers are who make horrible SB's especially if they are still doing the club scene full time

golf33232003 · 11-18-2016, 11:28 AM

That also goes for escorts, it's hard to break the habbit and the mind set of an escort because they are accustom of an hourly rate then with an allowance or just help with stuff here and there. Escort make great money for an hour worth of work and sometimes it's not a full hour, who can fuck for an hour lol If the escort does want to leave the scene she is going to be shock right away because been a sb is not the same. Unless the sd is going to take care of her like how she was earning as an escort but that's rare to see. I agree with the strippers but I also include the escort in that category.

Jjsunday · 11-18-2016, 12:54 PM

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Originally Posted by golf33232003

That also goes for escorts, it's hard to break the habbit and the mind set of an escort because they are accustom of an hourly rate then with an allowance or just help with stuff here and there. Escort make great money for an hour worth of work and sometimes it's not a full hour, who can fuck for an hour lol If the escort does want to leave the scene she is going to be shock right away because been a sb is not the same. Unless the sd is going to take care of her like how she was earning as an escort but that's rare to see. I agree with the strippers but I also include the escort in that category.

I really don't agree with all that .......You may be looking for more then just a SB I know I have had my share of SB's and the only one's I have had has been NSA I told them what I wanted up front and told them I would never ask what they do and Not to ask what I do when we are not together.

Most of the ones I have had work a lot like a provider. We talked about what we wanted from the jump. We talked about everything.from Donations and dates and Ect. I know I have really talked in detail on what I wanted . Most SB will be longer dates then the providers. But it still worked the same so much of a donation for time.

All the SB I had would be XXX per week and we would talk about how many times I would see them per week. Most of the time I didn't talk about time of the dates and just let them go as they did. I always did better that way. Because if she was having a good time it would be like a real date you know Dinner-Drinks and then fun !and most of the time we would talk a while then more fun lol
But I have had some SB that had BF and would just see them for a visit just like a provider and the donation would be for time just like a provider.
I had a little Mid-eastern coed I saw last year Hot little thing I saw her only for a visit and that was all not going out just a room.she had a BF and another SD and from what I have seen most do see more then just one guy.
Just because a girl is a provider does not mean she wouldn't make a good SB it would depend on the girl and the arrangment you wanted. I know guys that have seen providers as SB and have had good luck with them.but I would say it would need to be a NSA thing.But if you are like me that's what I have always done anyhow .

Cpalmson · 11-20-2016, 09:12 PM

I think people are missing the point of the OPs question. I think she is asking about an SB renting from an SD when it comes to housing. I don't think she is asking about the different types of arrangements.
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The Grey Monster · 11-20-2016, 09:56 PM

If that's the case then "no" there has never been a succcessful rental agreement when sex is inserted into the equation as rent,..that's a stretch and might last two months,,,I've rented a lot of houses out, and the "you can live here free as long as I get some pussy or blowjobs" (it depends,,but it's not gonna last long) but in all fairness,,,don't give in to that stuff,,,it's better to ask for help then to get taken.. Good luck, your a tough girl, where's your money going?

PCHobbyist · 11-20-2016, 10:12 PM

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Originally Posted by AutumnFoxx21

Has anyone ever successfully had a rental agreement between SD and SB? If so, how did it work? We're there problems or did both parties feel comfortable?

I actually saw a provider that rented from an SD for a while. I knew the dude was keeping tabs on who she saw. Just a bit too creepy for me. I would advise against it Autumn. BTW, I'm sorry we could'nt hook up when I was in p'cola last time I was there. Maybe soon?

AttitudePositive · 11-20-2016, 11:34 PM

Eviction might be an issue. Judge payment is past due. Heh

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Originally Posted by AutumnFoxx21

Has anyone ever successfully had a rental agreement between SD and SB? If so, how did it work? We're there problems or did both parties feel comfortable?

SaltyDog71 · 11-21-2016, 09:25 AM

Now that Cpalmson pointed out the misunderstanding. It does sound like you were inquiring about renting from a SD. If he owns the dwelling that situation could get very tricky. Anything happens, then you are out on the street, or even though it is hard to legally evict someone from a home he could make your life real miserable. Just my opinion it would be better for the house to be in your name and have a SD pay the note. That way if something happens you still have a roof over your head, and you just have to find another SD.