Respect should go both ways
I have been playing for a while and I am pretty sure I have never set an appointment and not showed or wasted someone's time. I don't do in calls anymore so it frustrates some when I won't jump through hoops just for a chance to see them.
First off, if you do not do outcall a it should be clearly posted and if you are supposely "booked" and five minutes later trying to set an appointment and tax me for your lack of business don't expect it to end nicely.
As men in the hobby I think the overwhelming majority of us are pretty decent people who love the comfort of good looking ladies but lately it seems some not all seem to think that most of us are desperate. I for one can get as much non hobby action as I want but prefer the none committal experience of the hobby.
In conclusion, the point of the rant is ladies if we have to jump through as many hoops as we would for a real date it's probably not worth either of our times and guys don't set an appointment if you have no intention of showing and maybe we can all get back to playing instead of long threads about who is an asshole or bitch because of petty hurt feelings.
P.s. For the little gossip queen I'd openly admit to being a bit of an asshole as I'm used to getting what i want but sometimes we need to look in the mirror if we are constantly having the same issue with everyone
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