What do you think of Eccie these days?

[wpdelight]

It's way better here than the wall of misogyny and butthurt from guys in Houston. Forum is f'ed up there.

[3daygetaway]

Originally Posted by Little Monster

And this would be an example of an uninformed putz who opens his mouth without knowing the full story. I was just letting Ms. Phoenix know that if I have something to say I will say it directly to her and not pretend to be someones friend and then go around and talk shit behind their back. Learn what's going on before you open your mouth smart one.

Look, man, if you are chapped that she brought your personal biz onto the board, "be the change you want to see;" don't keep bringing it up in public. To quote George Bush and the Dude "this aggression will not stand, man."

[FirePhoenix]

The problem is little monster is that you DIDN'T come to me and ask. Instead you attacked on the board. What did I do? I went straight to you and asked. Please try and make sense of what you're trying to say. Also i really haven't talked to you in well over a yr. Face it you did to me what you exactly what your mad at for supposedly doing. How does that make sense?
Lastly did skippy boy telling you about any of the good things that I admired and respected about you? I have this feeling that skippy boy didn't tell you anything but a bunch of twisted up lies, but hey that's what I expected from him.

[Observing]

Originally Posted by Whispers

No. You are responsible for teh negativity surrounding you based on the way you tried to take a personal grudge and make it a board matter. You still being indiscrete and trying to peddle drugs to members here?




LMAO. I can not post for days, weeks or months and people still find reason to whine and blame everything on me.

such babies..... you let words on a SHMB affect and control what you do

Thanks for weighing in with your sage all knowing King of Pusswah drivel.

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by 3daygetaway

Look, man, if you are chapped that she brought your personal biz onto the board, "be the change you want to see;" don't keep bringing it up in public. To quote George Bush and the Dude "this aggression will not stand, man."

That's a big problem with FirePhoenix. She is continually bringing her and other's personal issues onto the board showing total lack of discretion.

There are so many better choices than that do not have the Christ.. She admits she needs therapy and last night posted up she purchased prescription medications and was distributing them for resale. Who wants to be around her when they come looking for her?

Others should check out her CoEd thread before making a final decision.
http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1806239[/QUOTE]

[Little Monster]

Originally Posted by 3daygetaway

Look, man, if you are chapped that she brought your personal biz onto the board, "be the change you want to see;" don't keep bringing it up in public. To quote George Bush and the Dude "this aggression will not stand, man."

Who the fuck ever said I wanted change????? In fact I hope the drama continues for years to come. My Hobbying days are pretty much coming to an end so the drama will be the ONLY reason my ass will be coming on here. As much PA as I have built up I am not gonna close my account even when I do find a real GF. When there's no bickering going on this place turns dull very quickly.

[Dr Grey]

This would be the last site I use for entertainment. Telemundo soap operas are way more action packed with drama.

[FGarvin]

Originally Posted by Whispers

LMAO. I can not post for days, weeks or months and people still find reason to whine and blame everything on me.

such babies..... you let words on a SHMB affect and control what you do

Not only are you incredibly predictable but you prove my point fabulously.

[FirePhoenix]

LM does love the drama here and encourages it. When I came back from a trip from WA and understood that other broads didn't actually act like drama queen jr.high school, I told him that it could be possible to change the Austin coed and I was gna try. At one point I got tried of his snide childish comments and called him out on it. We haven't really talked since then. LM truly does see all those providers and deserves the PA credit. Hopefully he does find his ms.right in life and wish him the best. Maybe after this helps will learn to either speak to both people that may or may not have talked about him and make an informed decision. IB, I am truly sorry that this sad drama came into this thread. I will always stand up for myself or for what I believe in.

[FirePhoenix]

BTW, whimpy who has my happy cock blue candies and why did this person have it in the first place? Think long and hard about the answer. Most people can figure it out but you seem to be very slow on the uptake.

[3daygetaway]

Originally Posted by Little Monster

Who the fuck ever said I wanted change????? In fact I hope the drama continues for years to come. My Hobbying days are pretty much coming to an end so the drama will be the ONLY reason my ass will be coming on here. As much PA as I have built up I am not gonna close my account even when I do find a real GF. When there's no bickering going on this place turns dull very quickly.

@LM OKAY, you're right...you may not want change, but the rest of us do. This thread reflects that people want a playful space where we can be friendly and familiar with people who share our affinity for sex and the Hobby again.

We used to tell jokes, share memes, retell funny stories from the real world, and it was the exception (not the rule) that someone was berated or slandered in coed.

Our providers used to contribute a lot more, and as a result, we wanted to see them more--not for their bodies but because they turned on another part of us (and the bodies too, of course). Now, our providers are reluctant to post, lest they be slammed by other users--male and female.

I mark the decline of Coed around the same time that an infection started to spread among the men of ECCIE (no, not an STD). The infection was the willingness/desire to call our providers whores. Whore, in particular, is an offensive name. Yes, they know they are prostitutes; we know they are prostitutes--so why say it? There is NO reason to call ANY other human by a derogatory name. It leads me to believe that misogyny in now endemic in Austin ECCIE...no wonder our fantastic providers are gun-shy. I am no angel; I've had my dander up more than once on the board and said some things I wish I could take back, but the ubiquity of insulting our women is not healthy: it's sociopathic and it's abuse.

Little Monster, I'm sorry if you're hurting, but hurting other people is not the kind of drama the rest of us want! Channel your energy into being a leader of camaraderie not dissension.

Whispers has been bashed in this thread too. I remember a time when Whispers' contributions really were sage, his advice was sought, and through his guidance, our board thrived! But somewhere along the way, he got sidewise with some folks who started making personal attacks against him, insulting his appearance, for example. I'm not sure he was ever the same on the boards after those few months.

For those of us that have been here for years (and definitely those who came over from ASPD), we know these things are cyclical, that "long summers make for hot tempers," but also that attitudes can chill. We NEED to hit the reset button and allow some space for peace and respect in this community.

Pretty-please, with sugar on top?

[Samcro84]

Wow did this thread go in a completely different direction?

Sam

[Iron Butterfly]

And the beat goes on...

IB

[FirePhoenix]

I love that song...Use to have it in my signature
https://youtu.be/v8gVUwrJZzo

[Little Monster]

Originally Posted by 3daygetaway

@LM OKAY, you're right...you may not want change, but the rest of us do. This thread reflects that people want a playful space where we can be friendly and familiar with people who share our affinity for sex and the Hobby again.

We used to tell jokes, share memes, retell funny stories from the real world, and it was the exception (not the rule) that someone was berated or slandered in coed.

Our providers used to contribute a lot more, and as a result, we wanted to see them more--not for their bodies but because they turned on another part of us (and the bodies too, of course). Now, our providers are reluctant to post, lest they be slammed by other users--male and female.

I mark the decline of Coed around the same time that an infection started to spread among the men of ECCIE (no, not an STD). The infection was the willingness/desire to call our providers whores. Whore, in particular, is an offensive name. Yes, they know they are prostitutes; we know they are prostitutes--so why say it? There is NO reason to call ANY other human by a derogatory name. It leads me to believe that misogyny in now endemic in Austin ECCIE...no wonder our fantastic providers are gun-shy. I am no angel; I've had my dander up more than once on the board and said some things I wish I could take back, but the ubiquity of insulting our women is not healthy: it's sociopathic and it's abuse.

Little Monster, I'm sorry if you're hurting, but hurting other people is not the kind of drama the rest of us want! Channel your energy into being a leader of camaraderie not dissension.

Whispers has been bashed in this thread too. I remember a time when Whispers' contributions really were sage, his advice was sought, and through his guidance, our board thrived! But somewhere along the way, he got sidewise with some folks who started making personal attacks against him, insulting his appearance, for example. I'm not sure he was ever the same on the boards after those few months.

For those of us that have been here for years (and definitely those who came over from ASPD), we know these things are cyclical, that "long summers make for hot tempers," but also that attitudes can chill. We NEED to hit the reset button and allow some space for peace and respect in this community.

Pretty-please, with sugar on top?

Ok if you wanna go back and forth that's fine with me. But do not start making shit up. Please, PLEASE pull up ONE single post of mine where I called these ladies whore's. If late able to I promise I will personally personally pay for your next session.

You say I'm hurting??? Over what exactly? Please enlighten me about my own state of being.

Making shit up is not gonna win you a debate sir, it will only make you look like a putz. Just ask Trump.