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Iron Butterfly · 10-10-2015, 06:31 AM

So I ask the question to both hobbyist and providers. How has the hobby changed since you first started, sexually?

What has changed, are you now able to do MSOG, or has that subsided. Ladies do you have more O's and can DT now, or did you learn how to squirt.

My hobby has changed for me sexually since I first started over ten years ago mostly how I react to sexual stimulation and arousal, and how my body reacts. My very first sexual experience was with a Vegas prostitute at a brothel so the majority of my sexual experience has been with providers. Ten years ago sex with my SO and RW ladies was very plane and nothing like in the hobby. When I found the hobby I explored everything I could imagine sexually and it was an amazing journey. But still RW relationships sexually stayed more plane, just lovemaking and intimate. To this day I have no desire to do the activities I do in the hobby with a RW girlfriend. I can't explain that but it just is. My last GF recently was submissive and I just could not act on that in a RW relationship. Keeping it plane and just lovemaking was what I need in RW GFs.

So being I was out for over three years and comparing how my hobby has changed sexually is very clear. I did have a rough start getting back into the swing. My body was not use to this kind of sex as was my mind also not in the hobby frame, but it did not take long to get back in the grove. The biggest change for me is I can take more. Before I had a hair trigger but learned to control it with lots of practice (thanks ladies).

The biggest change is I can go harder in FS, and have even not been able to cum that way. That was never an option so this is in my opinion fucking awesome, as I can go to town and not worry about loosing it, I'm a one shot pony. I also have a better sense of excitement during, after and beyond. So my hobby has changed for the better as I can experience sex in a more pleasurable and fun way. The other change is it is much funner, I know that's not a real word but it is more fun now.

I have always done well with the reward system. When I work hard and hit the gym hard all week my reward is to play on the weekend. This works very well for me as I have something really fun to look forward to. When I'm idle the fun is really not as rewarding as when I am busy and working for the weekend. So this to has changed and I'm enjoying the rewards both from working hard and hitting the gym, lady play time is getting really good as a result of both.

The "strange" encounters are very exciting (new girl) and this is turning out to be a lot of fun, can't wait for my next stranger.

So how has your hobby changes sexually since you first started?

IB

Bob McV · 10-10-2015, 07:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Iron Butterfly

So I ask the question to both hobbyist and providers. How has the hobby changed since you first started, sexually?

What has changed, are you now able to do MSOG, or has that subsided. Ladies do you have more O's and can DT now, or did you learn how to squirt.

My hobby has changed for me sexually since I first started over ten years ago mostly how I react to sexual stimulation and arousal, and how my body reacts. My very first sexual experience was with a Vegas prostitute at a brothel so the majority of my sexual experience has been with providers. Ten years ago sex with my SO and RW ladies was very plane and nothing like in the hobby. When I found the hobby I explored everything I could imagine sexually and it was an amazing journey. But still RW relationships sexually stayed more plane, just lovemaking and intimate. To this day I have no desire to do the activities I do in the hobby with a RW girlfriend. I can't explain that but it just is. My last GF recently was submissive and I just could not act on that in a RW relationship. Keeping it plane and just lovemaking was what I need in RW GFs.

So being I was out for over three years and comparing how my hobby has changed sexually is very clear. I did have a rough start getting back into the swing. My body was not use to this kind of sex as was my mind also not in the hobby frame, but it did not take long to get back in the grove. The biggest change for me is I can take more. Before I had a hair trigger but learned to control it with lots of practice (thanks ladies).

The biggest change is I can go harder in FS, and have even not been able to cum that way. That was never an option so this is in my opinion fucking awesome, as I can go to town and not worry about loosing it, I'm a one shot pony. I also have a better sense of excitement during, after and beyond. So my hobby has changed for the better as I can experience sex in a more pleasurable and fun way. The other change is it is much funner, I know that's not a real word but it is more fun now.

I have always done well with the reward system. When I work hard and hit the gym hard all week my reward is to play on the weekend. This works very well for me as I have something really fun to look forward to. When I'm idle the fun is really not as rewarding as when I am busy and working for the weekend. So this to has changed and I'm enjoying the rewards both from working hard and hitting the gym, lady play time is getting really good as a result of both.

The "strange" encounters are very exciting (new girl) and this is turning out to be a lot of fun, can't wait for my next stranger.

So how has your hobby changes sexually since you first started?

IB

We get it you are a member of the mile high club

Iron Butterfly · 10-10-2015, 08:25 AM

IB

sue_nami · 10-10-2015, 08:45 AM

I learned about prostate stimulation and butt play for guys. Before this none of my boyfriends every liked it or asked for it. I had not even tried it on a guy; so after age 50 I start this journey and find out that almost all guys my age love it and I had been missing out on a wonderful way to stimulate my partner. now I am very into prostate play but it was a slow start and when first here I didn't even include it in my FBSM. soon i learned how much guys love it and developed my skill and expertise and practice makes perfect. Now I can say that close to 90% of the guys my age or older love this sort of stimulation. I had no idea. Now i can make a guy quiver and shake and say OMG with one finger and it is a real sense of power and joy to do that to a fella.

fun2come · 10-10-2015, 10:14 AM

I don't jerk off to porn any longer - I save it.

Guest061816 · 10-10-2015, 11:31 AM

I don't have to play with myself. My guys take care if me.

Deznuttz · 10-10-2015, 12:56 PM

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Originally Posted by sue_nami

I learned about prostate stimulation and butt play for guys. Before this none of my boyfriends every liked it or asked for it. I had not even tried it on a guy; so after age 50 I start this journey and find out that almost all guys my age love it and I had been missing out on a wonderful way to stimulate my partner. now I am very into prostate play but it was a slow start and when first here I didn't even include it in my FBSM. soon i learned how much guys love it and developed my skill and expertise and practice makes perfect. Now I can say that close to 90% of the guys my age or older love this sort of stimulation. I had no idea. Now i can make a guy quiver and shake and say OMG with one finger and it is a real sense of power and joy to do that to a fella.

Just curious, is it 90 percent of all guys in the world, or just that come to see you? Just saying since you talk about it so much and apparently love it, than maybe the hand full of guys that see you, do so for that reason. Also I feel sorry for them.

FirePhoenix · 10-10-2015, 12:57 PM

For me I learned more about my sexually side, listening to others, my deepest desires, and to have more fun in my life. As time goes on I'm being less reserved onthe issues that am holding myself back on with help from hobbyist. I know now I will never give up the hobby now. I love it and the great people I have met in it. It's change my life and myself for the better.

pussycat · 10-10-2015, 01:01 PM

I have sex with providers the same way I always did it with my gfs going back to High School. The only difference is that I don't have to take them out, buy them dinner, see a movie, or anything. When I get the urge I just call and an hour or so later I'm banging away inside a friendly vagina. Life is good.

TemptationTammie · 10-10-2015, 04:48 PM

I've enjoyed variety outside of the hobby. Now I get it even more. And I love it. There is something exciting about first time, but then again it's also fun getting to know a guy and their limits or testing my limits with them.

Raikage · 10-10-2015, 07:31 PM

Nothing has really changed for me, in the beginning I was really excited to be able to get sex whenever I wanted, but now it's just another part of enjoying life. I can still do it like I've always done it, but being with providers has actually helped me to keep sharp and improve my skills.

Billy Shakes · 10-10-2015, 11:42 PM

When you pay for it (sex) there's a better chance you are gonna get it from the girl of your choice instead of settling for whoever is left at "last call."

RALPHEY BOY · 10-11-2015, 07:44 AM

I have improved upon my DATY skills and a few more things that made me better!!

sue_nami · 10-11-2015, 08:35 AM

denutz you're abnormally concerned with what other do for fun behind closed doors and quick to judge what you do not understand. perhaps, you're worried you're missing something and wonder what everyone else knows you're missing out on? I'm sorry for your insecurities baby we could work on that. Guys find out all kinds of things about themselves when they relax and evolve and learn a new thing or two. chill out and worry about what happens to you at your place and not what happens at my place. I promise not to force u to have more fun and pleasure in your life.

Deznuttz · 10-11-2015, 10:18 AM

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Originally Posted by sue_nami

denutz you're abnormally concerned with what other do for fun behind closed doors and quick to judge what you do not understand. perhaps, you're worried you're missing something and wonder what everyone else knows you're missing out on? I'm sorry for your insecurities baby we could work on that. Guys find out all kinds of things about themselves when they relax and evolve and learn a new thing or two. chill out and worry about what happens to you at your place and not what happens at my place. I promise not to force u to have more fun and pleasure in your life.

Think that's what the board is about. It's about bcd activities being put out there and reviewed and discussed.
I'm curious more than judgemental.