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[Three Piece Chicken Dinne]

This seems like the classic West Texas Eccie situation:

-Provider performs less than stellar service

-Provider receives less than stellar feedback

-Provider says WTF to less than stellar feedback

-Hobbyists clearly and plainly explain the basis of the less than stellar feedback

-Provider says the basis of her less than stellar feedback is not her fault and is offended at it

-Chicken lays an egg

-Chicken is hatched from the egg

[Texanbychoice]

Carly. I am about to be a tad gruff.

You have asked a valid question. ALL of us here have attempted to give you good advise very clearly stating the same thing over and over. Obviously its probably the correct answer. Stop acting like a snot nosed teenager who thinks they are never wrong and simply take the advise. It will probably take a couple months and some solid reviews before mongers really beleive the problem is corrected. It wont be a one review and done fix. But once it is fixed. All of us will have a better respect for you, and your name/reputation.

Cuz heres the deal. We would like to schedule and see your hot lil twat. But we wont when you have a denial attitude and superiority complex. Which is how its coming off to me. I would love to snuggle my face in your boobage. But til I read your good to go I am not wasting half a days pay on you.

You can still fix this. Just own it. Grow from it. Change the problem. And mongers will respect that more than your hot lil twat. I at least would rather see a provider who has her shit together and the ability to correct a bad situation than one whose just hot but hit or miss.

Just my 2 cents.

Tbc

[mid123]

My 2 cents on this is that you probably don't belong being a provider. It does not seem like you enjoy having sex with men for a living. In order to thrive and enjoy your life as a provider, you have to love having sex, you have to love and be thrilled with pleasing men sexually, no matter how old or fat or dumb they are (hygeine is the only exception). Or you have to be so damn good at acting like you do that you can fool everyone. I mean Jesus, your profession involves making men cum and in your reviews there are several instances of your avid aversion to cum... Like WTF?? Some men, even some of us eccie mongers, are just paying for the session to get a nut in, but at some point we have hobbied enough or are grown engough or in a certain mood to where we want an enjoyable and passionate or pse or acceptable experience that doesn't include being made to feel like we are disgusting or a nuisance or whatever. Either quit or take these people's advice. At least if you want to be a "GFE" (well defined of course) and respected eccie provider as opposed to BP hit or miss girl. Even if your TCB remained the way it is but your sessions were epic your business would be awesome because we can take one or the other, but not both. My view is that a provider needs to love her job to do well and last, especially in an organized community like eccie. not sure if you fit the criteria. You did well to ask for help but you let your attitude and excuses betray you because I promise you it is no skin off our back to type straight forward messages to a hooker on a hooker board. This isn't the Hooker Support Forum, take your lumps, learn, and move on or move out.

[kami405]

I believe that the client is to be respected. I am thankful that he chose me to fill his time with.
TCB skills are AS important to a good provider as BCD skills.
Always be respectful, prompt, up front and honest, approachable and be willing to run your business like a business. Give references promptly when requested....don't solicit for appointments by texting gentlemen, understand that they have limited time to play where as we are available anytime for the most part.
You should enjoy what you do, I tell people in and out of the hobby, if you don't get some pleasure from your job, find a new one.
You must be fun and approachable, no one wants to spend time and money on someone without a personality. And for me you must ALWAYS be on your game....respond and be available. Remember no one here owes you anything but they are taking their time to try to help you, be appreciative.
If you put customer service at the very TOP of your list you will do fine.
You have asked the question, so the assumption would be that you are open to constructive criticism. No one here (I don't think wishes ill intent) but you have to be willing to make the changes if you want to be successful.
Feel free to ask me any questions, I would be happy to help.

Good luck!

[scsholar]

Originally Posted by as1322

My 2 cents on this is that you probably don't belong being a provider. It does not seem like you enjoy having sex with men for a living. In order to thrive and enjoy your life as a provider, you have to love having sex, you have to love and be thrilled with pleasing men sexually, no matter how old or fat or dumb they are (hygeine is the only exception). Or you have to be so damn good at acting like you do that you can fool everyone. I mean Jesus, your profession involves making men cum and in your reviews there are several instances of your avid aversion to cum... Like WTF?? Some men, even some of us eccie mongers, are just paying for the session to get a nut in, but at some point we have hobbied enough or are grown engough or in a certain mood to where we want an enjoyable and passionate or pse or acceptable experience that doesn't include being made to feel like we are disgusting or a nuisance or whatever. Either quit or take these people's advice. At least if you want to be a "GFE" (well defined of course) and respected eccie provider as opposed to BP hit or miss girl. Even if your TCB remained the way it is but your sessions were epic your business would be awesome because we can take one or the other, but not both. My view is that a provider needs to love her job to do well and last, especially in an organized community like eccie. not sure if you fit the criteria. You did well to ask for help but you let your attitude and excuses betray you because I promise you it is no skin off our back to type straight forward messages to a hooker on a hooker board. This isn't the Hooker Support Forum, take your lumps, learn, and move on or move out.

Sorry but I gotta lol...Hooker Support forum!!!

[carlybabes]

Well thanks for the constructive criticism gentlemen .. and for the guy who insinuated that I don't like sex so I shouldnt be a provider you aren't right on that cuz I absolutely love sex...

[dirt street cowboy]

And I absolutely love the looks of those tits. If you make it to Lubbock, pm me. I will set up a gfe appointment.

[john_deere]

Originally Posted by carlybabes

Well thanks for the constructive criticism gentlemen .. and for the guy who insinuated that I don't like sex so I shouldnt be a provider you aren't right on that cuz I absolutely love sex...

good on you. i know my responses pissed you off, but my only agenda is to see amarillo develop better talent. it will be more fun for everybody if we have more reliable, professional girls who like to fuck.

[Texanbychoice]

Originally Posted by john_deere

good on you. i know my responses pissed you off, but my only agenda is to see amarillo develop better talent. it will be more fun for everybody if we have more reliable, professional girls who like to fuck.

See Carly.your doing better already. You made JD reveal he has a heart. (/jk. Relax folks)

And I agree . I love those tits. I was not kidding when I said I would love to bury may face in them. Unfortunately I am many hours away. West.......Texas......Sucks... ...

Lubbuck, Ep, and Amarillo get all the good hometown providers. Midessa just gets the BP locals and traveling girls. Oil sucks.

[dirt street cowboy]

For the record, can you list the activities that can be expected with a booking?

[CryptKicker]

Originally Posted by dirt street cowboy

For the record, can you list the activities that can be expected with a booking?

No-- but she can place an ad when eligible that does just that.

[john_deere]

Originally Posted by Texanbychoice

See Carly.your doing better already. You made JD reveal he has a heart. (/jk. Relax folks)

nonsense. i have a heart, and i can prove it. here's a photograph.

[dirt street cowboy]

Since this Thread was started for advice, and some of the advice was communication and consistency, I don't know why she can't list the services one can expect from her in the future. It seems pertinent to the discussion, and not a solicitation.

[carlybabes]

My phone is situation has been resolved so I won't be having any problems communicating with any client that would like to see me or inquire about a appointment...

[tx05409]

I also would love to bury my face in this tits! Have considered giving Carly a call but have read all the back and forth here and will have to experience this for myself. Will have to reach out to Carly in the near future.