Cute Papi shit and full of lies

[WolfWhistle]

Originally Posted by Kendall Kali

I did reach out to providers he mentioned but you don't know the sinking feeling of emptiness where you have nowhere to stay. Don't know who is who. I told a few mods about crap papi but you don't really police your own to keep out the riff raff it's accepted and almost expected there.

Crappy Papi knows what he's doing and you guys are fine with it. Gto you are not him or came across that way. Some people come across decent but there needs to be a way we can rank the gentlemen on keeping their word, harassment, and would we see them again. Otherwise we will always be trapped and repeating each other's mistakes

Moderators normally don't do their job that well. They are volunteers so it's expected. They don't outright indefinitely ban cute papi because of the running idea that it's best to keep the monster visible and keep him contained by not allowing him run havoc with different aliases. If a girl checks up on cute papi through a search before seeing him she will find a lot of info about his shenanigans and his bad character. But sadly the newbie girls don't do their homework. All they have to do is search for his name in Eccie and read. A lot of the eccie users have regularly mentioned his name in their posts as a reminder to girls that the monster is still out there. Also, I think there is a girl's powder room area where bad apples are posted.

[the cute papi]

Originally Posted by Kendall Kali

Now that i'm at home still broke and no longer fearing for my life. I will give you the whole truth and nothing but the truth so help me Jesus!

I came stopped in Houston planning to make alittle money to make it to Miami. I posted to backpage which what I knew was similar to nighshift in Cali. I got contacted by this lovely gentleman name dr paul and he offered to take me to dinner and get me off backpage and onto eccie and p411. I thought he was crazy to pay me for my time and not ask for anything behind closed doors. Then I took this offer for $300 and when i got there, it was five large men saying I was going to see all them at the same time. I ran into the restroom and cried and cried. I needed the money but didn't know what to do and called Paul. He picked me up, took me to eat, gave me what he had on him, got me a room, showed me eccie and said i needed to get off backpage and get on here.

I was contacted by so many people so quick, I deleted my ad and changed my number before posting here. I thought papi cutie was dr paul when he contacted me and I wanted to see him again and thought coming on here would get that. But I confused him between gtoman's texts. It was so much for me and I just needed somewhere to stay and something to eat. When the short man showed up, I knew it wasn't paul but i saw him anyways but didn't know it was papi cutie he used a different number and name when i asked. I was so confused but didn't want to use an agency as I wanted to keep all the money i made. After being sleazed, humiliated, hunted, and now haunted, I left right after the meeting. Paul reached out to me but I didn't believe it was him. I posted on backpage and made as little as I could to make it back to Cali. Now I'm still broke, scared shitless of texas and didnt make it to Miami. I now will only see select men unlike the randoms i used to see. I missed out on a great guy and maybe a few others. But honestly eccie isn't safe for new girls like me that just need to get by until i can back on my feet again. There are the same people with different accounts with different numbers its so hard to keep track. In my heart i know not all of you can be so horrible but you need to help us new girls from not seeing certain people maybe a welcome crew? welcome package? pair us up with people who know better! but i'm not coming back. Take it for what it is unless you're paul or have a genuine heart please stop contacting me. I was told Austin and Dallas are better places to try next time but i may have PTSD after my papi experience. If i didn't need the money I would have never saw him. If i had a choice i would have earned the $300 to have never met him.

please have a heart and dont do this to the next girl who is trying to stay alive. this is not out of choice but necessity. I had one good experience but now i'm here and he wont respond. for whatever i did, i'm sorry please text me if you see this.

" but the short man showed up" im assuming I'm the short man. We did an outcall. so how did I show up? You didn't know it was me until I posted my review so obviously I didn't do any of the bullshit or look like what the members here paint me as. You even told me to keep in touch after our session...

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by StinkyFingers

Luke is a RL first name.

Benefit of the doubt. Perhaps what you meant to write was:

"Pedro mi Amor please stay humble Like you are & a sweetheart"

There ya go, perfectly reasonable explanation, a typo, major disaster averted.
I love it when a thriller ends happily.
But as to the rest of this thread's crisis... I wish the lassie well wherever she is, but she needs to learn a lot more about safety and the hobby before venturing far from her comfort zone, and how each market and its risks vary widely. Research, research, research!

[rmrstyle23]

Well at least you're safe and alive that is most important. I hope you learned your lesson and never repeat this again

[StinkyFingers]

Originally Posted by WolfWhistle

I am not putting the blame on one guy. I saying that a lot of people in Houston suck as people. The problem with cute papi is that this guy is developing a pattern. This isn't the first time he pulled this stunt on a provider. He's being doing it for awhile. It's safe to say that he is a bad apple.

Originally Posted by Kendall Kali

I did reach out to providers he mentioned but you don't know the sinking feeling of emptiness where you have nowhere to stay. Don't know who is who. I told a few mods about crap papi but you don't really police your own to keep out the riff raff it's accepted and almost expected there.

Crappy Papi knows what he's doing and you guys are fine with it. Gto you are not him or came across that way. Some people come across decent but there needs to be a way we can rank the gentlemen on keeping their word, harassment, and would we see them again. Otherwise we will always be trapped and repeating each other's mistakes

This is what happens when you advertise on BP and don't have any way to screen potential clients ... Obviously, Papi was not the only scary, bad experience you had here in Houston.

It's not at all that this behaviour is condoned, but the guys who do this kind of thing know that they can pull this shit on unsuspecting new girls on BP who don't do any screening.

Kendall, you really need to get yourself set up on P411, which you can use in any city and you can avoid this type of problem for the most part. Although, guys like Papi also have accounts on P411, but the odds are substantially reduced that they would pull that kind of crap since they know the APB's will get around the Provider pool and they'll get rejected when they try to make appointments.

Bad as it sounds like this experience was, you're lucky it wasn't even worse. There's some crazy, for shit people in this world.

[Fallout4]

Wow this is crazy. Seriously sad to hear this happened to you Hun. Wish you had a better experience here in Texas, but glad you made it back home safe and sound! Sorry you didn't see some of the southern gentleman that are on this board.

[JayLog]

That's terrible! Can't believe how people treat each other in this world.
You don't deserve anything but dignity and respect, Kendall. You are a beautiful woman! There are good, kind gentlemen out there. Here's hoping that that is all you find from here on out!
Wishing you the best. Be safe!

[junglemonkey]

Papi, just put out the tapes. The recordings will clear your name.

[Guest021817-2]

I just had an awesome BM... It was more satisfying than this shit.

[Slitlikr]

ROS please! ^^^

[Brooke Wilde]

Originally Posted by lookn4boobies

I just had an awesome BM... It was more satisfying than this shit.

Thanks for saving me from eating this cheeseburger. You're a good man.

[WolfWhistle]

Originally Posted by StinkyFingers

It's not at all that this behaviour is condoned, but the guys who do this kind of thing know that they can pull this shit on unsuspecting new girls on BP who don't do any screening.

get yourself set up on P411, which you can use in any city and you can avoid this type of problem for the most part.
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Cute papi also have victims in Eccie so it's not like other web sites have some kind of special immunity from problematic people.

P411, eccie, BP, TER, and other web sites will likely share the same members. It's true that there are safety measures for girls using P411, eccie and TER but nothing is ever full-proof. Also, P411 has some of the most private clients out there. Private because they demand talents of the strangest kind so don't be surprised if there are a few weirdos lurking within P411. All a girl needs to do is to be more diligent in checking out a potential client even if it takes some time doing so and seems like a waste of time.

[Pedro Nesta]

Puro Pendejos! Learn how to read context clues. Just to clear things up. Azebella made a simple typo. She meant to write "like" not "Luke". I think one typo in a post is completely acceptable compared to the million most of you write in only one sentence. However thank you all for those that brought it up and for the dude that pm'ed me about it. Looking out for others is a dying characteristic these days. Besides, when in the fuck has anyone ever met a brown skinned man named Luke???

[Tony Gambino]

Originally Posted by junglemonkey

Papi, just put out the tapes. The recordings will clear your name.

He's reviewing the tapes as we speak......with a hand full of lube, and life free from worry because of his secret vaccine.......his folks were illuminati members.......ask him, he'll tell ya about it......creeper

[StinkyFingers]

Originally Posted by WolfWhistle

Cute papi also have victims in Eccie so it's not like other web sites have some kind of special immunity from problematic people.

P411, eccie, BP, TER, and other web sites will likely share the same members. It's true that there are safety measures for girls using P411, eccie and TER but nothing is ever full-proof. Also, P411 has some of the most private clients out there. Private because they demand talents of the strangest kind so don't be surprised if there are a few weirdos lurking within P411. All a girl needs to do is to be more diligent in checking out a potential client even if it takes some time doing so and seems like a waste of time.

The difference is: On P411 you either have to be vouched in by established P411 ladies who go through a rigorous screening process themselves or you yourself have to give P411 enough of your RL info to pass their screening.

ECCIE and TER are open to anyone who has access to the Internet, which is everyone ... there is no screening whatsoever. The only safety measures for ladies using ECCIE is that they have the ability to post publicly who the bad actors are for all to see. That does nothing to keep the bad actors off of the site, nor from having multiple handles.