Etiquette...shouldn't it work both ways?

[Dunnigan]

A lot is said about etiquette that is expected on the gentleman's part. Shouldn't it work both ways? For example, here's what I've seen at one time or another:

- Paid for hotel room because provider was in a pinch. No acknowledgement.
- Put a nice review up here. Crickets.
- Sent thank you email or PM after a date. Silence.
- 25% tip. Not a thank you, not a kiss my ass, nothing.


Maybe I need to lower my expectations. If a provider wants repeat business, though, it seems she should be a little more on top of things in the TCB department. Granted, I'm not looking for a LTR just because I put a little extra in the envelope, but I don't want to feel like once the date is over, all that matters it the next fresh piece of meat that walks through the door. I can get that kind of treatment from my local car dealer. A simple thank you can go a long way.

BTW, these examples aren't necessarily with providers here on the coast. I'm posting this here because I'm curious as to what y'all think, and the opinions expressed here tend to be more well thought out than on the national forum.

[drsmooth1]

I feel your pain nufsaidus. Many a number of providers, not all, have become jaded and feel entitled and see a generous kind person as a mark. I've actually listened to providers unwittingly reveal that sentiment to me, and it jaded me. I've remained pleasant with all providers but only repeat with those that seem to enjoy what they do and my company. A HDH doesn't guarantee a better experience or character, for me it's usually been the opposite. I've almost given up being seduced by the glamor photos and WK reviews.

It has become so desperate lately that I now only seek the company of a certain few providers without venturing, which sucks in a bad way because I truly crave the variety. But money is money and I don't seek the company of providers that could care less if I were there and could hardly wait till I left. That being said IF you find someone that caters to you, hold on for dear life and reward her with repeat visits!!

[Dunnigan]

Yeah, Doc, I'm leaning the same way. I have a couple of ladies here in AL and a couple of MS that are terrific. Better stick with them and repeat, repeat, repeat.

[KISSME]

That sounds horrible hope you don't think all ladies are like that... ������

[Lovestolick66]

NO some ladies are just actually ladies and know how to enjoy the company of a gentleman, i know i have met several right here on eccie, many have become great friends, and they can be great company for dinner and drinks and just hanging out --like going boating and many other out door sports kinda like GFE, but then there are those ,that seem to have started farting through silk to early in life and they will never get it

[GigiGabore]

Well you certainly sound like a sweetheart <3

[gimme_that]

Originally Posted by drsmooth1

............repeat with those that seem to enjoy what they do and my company..........That being said IF you find someone that caters to you, hold on for dear life and reward her with repeat visits!!

Ths I wwhole heartedly agree with.

[drsmooth1]

Originally Posted by drsmooth1

Many a number of providers, not all, have become jaded and feel entitled and see a generous kind person as a mark.
That being said IF you find someone that caters to you, hold on for dear life and reward her with repeat visits!!

Originally Posted by KISSME

That sounds horrible hope you don't think all ladies are like that... ������

It is horrible, but I have three in rotation that get the job done
I know all ladies not like that, but more and more becoming like that.

[stanky]

Never lower your expectations, nuf. Just like in any business, there are good and bad. If you get bad service, move along! And like the smooth one says, if you get good service, give her your business. This is going to sound like common sense, but I wish someone had told it to me when I was new. Before your appointment, let the lady know what you're looking for. If it's GFE or BFE or PSE or straight kinky ass shit. Tell her what you want so she's in the right frame of mind for the session. I think that goes a long, long way toward happiness on both sides. Sometimes you want to be pampered and sometimes you just wanna fuck the shit out of her. Let her know, so she's got her proper mask ready. We're paying for a fantasy - make sure it's the right fantasy.

[JustCause]

Good post. I can't say it enough...attitude and common business etiquette are THE most important factors in determining a lady's success and longevity in this business. I once saw a very nice lady that I was so excited about seeing again. As I was leaving, she mentioned that she always used her tips to have dinner after her last session. I laid down a $50 and she cracked, "...but I usually eat at nicer places than THAT!"

She didn't that night.

Or any night thereafter on my nickel.

[Mansruin]

Originally Posted by JustCause

Good post. I can't say it enough...attitude and common business etiquette are THE most important factors in determining a lady's success and longevity in this business. I once saw a very nice lady that I was so excited about seeing again. As I was leaving, she mentioned that she always used her tips to have dinner after her last session. I laid down a $50 and she cracked, "...but I usually eat at nicer places than THAT!"

She didn't that night.

Or any night thereafter on my nickel.

Wow that is crazy. I usually tip in the 20% range for good service which usually comes to 40-120. I even purchase restaurant gift cards and put 50 on it as a gift sometimes once I know what area she is staying in. However if she put it to me that way that she needed more than 50 for dinner just for her I would have said honey hop in the car if you are eating that good and I am buying... I'm going to eat too.

[Dunnigan]

A lot of good comments here, guys. I appreciate everyone's insight and perspective.