"E D Friendly" Providers

[Three Piece Chicken Dinne]

Originally Posted by jaguar54

Thanks everyone for the great input. Its actually nice to know that I am not the only one with this problem. From reading the reviews, I was beginning to think most guys have between 3 and 7 erections per one hour session. Lol

Don't forget they also make the provider organs about a dozen times.

[Keyhole Arc Blow]

Being that I'm one of the youngest hobbyists here, still in my 20s, I don't really have the same problem as you but it does sometimes take a while for my buddy to wake up. I have had problems that guys have experienced, with a porn star no less. My one chance to have fun with a lady that definitely knows her way around a stiffy and I couldn't finish. She seemed pretty let down about it but it happens to the best of us.

Anyway I think if you're up front about it, most ladies wont sweat it if you can't rise to the occasion. As long as they know you're enjoying yourself all should be good.

Originally Posted by kami405

sometimes intimacy doesn't always mean penetration...jmo

I definitely agree, I've enjoyed time with the ladies I've seen while between the sheets but most of the most intimate times I've had were usually after the fact when you get to just enjoy each other on an intellectual level. One of the most intimate moments I've had and one of my favorite memories is sitting in a bath with a provider friend of mine, giving her a back rub while we just talked, nothing extremely sexual about it but very intimate none the less.

[jaguar54]

Even though Kami says that experienced providers will figure the problem out on their own, I still think it is a good idea to tell the provider in advance. With only an hour to deal with, I do not want to waste 30 minutes for her to figure it out. I have had several sessiio

[dmglt3000]

Wanted to add some of my experiences with aging and ED. Jaguar, I personally have more success finishing the more sensitive the intimacy, for example I don't use latex condoms that are too tight fitting. I much prefer the Lifestyle Skyn polyisoprene condoms for improved sensitivity. Also if you receive a prescription for an ED medication such as cialis, take the prescription to a different pharmacy chain, limit your personal information on the prescription and pay for the cialis with cash only. Remember all the same pharmacies such as CVS will have your insurance information on a shared file. Happy Hunting!

[jaguar54]

Even though Kami believes a good provider will grasp the situation, I have had a totally different experience. I have had ladies try for 20 minutes to give me an erection then ask if I want them to keep trying. When I say no, they assume the session is over. If a lady advertised to be ED Friendly, I could simply tell her I wanted that type of session. We could get right to the activities I'm looking for without wasting time. I could get a full hour without feeling pressure to perform. There would be more kissing and cuddling included. If a lady isn't into kissing, she would not advertise to be ED Friendly. I still enjoy bls, and bbbj but both of us would know that it is for pleasure, not for achieving an erection. I once was an active hobbiest. Now, I have just about quit entirely for fear of embarrassment and short sessions.

[kami405]

Gentlemen should always get the time they requested regardless of the activities.
I am very sorry you guys experience this regularly it seems.

Perhaps I should have said more experienced as well as intuitive providers....my apologies.
I wish all providers were good providers....I wish all clients were good clients and I wish we could all be happy little humpers.....lol
Only in a perfect world

[jaguar54]

I have had many ladies try for 20 minutes or so to give me an erection. When it didn't happen, they ask if I want them to keep trying. When I say no they assume the session is over and get dressed. If they knew beforehand that it was an ED Friendly session, maybe I could get a full hour of kissing, cuddling, dart, etc. Some ladies kiss but are not really into it. If they are not into kissing, they would not be ED Friendly. Also, they would give a bbbj simply for giving pleasure. I would not feel pressure to get an erection that isn't going to happen. I used to be an active hobbiest. Now, I have just about quit entirely due to embarrassment and short sessions. I would love to see ladies that are ED Friendly. I don't want to waste half of every session with her figuring out I have a problem then being kicked out early. Ugh.

[jaguar54]

I didn't realize there were two pages. I thought my post didn't publish. Sorry for repeating myself. Does ignorance and ED go hand in hand? Lol

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

I love taking my time when giving TLC....I've never thought to put I was ED friendly but I definitely am (just like i'm disabled/amputee friendly etc too but I don't list it) I've always put emphasis on that I enjoyed longer date. Having good fun shouldn't feel like a race. If this is an issue for you well just like any other condition (or if you take certain meds that can affect erection) it would be nice to have that knowledge beforehand. I have put in "leave your worries behind when you come to see me (or I come to visit you))" in some of my ads (on anoThER site) and I mean it.

[ReneeSexxySweetz]

I have had a few sessions that were ED friendly and i thoroughly enjoyed the time spent as well as the hobbyist. There is more to an intimate encounter than just the final pop, its the journey that i love and enjoy the most.