PSE or GFE? Why not both?

[Guest072918]

Originally Posted by TraciMae

Our beloved Mr.Woodford while having my masters and not quite a phd I couldn't agree more.While doing double sessions with Heidi I have seen the amazing effects she has with Bbbj.If I was a gentleman she would most definitely be my favorite.

I couldn't agree more, Traci. She is definitely not your typical GFE; she takes fellatio to a whole new level of cock worship and adoration. I now have a glimpse of what heaven must be like. You are lucky to have such a master teach you about the intricacies of pleasing a man orally.

[gimme_that]

My take is....."My girlfriend fucks me like a pornstar."

I like sensuous gfe sessions and I wouldn't want less than that when seeing someone. But I book multihours not for the sensuality so much, it's merely just the appetizer........I want someone who's gonna overwhelm and please me sexually with a good fuck ultimately whether she's gfe or pse.

I can honestly tell you in the middle of the night on overnights.......yeah I may start kissing a chick on the neck, going down on her, or touching or massaging her body...........but believe me the overall intention is to fuck and fuck well and often.

pse can mean different things on different websites and different things to providers in general. Both gfe and pse are serviced based and attitude and I wish people didn't gloss over that. If you don't kiss or doesn't do bbbj, doesn't cuddle or allow digit play, doesn't allow msog, and don't allow daty I don't believe a lady can claim to be gfe or pse in the hobby. Cause I certainly wouldn't have a girlfriend who wasn't down with any of this.

As far as pse for me, it's moreso about attitude than services......but at minimum she has to be gfe. It's a more spirited and taxing sexual session than some are accustomed to. If a lady advertises she pse most times just based on prior pse ladies I'd assume she would do Cim or swallowing at the very least, maybe cum on face, videos, etc. Just stuff a tad more risqué and raunchy than gfe. But generally for me I want a mix of both. I basically want a snugglefucker lol.

[gimme_that]

1. On backpage (seems pse can mean multiple things)

A. most times when ladies advertise "pse" it's simply a ploy to up charge for Greek or to say it's available.

B. Other times its just to up charge for services not offered to most. Some disguise it from going from being cbj only to bbbj. Other take it further and offer bbfs. They also use terms like VIP session for those offers.

Generally paying an uncharge for anything in the hobby hasn't yielded me having better service. I'd rather a lady be in her comfort zone. Cause if you have to pay her extra for her to like something......she probably merely just tolerates it only.....and that's less fun.

C. Lastly on backpage pse simply is hobby speak for Greek is offered.

2. Generally when I see pse in eccie provider title ads.

A. im all but expecting at minimum she does cum in mouth and / or swallowing, daty, allows msog and welcomes and promotes it, she has a lot of sexual stamina and can run through multiple sexual positions without any or much difficulty, etc. Video and Greek would still be home with me. But if any one of those of the former are missing I would not consider them pse.

B. She has to have a bit of a flair to her and see younger clients as well especially via reviews. Don't advertise that your pse to the max classy and we'll refined.......but have an age range of client who probably won't be into pse sessions mostly. When I see age ranges or rules that say fourty and up......but she's advertises pse I find it hilarious.

C. And sadly some ladies and gents assume when pse is offered in an ad it's code for bbfs. Which of course it isn't. But many times when I booked ladies for a gfe pse type overnight.......many have asked me what that entailed and thought based on assumption pse was more unsafe activities. When that's not the case at all. But there is a large group of guys in other bigger cities in Texas who assume pse means vip. So I always clarify what I want and what I'm seeking.

One lady's gfe or pse session is another ladys nightmare lol. Pse is not for the faint of heart . . . . . . . and most wouldn't need to get to know someone to take it there. You either have that drive an ambition toward providing sexual fulfillment to the max or you don't.

Gfe is based more by how I felt mentally moreso than physical about the experience. Pse is more based on how my mind and more principally my body feels after some extreme pse sex. If I can't cum anymore, have my pipes cleaned, I'm a little sore, and lethargic from all the activity from the previous night or weekend . . . . . thats pse.

Both elements of pse and gfe would get me to repeat with a provider or treat them differently. Pse will make me come back, but both gfe and pse will sustain me past two visits. So the gfe element is still important and moreso pertinent.

But If a provider is too pse it gets too physical and mechanical with me and wouldn't make me look forward to see them as often. I'd be happy by the session and satisfaction.......but I wouldn't feel good about the vibe days later. A type of connection of some sort is needed for me. I know I'm a client or trick, but I don't want to be treated like a client when I see a provider.

[cafriend]

This is a rhetorical question!

Originally Posted by gimme_that

Gimme

Pse meanings in different venues.

[Contralto]

Originally Posted by gimme_that

... I know I'm a client or trick, but I don't want to be treated like a client when I see a provider.

True that. Start giving me do's and don'ts and boundaries and I'll fly like the wind. I prefer FWB over PSE or GFE.

[Adaline]

So MY differences:
GFE- I'm am the sweet romantic girlfriend with passion and amazing sex about to hit you like an accidental explosion of fireworks, then talking and laughing or some more sweet seductive palytime!
PSE- I'm going to walk in drop to me knees and immediately start pleasing you, stand up push you down on the bed and ride as hard as I can until we move to the table or desk and I'm bent over with you using my hips as handles talking dirty to me, begging for you to blow all over me.

I guess I don't up charge for either/or bc I just don't want to. Msog, cof, cot, its all part of the fun!
Although greek is not exactly on my menu full time, that I can see adding a little since it takes souch more time to prep ourselves lol

Just my 2cents! ;-)

[Guest072918]

Originally Posted by addison_scott

So MY differences:
GFE- I'm am the sweet romantic girlfriend with passion and amazing sex about to hit you like an accidental explosion of fireworks, then talking and laughing or some more sweet seductive palytime!
PSE- I'm going to walk in drop to me knees and immediately start pleasing you, stand up push you down on the bed and ride as hard as I can until we move to the table or desk and I'm bent over with you using my hips as handles talking dirty to me, begging for you to blow all over me.
;-)

Ohh My Goodness, Addie, I like the way you think. Both of those sound so damn enticing!! While I prefer GFE most of the time, a little PSE thrown in every now and then really can spice things up!!