Stripping vs. Providing

[JustMeCLTXGG]

Originally Posted by oilfieldscum

Some gals don't have the looks mostly naked to get hired at the strip club while others just plain can't dance.

the looks part I took for a given. in my wonderings I consider my question from a more things being even. thinking about it from looks suggests guys in public don't allude their tastes the same as privately. something I would say is backed up here.

never considered it being a getting "hired" thing though. makes sense. guess that's why you don't see as much of a variety of girls at SC's? makes me wonder if there is more factors. for example, maybe some don't want to drive. met SC girls that drive quite a ways if they were truthful. some I know were.

as for dancing, I thought all girls could with their low center of gravity. ha! the SC girls not showing any dance moves I took them as not enthusiastic about getting off a lap to go onto a stage. that or bad song choices.

[LadyMoxie]

I can dance and shake my ass off like there's no tomorrow but not walk in those 10 inch heels lol! And... I'm too timid to go and do that in front of 20+ men. I prefer the one on one thing instead ... Just my .02¢'s

[JustMeCLTXGG]

now that is an answer I didn't consider and like reading because I didn't.

of course I probably should have considered it since I think the same way. prefering a one on one thing.

in the words of that classic cartoon character - doh!

guess too many other things popping up in my head to form the thought. and just a guess but I'ma go with SC girls are far from timid. another good tidbit brought up. might be a general connection there to further consider about girls that do both.

[zerodahero]

Few of the providers I have met strip on the side.

[misslilly]

I dance and provider but I prefer to escort

-at the strip clubs you have to deal with a lot of politics with the managers and drama with other dancer's, which I hate
-Men are usually nicer to you when you're not just teasing them
-Men at strip clubs are often in groups and drinking so they can be boarder line rude and macho, playing off each others egos
-I don't like doing "extras" in the VIP, I rather be in the comforts of an incall which makes it difficult to convince a guy to go in the VIP in the first place
-I don't like to dance on stage, I usually pay extra not too, I'd rather just do lap dances
-when I have a "bad day" at the strip club I take it much more personal/hard, approaching men and being turned away time n time again can be rough, whereas if I have a "bad day" escorting it doesn't seem to bother me as much, maybe b/c it not face to face lol
-Dancing takes a toll on yr mind & body w/the drinking & late nights/sleeping all day, I feel more "balanced" when I escort and can keep "normal" hours

Don't get me wrong some days are fun & easy, I'm drinking, getting lap dances making money etc but then other days it's like pulling teeth to get 20$!

I dance more for tax purposes ...gotta have something on paper so uncle sam think I'm a broke stripper and that's perfect lol

[boardman]

Damn, Just...
Damn!

[Scarlet]

Originally Posted by misslilly

I dance and provider but I prefer to escort

-at the strip clubs you have to deal with a lot of politics with the managers and drama with other dancer's, which I hate
-Men are usually nicer to you when you're not just teasing them
-Men at strip clubs are often in groups and drinking so they can be boarder line rude and macho, playing off each others egos
-I don't like doing "extras" in the VIP, I rather be in the comforts of an incall which makes it difficult to convince a guy to go in the VIP in the first place
-I don't like to dance on stage, I usually pay extra not too, I'd rather just do lap dances
-when I have a "bad day" at the strip club I take it much more personal/hard, approaching men and being turned away time n time again can be rough, whereas if I have a "bad day" escorting it doesn't seem to bother me as much, maybe b/c it not face to face lol
-Dancing takes a toll on yr mind & body w/the drinking & late nights/sleeping all day, I feel more "balanced" when I escort and can keep "normal" hours

Don't get me wrong some days are fun & easy, I'm drinking, getting lap dances making money etc but then other days it's like pulling teeth to get 20$!

I dance more for tax purposes ...gotta have something on paper so uncle sam think I'm a broke stripper and that's perfect lol

I AGREE WITH EVERYTHING SHE SAID! Plus there is usually mess going on in the back with the girls. The drinking and drug use is ridiculous
The hours suck
Yout could have done the best routine of your life and still only get a dollar -_____-

[GlobeSpotter]

[Guest062217]

What's the difference between a cocktail waitress and a stripper??? 2 Weeks...

What's the difference between a stripper and a hooker/provider?? 2 More Weeks.....

and there you have it....

[Guest040816]

^^^ yea,,good one.

[bigbadbill969]

I appreciate all the comments, especially from the ladies, I am not a strip club type of guy so I really have not learned much about it. One of my few experiences was at Show Palace. I almost never do dances because I much prefer playing in my own bed. However, one time I saw an extremely hot freak of nature petite Latina with T&A of a larger built chic. After consuming much alcohol, I decided to go for it, just this time. I took the girl to the back room for a private dance. I rubbed as much as she would allow (which was not much). I asked her what extras were available. She told me she makes way enough money to not have to do extras. I thought she was just BS'ing me and that I just needed to gain more her confidence. I ended up spending a small fortune and drove all the way across town to Zaz afterwards to get my nut. She never would budge. After I sobered up I reflected back and yes she was either being showered with money while dancing or doing $20 dances. Of course she did not have to take legal and health risks to make her money. I realize my story is maybe just an isolated case......Please keep the comments coming and thanks again

[cr76]

I used to go to strip clubs all the time, but lately it's been one didsapointment after another. Girls can be rude, VIP is overpriced. Learn that the hard way. I'll tip the girl well in a VIP , but on my terms, not this 400/ half hour bs.

[JustMeCLTXGG]

first things first

Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter

...........awesome pic from above - scroll up..........

dayum! nice catch there GlobeSpotter! good photo in multiple ways


as for SC's. I like em. they can be entertaining and can have some lovelies there but now I just find them mostly a waste of money. if you can control yourself (which if I get some beer in me can be difficult to resist said lovelies) who doesn't like window shopping? last time I decided to go got offered a deal for unlimited dances for a set amount. I was like huh? thinking, yeah right, I could get more actual attention for that. and then you leave thinking you should have just hit up eccie. ha, ha!

not to mention most SC girls IOP sucks. ha! (sarcasm)

[cr76]

Originally Posted by JustMeCLTXGG

first things first

dayum! nice catch there GlobeSpotter! good photo in multiple ways


as for SC's. I like em. they can be entertaining and can have some lovelies there but now I just find them mostly a waste of money. if you can control yourself (which if I get some beer in me can be difficult to resist said lovelies) who doesn't like window shopping? last time I decided to go got offered a deal for unlimited dances for a set amount. I was like huh? thinking, yeah right, I could get more actual attention for that. and then you leave thinking you should have just hit up eccie. ha, ha!

not to mention most SC girls IOP sucks. ha! (sarcasm)

My sentiments exactly

[ICU 812]

With respect for the ladies and gents in both arenas of the hobby discussed in this thread:

While I have had fun in the SC scene, I do not really like the dynamic of the interactions. The club wants me to drink A LOT. The dancers want all the money I have for the hope that I'll get a few minutes of intimate action in a semi-private setting, or right out in the open behind some tall chairs. This is not ment to be a nock on the dancers . . .it is what it is.

I much prefer to see Indy providers. working with ECCIE, everything is known ahead of time. The most important thing for me is that I know that for the agreed upon donation we will have sex in a private setting. The provider knows who I am and that I will come with the proper donation and scraped, scrubbed and brushed.

The Indy Provider interaction is more of a mutually beneficial relationship (in my mind). A sort of short-time SB/SD thing lasting an hour or two rather than weeks or months.

Again: The above is not ment as a nock on the dancers, waitresses and gents at the SC who are all great people.