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xxxalyssaxxx · 09-24-2016, 09:45 AM

So in the midst of chatting and fun banter the other day the subject came up about having a dirty mind followed by a dirty mouth comment. It got me to thinking -- I absolutely love dirty talk but am very self conscious of doing it when not discussed beforehand. I think because I worry that it might offend someone that isn't into that as much.

So I'm curious to know …. how many of you enjoy dirty talk and how dirty do you like it? Are there certain specific phrases that just drive you crazy and turn you on? Any that turn you off? Do you want to be the one talking dirty, want your partner to, or is it only fun if your both talking dirty?

For me, I love to talk dirty when I get really revved up and a guy being vocal is a huge turn on even if it's just moans and groans of pleasure. I love a guy telling me how good I feel or to "ride that cock" or to tell me to "use that cock" (to pleasure myself), etc. But it's a quick turn off if it starts getting too weird (strange fetishes that I don't share).

TravelingGentleman · 09-24-2016, 12:08 PM

Alyssa, in the same vein of outlining expectations prior to an appointment, you can inquire whether your clients prefer to talk dirty or be talked dirty to.

Personally, I don't know how to talk dirty, and I've never been dirty talked to, so no idea. If a provider were to suggest it, I'd be open to the idea - I like trying new things.

Throw it out there in a discussion in your appointments. You might just introduce someone to something new that they like.

doc_nasty123 · 09-24-2016, 01:44 PM

Quiet sex is weird... like something is wrong. Give me some heavy breathing, moans, one or two Fuckme requests (not demands). That dick feels good, Leave the it in deep. Pinch my nipples. Ooh I'm gonna cumm."

Repeat as many time as you want.

Too much cussing or bossy cussing porno style...... Not so much.

Domfun87 · 09-24-2016, 02:51 PM

Dirty talk is very erotic for me, do it right and you'll have me in the palm of your hand (cum on demand) especially if I feel it's genuine.. i truely enjoy those requests an statement said above ^^

bule84 · 09-24-2016, 03:03 PM

I love it, but the question is how far do you go with it. For me, you can't really go to far. As you get to know your partner you can progress. For some people using terms like slut are very affectionate and a huge turn on, for others they are perceived as very offensive. you have to know you partner to really enjoy

xxxalyssaxxx · 09-24-2016, 06:07 PM

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Originally Posted by bule84

I love it, but the question is how far do you go with it. For me, you can't really go to far. As you get to know your partner you can progress. For some people using terms like slut are very affectionate and a huge turn on, for others they are perceived as very offensive. you have to know you partner to really enjoy

I guess I should just bring it up more often with my regulars that I'm really comfortable with because what I find with myself is that because we've never really talked about it that I'll be getting all into activities and I catch myself consciously holding back and trying not to talk dirty because I'm not sure how this person feels about dirty talk, how much of it they like, or just how dirty they like it. "Oh baby, your cock feels so good." is way different than say "Whose dirty little whore am I?" or "Fuck me until your hot jizz fills my shit hole you dirty bastard." Haha (and no I don't speak greek - it's just an example).

2dogs · 09-24-2016, 10:59 PM

I love talking dirty with a woman(both of us talking).

Guest072918 · 09-25-2016, 06:29 AM

I love dirty talk when it is genuine and appropriate. Don't tell me you love my balls slapping against your pussy when they are cold and pulled up tight. But do tell me what you like and what it feels like. And phrases like "There - don't stop!", "FUCK ME HARDER!!". "DEEPER!! FASTER!!" are just what I am waiting for and will likely bring me over the edge very quickly as I do my best to oblige.

And, if I am having a hard time cumming during fellatio, just tell me that you want my hot cum down your throat just before taking my cock down your throat will always bring me to completion.

And, all of us guys appreciate feedback during cunnilingus. When it starts working, let us know. When you want something different, let us know. When you want us to not stop, LET US KNOW!! Each of you ladies has your own combination to unlock your pleasures and feedback helps both of us get there together.

SneakyCancer · 09-25-2016, 02:00 PM

In the back of my mind, I think if she stays quiet I can last longer......but the fact is dirty talk keeps the mood right. Always welcome what we are doing right and how one is hitting the spot.

Now if your referring to bitch give me that pussy or suck that dick you dirty "garden tool" .....well I don't play talk like that. I will say give me that big ole booty, bounce that ass, wet pussy and hell yeah!!!!

James1588 · 09-25-2016, 08:00 PM

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Originally Posted by xxxalyssaxxx

... "Oh baby, your cock feels so good." is way different than say "Whose dirty little whore am I?" or "Fuck me until your hot jizz fills my shit hole you dirty bastard." ...

Good point. With someone like me who's sort of literal-minded, that first one (declaring that my cock is gratifying) would be productive. But if you asked me whose "dirty little whore" you are, I'd be inclined to argue that you're nice and clean and that "whore" is an ugly word. And, even if for some reason Greek-language lessons were in progress, that last one would just get me giggling ... which is a well-proven erection dissolver. Fun, yes, but then we have to start all over. Which, I guess, isn't a bad thing, either.

xxxalyssaxxx · 09-26-2016, 08:03 AM

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Originally Posted by James1588

Good point. With someone like me who's sort of literal-minded, that first one (declaring that my cock is gratifying) would be productive. But if you asked me whose "dirty little whore" you are, I'd be inclined to argue that you're nice and clean and that "whore" is an ugly word. And, even if for some reason Greek-language lessons were in progress, that last one would just get me giggling ... which is a well-proven erection dissolver. Fun, yes, but then we have to start all over. Which, I guess, isn't a bad thing, either.

Hahaha. I know what you mean, and others are like the dirtier the better. The vast array of responses I've gotten on the different boards has definitely reiterated for me that it's a subject that needs to be discussed more with friends. It can be so much fun as long as everyone's limits are learned, observed, and respected.

Hobgoblin · 09-26-2016, 09:06 AM

The way I behaive (spelling) is generally light hearted and goofey, I ask silly questions because I don't want it to get too serious .

. If I had it all my own way , how do I say this, I have a mean streak. Didn't always, it was a gift from an ex girlfriend.

ok I've re written this like 4 times now so here's the short short version I'd rather say things like "come here you piece of shit whore" while grabbing her by the hair and spitting in her face.

what I want to hear is agreement and asking to be punished

. Can't do it though because its not nice , why be an asshole to someone that is innocent. So you gals get happy fun guy

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joesmo888 · 09-26-2016, 11:59 AM

guys are visual obviously, but I love dirty talk. providers should do that more often just don't go overboard like a hollywood porn

thecooldude · 09-27-2016, 07:37 PM

Dirty talking is a complete turn on for me. I love it when a woman is confident enough to tell me how good her pussy is...during foreplay and while I'm banging her. The more verbal she is the harder I will come.

Mike_Rach · 09-28-2016, 06:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Woodford

I love dirty talk when it is genuine and appropriate. Don't tell me you love my balls slapping against your pussy when they are cold and pulled up tight. But do tell me what you like and what it feels like. And phrases like "There - don't stop!", "FUCK ME HARDER!!". "DEEPER!! FASTER!!" are just what I am waiting for and will likely bring me over the edge very quickly as I do my best to oblige.

And, if I am having a hard time cumming during fellatio, just tell me that you want my hot cum down your throat just before taking my cock down your throat will always bring me to completion.

And, all of us guys appreciate feedback during cunnilingus. When it starts working, let us know. When you want something different, let us know. When you want us to not stop, LET US KNOW!! Each of you ladies has your own combination to unlock your pleasures and feedback helps both of us get there together.

This right here. I'm not into degrading dirty talk, like "you dirty slut," but things like Woodford mentioned. Throw in genuine comments about me and my cock in the moment like "I love your hard cock." Maybe not 100% genuine, but based in reality anyways.

When I complement a provider, it's a genuine compliment. I know I'm just renting time, but I'll still be a gentleman about it - a dirty gentleman.

Big echo on letting us know what works cunnilingus and fucking. Sometimes we can tell, like when breathing gets heavier and hips bucking more, sometimes we don't. I can always get off, but it's better when I can get you off too.