You know I feel ya; dealing with the unexpected rate or weight or who's behind door number 2 when you meet on a blind date; and basically all of these dates are blind dates. I don't care how much you do your research. But the gall of the men here to discuss the comparison of weight, height, physicality to rate disgust me. When you show up with your own flaws, making yourselves freely open to enjoy the gracious amenities that go far and beyond what someone offers you in a smoky moldy notel hotel room (that definitely deserves a discount). I have done that in the past when I got started years ago but I don't use those; no--I choose the highest ranked hotel when traveling or a casino room which is upscale) or host at my upscale home out of respect, discretion and a great environment for you. And that deserves a gift/donation that really is far less than is fair. I keep a clean body, am not thick, am not thin, am not ugly, I have good mannerisms and hospitality and go far and beyond here on the coast than I have in the few years I have served as a companion. For what? a review? NO, for my friends/ my repeats that appreciate it.
I would like to personally thank those that have appreciated, respected, honored, recognized and rewarded me for those things. I in return have rewarded you: lost 20lbs this year, stayed single, very flexible and available, worked with you on donations, hosted several free parties.
The rest of you who want to debate with your little heads, go ahead. But as for me, I can see why many nice quality mature and even younger women have not only left/quit/ gone utr/ or moved. The pettiness or protest or the unsupportive nature MS board "members" have shown these ladies, its no wonder that one can't survive here merely doing this alone with Eccie. Even here and other parts of this country Eccie is not even heard of. So its no wonder bp survives. You use it, ladies use it. The nation uses it.
I have purposely put myself in a financial position not to be needy, greedy, desperate so I date whom I want when asked and give out more no's than yes's for dates and some yes's wish I had said no. I have been so generous with discounts for repeat business, upscale amenities (spending thousands to fix the place up), specials, parties and so forth and so on. But I'm telling you my patience is running thin for those that do not appreciate it or stand me up or play games or ridicule. Some of You don't even know me or had the pleasure so really? I have striven to live drama free and I will not have it in my life now. I don't care if you don't like me, honestly I probably don't like you either. There's a true bond/chemistry that happens with some more than others. It's life.
Being single after several drastic circumstances in my life has given the position to be choosy, freedom to come and go and I'm not far from going...as JAG (tag if I could like on Facebook) said, you have and will lose some quality providers with your stinginess and pompous attitudes if things don't pick up. So I may lower my (as we call them donations) save up, pack up and move on. That's what you want?? haters?
This does not apply to every one of you of course, and I am not comparing myself to anyone at all, although I have met in person quite many of my competitors and I have nothing to be ashamed of. As our former dear friend Flora said we all bring something special to the table. This is just my opinion and my perceptive as an outsider looking in - cause truly I am an outsider - I have no family here, no ties to the community, no real reason to leave or to stay. Or to use ECCIE. The end.
Rate/Weight/Late BS - I'm over it
