Risk. I consider the primary purpose for anyone to use this site to be about managing risk.

[Whispers]

Managing the Risk involved in selecting the right Provider that will meet your needs.

Managing the Risk involved in meeting a client for the first time.

Managing the Risk involved meeting at an incall.

Managing the Risk involved in meeting at an outcall.

Managing the Risk involved in seeing someone of questionable age.


Everyone has different levels of comfort and willingness to accept risks.

- Some guys love the idea of going "first" and jump at the chance to see new girls accepting the Risk of a disappointing session. Others sit back and wait for positive reports.

- Some guys will never see a lady that will not post a face pic. Other's only care about the body shots.

- Some ladies have No AA Policies. Some see all comers.



I will be the first to acknowledge that we all see Risks differently and what is incredibly risky for some, other's are not remotely concerned about.


I would like to see where my idea's of Risk line up with other's in the community.

One example for me is the Risk that comes with walking into a room and laying down an envelope filled with cash for someone I do not know and have never met before. I manage this Risk personally by never handing over cash until the end of a Session.

My choice in that rules out many ladies that insist on being paid up front. My reward is that I've never been ripped off.


I have other concerns as well as what I feel constitutes risk and would like to hear from others.

[albundy]

The entire "hobby" is a risk. Condoms aren't 100%. The girl might have something that she doesn't even know about. Sometimes it might be a sting or a setup to rob or beat you. Hell, putting your cock into a stranger's teeth-filled mouth is risky. Who knows her mental state. One chomp down and John Wayne Bobbitt news story for you.

All we can do is minimize the risk. Use a rubber, go with a well reviewed verified provider. Do your homework.

If you enjoy risk, try street walkers. They generally hang out in "seedy" areas of town, have a "forbidden topic" going on, have pimps, are looking to scam you, usually haven't bathed, you're easy to spot by cops because you're out in the open in a known area for that. Try your luck with that if you're into danger.

[RandB fan]

Life is a bitch, then you marry one and you no longer get what makes you happy.

This site is a work around for sexual happiness. The level in which you are willing to lower yourself to, dollars you will spend, gets you what you pay for. Being discrete in a relationship or being open is your choice. I personally asked the questions in a drunken situation and got the info I needed. *** do not hobby for a while after doing this if you hear negative comments. Positive comments means it may be time to find a provider who does couples LOL

I personally used a national escort agency that sent providers to my city often. I would furnish the escort with a rental car (exotic) and get an hour of her time as the first customer of her visit. I play with cars so getting a rental was dirt cheap and all the paperwork was in her name. Tit for splat, see mad man, as I call it.

[Tiffani Jameson]

Originally Posted by albundy

The entire "hobby" is a risk. Condoms aren't 100%. The girl might have something that she doesn't even know about. Sometimes it might be a sting or a setup to rob or beat you. Hell, putting your cock into a stranger's teeth-filled mouth is risky. Who knows her mental state. One chomp down and John Wayne Bobbitt news story for you.

All we can do is minimize the risk. Use a rubber, go with a well reviewed verified provider. Do your homework.

If you enjoy risk, try street walkers. They generally hang out in "seedy" areas of town, have a "forbidden topic" going on, have pimps, are looking to scam you, usually haven't bathed, you're easy to spot by cops because you're out in the open in a known area for that. Try your luck with that if you're into danger.

I agree with this. Your ideals about risk say a lot about you and the company you keep. This site in and of itself does nothing to minimize risk for women.

You guys write lies to become "acceptable" to meet and build up a false sense of credibility. Or write them for women to seem more popular. This place is merely a mall. And most are shopping for someone naive to take advantage of.

And as far as my risk is concerned, I minimize that by screening, not only for LE, but for compatibility. In turn, my clients are more comfortable, and we're less nervous.

I don't worry about getting robbed or shorted because my clients genuinely want to pay me. And it's usually somewhere I can see it because they want to put me at ease. But I rarely go for it until after anyway. Even when it's not where I can see it, I have rarely been worried about not getting paid.

[Wakeup]

Managing risk has absolutely nothing to do with why I use this site...

Anyone who honestly believes that anything on this site truely manages any risk to them is a fucking moron...

[Majichands]

I MOST CERTAINLY want to comment on this GREAT THREAD ... And will tell every provider I Know to read it...Good Job and Tiffany X 1000.
I can't respond how I wish right now cause I am packing to go to Chicago for Halloween to celebrate Rockin Robins 44th birthday she is a Halloween baby.
But I will get back to this very great thread and take the time it deserves to respond accordingly.

I TRULY LOVE THIS BOARD

[Come_and_gone]

Originally Posted by Wakeup

Managing risk has absolutely nothing to do with why I use this site...

Anyone who honestly believes that anything on this site truely manages any risk to them is a fucking moron...

I know I'm relatively new, but could you please explain what makes you go from zero to insults at the drop of a hat? I'm constantly surprised by your lack of civility in post after post. Maybe I come from a place that values courtesy and other people more highly. Or maybe you are justified and there is something I am missing. If so, I may well owe you an apology.

Either way, this site obviously offers tools to manage risk. The reviews and the community and the opportunity for references make both providers and hobbyists safer than if we were all crawling the street. Do you honestly believe that Eccie provides zero risk mitigation? I am genuinely curious.

[Wakeup]

No.

[Iron Butterfly]

Life is a risk but most choose to do it then not!

IB

[maxgame2]

Agree with you we all have different levels of what is acceptable. I do agree with the donation part tho.