No Big Surprise

[busternutzs]

Its guess it no big surprise that the ladies do post threads on male members just as the guys do about providers either on BP or ECCIE.

In my attempt to make contact, gather intel with my usual line of questioning as to rates, service to be offered, and a request for height weight bra and cup size as, and pictures. In an effort to arrange a possible meeting with a new provider that is connected to an ECCIE VP and using only one cell phone which belongs to the ECCIE VP.

After a few days of sparse and limited communication without going into the details of our texting and who was right or wrong, who was rude and so forth lets just things came to an unpleasant ending after I told the new provider I would post my findings on ECCIE.

To make a long story short I was told by the VP there are existing treads about me. This was no surprise because I had already been informed there had been complaints about me from both side of the fence (guys and gals) and that she would be making additional posts about me as well as contacting the administrator.

To paraphrase things I told the VP to be my guess make the posts and please do contact the administrator.

I could have chosen not to post this to keep it quite or posted it in private in the Mens Lounge but here it is in public for all to see so that guys will know there maybe more wrtten about them that they are aware of or know.

So watch out and mind your manners unlike me.

[john_deere]

anybody who thinks the ladies don't talk amongst themselves is an idiot.

[D_Friday]

You know it would be beneficial to know who we're talking about. And it does matter what y'all got crosswise about. If she has a valid gripe, well... On the other hand if she's blacklisting you out of spite, exaggerating or manufacturing offenses, well, then we need to know that.

If there's a possibility that I might get blacklisted as a consequence of making reasonable inquiries with a certain provider, and rubbing her the wrong way, then do tell me who that provider is.

[busternutzs]

The unpleasantness erupted after the final text from the new girl and what I perceived to be a nonchalant attitude. Then my following informing text her that I would post my findings on ECCIE. That's when the VP took control of the cell and conversation.

I don't think it is a matter of getting blacklisted because of my inquiries. It was that the VP thought I threatened her friend when said I would post the intel.

[Keyhole Arc Blow]

I was under the impression that ladies usually don't talk about guys in the lady only subforums, unless it was like an alert thing about an unsafe guy etc. I was given that impression because a few ladies have said as much, I don't really remember if it was on the WT forums or national though.

I guess now I know how the ladies feel cause I'm curious what gets posted there lol.

[Three Piece Chicken Dinne]

While there are exceptions, the ladies are nowhere near as unionized as we are.

[kami405]

Just my opinion..you all know I have one...lol

The ladies may talk..but because of huge insecurities and the fact that almost none get along....unless something is said by one of my girlfriends....it's just fodder for the chickens.

If it's an alert....that is taken more seriously.

Let's be honest, not everyone in the hobby is going to get along and like each other.