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TheCat'sMeow · 04-07-2016, 01:05 AM

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Originally Posted by BIGSEXY7852

Just curious if any providers or hobbyist would ever want to know each other outside the hobby? I would imagine that common interests exist outside of this. Many may think that this is just a Fuctard question. It may well be, but curious about your thoughts.

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Guest032117 · 04-07-2016, 08:52 AM

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Originally Posted by BIGSEXY7852

Not talking about on the job. There is more to life than the 'job'. I meet people at work that I hate, but put up with because I have to. I also meet people at work with similar interests and I get to know and enjoy their company off the job. Many are clients that I work with and charge for my professional services.

You make good points here. Case in point: A few months ago I read about some gents meeting up at strip club. I honestly really enjoy strip clubs. So I sent a PM to see if I could hang out as well. Did I ask for compensation? No. Did they ask for me to give a freebie? No. But did we enjoy the fun of the excursion in a friendly way? Yes.

GlobeSpotter · 04-07-2016, 09:01 AM

Hi BS (that's short for BigSexy....)

We are looking forward to your first review.

LexusLover · 04-07-2016, 09:08 AM

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Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter

Hi BS (that's short for BigSexy....)

We are looking forward to your first review.

Some folks are looking forward to the lotto winnings, also.

LexusLover · 04-07-2016, 09:09 AM

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Originally Posted by YummyMarie

But did we enjoy the fun of the excursion in a friendly way? Yes.

You're different.

ICU 812 · 04-07-2016, 09:11 AM

I have been with providers (and had a great time) , but later wished that instead we knew each other outside of the hobby in a Real-World setting such as a carpool etc.

BIGSEXY7852 · 04-07-2016, 09:28 AM

Thank you. Someone with sense. Because I've made reference to two providers, some think I'm pimping or stalking. Just from a simple question. I always see the same 'boys' on here and nothing but 'how can I best' the last comment or make it look stupid. Most of the providers are so jealous of each other. And whoa be to anyone new that trys to get involved in any way. 'Just fresh meat for the slaughter'. There is no whining from me, just stating a fact. I really don't give a shit about what you think about me or what I say. I've noticed that a lot of providers don't bother with this site. No wonder. This is just a message board for a select few to attempt to strut there stuff. Apparently a dick (?) is all you have going for ya.

Now most of the providers say 'no vulgar language will be tolerated' on the ads. Why do you tolerate it here? I hope the pricks on here doing this are worth the money. There appears to be some "ladies" on here that chose this as a profession and enjoy what they do. More power to you and thank you for your service. The rest just need to go away and leave it to the real pro's.

I am leaving this site which most will applaud, because this is not a place to have any kind of constructive discussion. Good luck to the true professionals and FUCK the rest of y'all. The BIG SEXY.

Guest032117 · 04-07-2016, 09:37 AM

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Originally Posted by LexusLover

You're different.

I'll take that as a compliment

Best wishes to you, Big Sexy!

BIGSEXY7852 · 04-07-2016, 09:44 AM

Definite compliment, but that doesn't mean I'm pimping or stalking you. Wish we could have met under different circumstances. Later

Victoria of Houston · 04-07-2016, 02:18 PM

Firstly, you can't let the attitudes and lewd jokes here get to you....if you want to be involved in co-ed discussions, it is all part of the "fun". Lols.

Seriously though, most of these guys are harmless and it is all in good fun....most of the time. As far as language, if co-ed isn't for cursing like a motherfucker, then I don't know where else is, ha.

To answer your question though, I've definitely had a stronger connection with certain people over the years...it is only natural that it should happen. I don't think it's crazy to think that a client/provider relationship could extended outside of the session, even if it is just as "friends", and I am willing to bet more ladies have done this, without ever talking about it.

However, don't be surprised or disappointed if that never happens for you. Most ladies are strictly business and would stop said relationships from forming before they even began.

Not trying to be mean or rude, it's just the reality of this little world we are in.

BIGSEXY7852 · 04-07-2016, 02:50 PM

Victoria, thanks. A great answer. The kinda response I had hoped to get. I am not looking for that, just throwing it out there to see what sticks and what can be flushed. Again thanks and hope it stirs up more conversation. I thought this was the basis for this site.

chicagoboy · 04-07-2016, 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by BIGSEXY7852

I am leaving this site which most will applaud, because this is not a place to have any kind of constructive discussion. Good luck to the true professionals and FUCK the rest of y'all. The BIG SEXY.

Still here?

Victoria of Houston · 04-07-2016, 02:58 PM

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Originally Posted by BIGSEXY7852

Victoria, thanks. I thought this was the basis for this site.

You're welcome....and it is. These men love to de-rail though, as said, you can't let it get to you, lols.

I will send you a PM as well hun.

Guest092816 · 04-07-2016, 03:37 PM

This ain't a stupid question at all... Some providers feel like this is a "job" & some enjoy it like a "hobby" . there's a guy on here who works 24/7 I have no idea when he sleeps and is in Houston for work. I remember it was his birthday & invited him to some homemade Cuban food a little birthday cake and some company. No I didn't charge him by my choice. In my opinion my answer to your question is yes...

Also our troll in Houston are only showing you love . don't take it to the heart ...

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Originally Posted by BIGSEXY7852

Just curious if any providers or hobbyist would ever want to know each other outside the hobby? I would imagine that common interests exist outside of this. Many may think that this is just a Fuctard question. It may well be, but curious about your thoughts.

Guest092816 · 04-07-2016, 03:40 PM

perfect example: YM enjoy this is & wasn't expecting something in return because it was something that she also enjoys doing...

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Originally Posted by YummyMarie

You make good points here. Case in point: A few months ago I read about some gents meeting up at strip club. I honestly really enjoy strip clubs. So I sent a PM to see if I could hang out as well. Did I ask for compensation? No. Did they ask for me to give a freebie? No. But did we enjoy the fun of the excursion in a friendly way? Yes.