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Originally Posted by L.A.
Not really looking for any specific answers but a active pregnant provider makes me wonder a few things. There is no need for you to answer any of these! They are just things that cross my mind and are not directed toward you specifically.
1. If you're a sex worker why are you not on birth control?
2. Was it a client? Was it a boyfriend? Was it a civilian? You were BBFS'ing somebody.
3. Was it an accident? Was it intentional? Are you looking for 18 years of child support?
4. Does it increase the odds of some jealous boyfriend busting open the door?
Probably a few other things I can't think of right now.
Mostly it doesn't really matter. However you present yourself for the time I see you is what is really important.
But you asked the question about pregnant providers and those are some of the things that go thru my mind and would make me second guess seeing a pregnant provider.
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Interesting timing on this thread. I saw an ad for a pregnant lady the other day and started pondering on the subject. I had a lot of the same thoughts you did. One other one that hopefully is extremely unlikely is the ability to pass an STD to your kid. I saw an episode of House (or something like that) where it turned out a kid had something passed to them at birth. Some light reading I did on the subject makes it sound like the only time for exposure to the baby is when they go through the birth canal. Of course, you'd have to actually get something to give it, and then you'd have to be unlucky enough to not cure it in time, not know about it, or have something that isn't curable when you have birth. A person could probably safeguard herself by just going CBJ and no daty/dato probably.
Anyway, sorry for the downer addition to the conversation! I blame television and all the crazy drama stories they come up with.