I'm not wading into the larger marriage convo because I think it's silly. In other words, it doesn't matter to me what the work someone does is-- if I'm in a position where I want to marry someone, then the important stuff has to do with other criteria.
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Originally Posted by Rudbeckia
Monogamish, then. Conditionally monogamous.
Whatever term makes you happy to clarify that outside of my job - a known quantity - neither of us would be getting any that isn't us.
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I like the cut of your jib, Rudbeckia. The point of a healthy relationship is that all involved parties are going into it with informed consent. Getting hung up about known quantitites seems like self-sabotage (or more likely dishonesty with one's self).
Of course, I'm speaking as someone who has dated sex workers before (in what feels like a past life). To any of you guys wondering: it ain't no thang, for serious. The only hang ups are what you bring into it in the first place.
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