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twinhoot · 10-04-2015, 09:36 AM

After seeing 3 providers in one morning, do I have some sort of addiction. After getting involved in the "lifestyle" as I have seen it referred to, for about 1.5 years I wonder what the hell is up with me. It seems like providers are the only ones that are in touch with the hidden truth about how men feel abour sex. I am starting to question what is even real. Or is it all just fun and games. Lol anyone else ever think about this.

DallasRain · 10-04-2015, 09:54 AM

quote--It seems like providers are the only ones that are in touch with the hidden truth about how men feel abour sex.

I have found that to be true!

I think it is due to our "wanting to make sure a man is totally satisfied" sexually speaking.
Some providers do it solely for the money *& don't really care about theiir clients....
But others of us do this for both the money AND the pleasure or the power feelings we get from making a man writhe in ecstacy! This makes us more in-tune to a man's needs & wants! We appreciate a man and we show him!

Miss Godiva · 10-04-2015, 09:51 PM

Agreed Rain!

DallasRain · 10-04-2015, 10:35 PM

I had been in "the swinglifestyle" for over 15 years and was quite "the hostess with the mostest" in Arizona...lol! I am no longer in "that lifestyle",but I am & have been in an open relationship for about 30 years and have a great sex life at home.....I also can say that the "hobby" is my "sex drug"...I get a power trip to being "an old lady who can still rock a man's world"!! LOL

bluffcityguy · 10-05-2015, 05:10 AM

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Originally Posted by DallasRain

I had been in "the swinglifestyle" for over 15 years and was quite "the hostess with the mostest" in Arizona...lol! I am no longer in "that lifestyle",but I am & have been in an open relationship for about 30 years and have a great sex life at home.....I also can say that the "hobby" is my "sex drug"...I get a power trip to being "an old lady who can still rock a man's world"!! LOL

Apropos terminology: Maybe I lead a sheltered life, but I've found that references to "the lifestyle" almost always are references to swinging (well, always in my experience; I say "almost" as a CYA weasel in case someone comes up with a reference proving me wrong).

When referring to the practice of visiting providers, the preferred term seems to be "the hobby". I think the OP may be the first person I've seen to use the term "lifestyle" to refer to the hobby.

(But as I say, I may lead a sheltered life...)

Cheers,

bcg

twinhoot · 10-19-2015, 07:30 AM

You are right, I think I used the wrong term and referring more to "the hobby". I always get nomenclature wrong! I guess I was really asking one of the eternal questions like is everyone else really like me or am I different. I know people think about sex a lot but I sure ad hell do. One of the things that draws me to providers is there honesty about sex. They know this is really the most important thing in life, and yea I'm OK with paying for it.

fredtheenigma · 10-19-2015, 08:45 AM

Twinhoot, we're still looking forward to your contributions. Reviews are an important part of the "information exchange" that ECCIE is all about.

twinhoot · 10-19-2015, 12:36 PM

Well part of my problem with doing an official review is I am so damn computer/smart phone dumb. I don't know how to make the hyperlink for the ad on back page or wherever. I was actually thinking of paying for a membership just to read the rest of the story section. I still may do that. Or as a instructor said to me years ago get dragged in the computer age kicking and screaming!!!

Guest123018-2 · 10-21-2015, 04:50 PM

I do have to be honest here and add my two cents worth lol.
I think about sex and dirty things almost constantly. I always thought I was different than most women and have to admit I have found very few like me. I figured out several years ago I'm a kinky lady for sure and my biggest kink is sex with strangers. So I get you off while it gets me off to get you off lol win win for me!

Guest123018-2 · 10-21-2015, 11:41 PM

Btw "the lifestyle" is also refered to BDSM.

twinhoot · 10-22-2015, 06:09 PM

Right. That's kind of what I mean. What I like about providers is they have sex with other people. I love slutty women with few boundaries. I mean there are very few women on the planet I wouldn't have sex with. I don't think most guys think this way or would admit it. I guess I'm looking for women that are as big as a "slut" as I am and providers are as close as I can get. I mean almost every women I have ever talked to, if I was honest, I would have to say I want to screw you right her and now. But that's not the world we live in so.......

DallasRain · 10-22-2015, 06:49 PM

LOl I am a slut provider who also happens to be "the hot slut" when my SO and I go to biker rallies and the honkeytonk!

Guest123018-2 · 10-22-2015, 08:19 PM

Lol Dallas I'm just as much a slut. My SO loves it as much as I do. Him and I go to swingers camp during the summer. Dallas you should join us next year! No clothes the whole weekend.

Guest123018-2 · 10-22-2015, 08:21 PM

And BTW twin if we met and you said you wanted to fuck I'd be up for it lol

DallasRain · 10-22-2015, 09:10 PM

wooohooo Sweet M...sluts unite!!

Twin...how bout a "slut" double...lol...or add Godiva for a "slut" orgy!!!!