does no one professionally and appropriately screen in Iowa??

[CryptKicker]

OK folks- EVERYONE from all sides dial it down and knock off the insults. Iris, if you don't like ECCIE you don't have to use it but it is ironic that you are on P411 (https://www.preferred411.com/P177547) which I assume you consider as a legitimate site. Why is this ironic you ask? Because P411 is a sponsoring contributor for ECCIE so they obviously consider ECCIE legit.

I looked at a lot of the advertising sites that you are on. We won't accept most of them to verify providers on here because they are known to provide false info and reviews. So, it is all relative. Everyone has to use the resources they feel like work the best for them and screen, both ways, the way they feel like works best for them. There is a provider out there that fits everyone's needs. You don't like the lady, move on.,

But attitude is a big thing with a lot of gents on this site and on other ones. If you come across as less than desirable on the board it is less likely that a gent will see you, especially at your price point. Whether you care or not is a different discussion.

But bottom line folks is that the insults stop. Each to his own.

[shayla84]

If anyone's looking for ENOUGH ass to throw around trust me they will come to me lol. Have a great day!!!

Crypt- she said p411 wasn't legit either so... But very good points!!!

[EmilyEzzell]

Hi iris, Your original post asked if any one in Iowa screens professionally and/or appropriately because it doesn't seem like it to you.

I visited the area a couple years ago. I vouch for the ladies. They DO give references. I didn't have an issue with screening in Iowa. The providers were helpful and I appreciated it.

You may not get the opportunity to read this since you have posted that you are off to San Fran or that you are "done".. If you change your mind and come back to Iowa's Eccie, you have a few avenues to utilize.

One would be, don't insult the ladies you will rely upon to help keep you safer while hobbying in Iowa.

If your particular screening method isn't working in Iowa, on Eccie, then you may need to move on or adjust to what works locally. Appears you are busy in San Fran doing a shoot. That seems more lucrative for you than Iowa Eccie.

Another avenue would be to embrace the community and learn how to engage in a non confrontational manner. Or don't engage at all. Keep to yourself and be utr. It's all about options and avenues. Oh and attitude.

[Cubsfan81]

Originally Posted by shayla84

If anyone's looking for ENOUGH ass to throw around trust me they will come to me lol. Have a great day!!!

YES!!! It's been too long since I've visited you and that magnificent backside you posess. It's a shame you are retiring soon and I won't have the pleasure of seeing you. Hope everything works out for you sweetie.

[iris.hart]

Originally Posted by shayla84

If anyone's looking for ENOUGH ass to throw around trust me they will come to me lol. Have a great day!!!

Crypt- she said p411 wasn't legit either so... But very good points!!!

Never did I say P411 wasn't legit!!

[iris.hart]

Originally Posted by EmilyEzzell

Hi iris, Your original post asked if any one in Iowa screens professionally and/or appropriately because it doesn't seem like it to you.

I visited the area a couple years ago. I vouch for the ladies. They DO give references. I didn't have an issue with screening in Iowa. The providers were helpful and I appreciated it.

You may not get the opportunity to read this since you have posted that you are off to San Fran or that you are "done".. If you change your mind and come back to Iowa's Eccie, you have a few avenues to utilize.

One would be, don't insult the ladies you will rely upon to help keep you safer while hobbying in Iowa.

If your particular screening method isn't working in Iowa, on Eccie, then you may need to move on or adjust to what works locally. Appears you are busy in San Fran doing a shoot. That seems more lucrative for you than Iowa Eccie.

Another avenue would be to embrace the community and learn how to engage in a non confrontational manner. Or don't engage at all. Keep to yourself and be utr. It's all about options and avenues. Oh and attitude.

Yep but that has always been me, to talk crap to those who talk it back. I know it's because they're insecure but it makes me mad/sad that they take time out of their day to just sit and talk crap all day. I show respect where it's shown, always have, always will.

That being said, I would honestly not use such females for references because I'm wise enough to know they will be the first ones to stab you in the back the first chance they get. I can further explain how they do this and/or make this so apparent-- but I won't on a public forum.

Thanks for being one of maybe 5 useful posts to what I saw as a simple and straightforward question!

On the other thread(s) I was only trying to tell one girl that there ARE other websites out there and to explore them, and one website did tell me the same of Eccie, it said something like, whoa! We don't accept reviews from sites where something or another, la la la. And I like a standard checklist where both sides answer the the same questions. Otherwise it just makes me wonder about the immaturity level of all players. Same thing with reviews. For instance, maybe I was wearing a wig because my hair was growing out after kemo. Then again, bullies clearly never stop to think such things. Such is life! Menus can be provided other ways, and verifications can be done other ways. Just trying to possibly educate both sides. But pardon me if anyone is too set in their ways to learn. I would think they would not comment and just move on!! Guess not...

[BoringIowa]

Originally Posted by iris.hart

Yep but that has always been me, to talk crap to those who talk it back. I know it's because they're insecure but it makes me mad/sad that they take time out of their day to just sit and talk crap all day. I show respect where it's shown, always have, always will.

That being said, I would honestly not use such females for references because I'm wise enough to know they will be the first ones to stab you in the back the first chance they get. I can further explain how they do this and/or make this so apparent-- but I won't on a public forum.

Thanks for being one of maybe 5 useful posts to what I saw as a simple and straightforward question!

On the other thread(s) I was only trying to tell one girl that there ARE other websites out there and to explore them, and one website did tell me the same of Eccie, it said something like, whoa! We don't accept reviews from sites where something or another, la la la. And I like a standard checklist where both sides answer the the same questions. Otherwise it just makes me wonder about the immaturity level of all players. Same thing with reviews. For instance, maybe I was wearing a wig because my hair was growing out after kemo. Then again, bullies clearly never stop to think such things. Such is life! Menus can be provided other ways, and verifications can be done other ways. Just trying to possibly educate both sides. But pardon me if anyone is too set in their ways to learn. I would think they would not comment and just move on!! Guess not...

LOL?

[BoringIowa]

Iris, sometimes when others talk crap you must be the bigger person.

[ThisIsHappening24]

I just wanted to chime in to say this is some of the most delicious drama I've seen here in quite some time. So at least you've provided some entertainment for the simple folk of the Midwest, Iris.

Side note for Kay2Day -- You're a bad bitch who just got even sexier in my eyes. I AM gonna meet up with you someday and it is going to be amazing. BELIEVE IT.

[Guest110923]

Originally Posted by ThisIsHappening24

I just wanted to chime in to say this is some of the most delicious drama I've seen here in quite some time. So at least you've provided some entertainment for the simple folk of the Midwest, Iris.

Side note for Kay2Day -- You're a bad bitch who just got even sexier in my eyes. I AM gonna meet up with you someday and it is going to be amazing. BELIEVE IT.

Ohhhh ThisIsHappening ThatisTotallyHappening haha see what I did there? LOL PM me and we can figure it out

On the other note...HMMMMMMMM.... *SMH* Its just too easy... I'm not even going to drag it out anymore. You can't make sense of crazy... But it was very entertaining for a Sunday. Just had to prove a point... Thanks for playing!! Best of luck with the porno chemo bullying wooden leg whatever it is you have going on. Ohhhh and if you ever need a reference please don't hesitate to ask Safety and discretion is the main purpose of this hobby and I would never compromise that even if someone would disrespect hobbyist, providers, various sites all in a few posts.

Honestly its your business, your life, and your feelings opinions , and words in general have absolutely NO EFFECT on me whatsoever so I could careless how anyone chooses to conduct their selves... That's a problem they create for themselves... Doesn't bother me in the slightest really....

Its free entertainment and I happen to be easily amused... DONT JUDGE ME!!!! LOL
LMAO GOOOOOOOOOOOD TIMES !!!!

[SinOrSwim]

Originally Posted by iris.hart

Yep but that has always been me, to talk crap to those who talk it back. I know it's because they're insecure but it makes me mad/sad that they take time out of their day to just sit and talk crap all day. I show respect where it's shown, always have, always will.

That being said, I would honestly not use such females for references because I'm wise enough to know they will be the first ones to stab you in the back the first chance they get. I can further explain how they do this and/or make this so apparent-- but I won't on a public forum.

Thanks for being one of maybe 5 useful posts to what I saw as a simple and straightforward question!

On the other thread(s) I was only trying to tell one girl that there ARE other websites out there and to explore them, and one website did tell me the same of Eccie, it said something like, whoa! We don't accept reviews from sites where something or another, la la la. And I like a standard checklist where both sides answer the the same questions. Otherwise it just makes me wonder about the immaturity level of all players. Same thing with reviews. For instance, maybe I was wearing a wig because my hair was growing out after kemo. Then again, bullies clearly never stop to think such things. Such is life! Menus can be provided other ways, and verifications can be done other ways. Just trying to possibly educate both sides. But pardon me if anyone is too set in their ways to learn. I would think they would not comment and just move on!! Guess not...

Iris, I tried to explain this in a PM. This is NOT L.A. Those other sites don't matter. We can check them out all day long but if nobody is using them the information on those sites isn't relevant.

You keep saying it was a simple question. But, it was worded in an insulting manner. Essentially don't you non-professional idiots do anything right? Then, once you brought in LA it comes across as LA does it way better than you bumpkins in Iowa. It might seem crazy, but some of us are very successful people in this "backwards" place.

It was a simple question. It just needed to be asked in a polite way. You are new, nobody knows you. The people in this area have no desire to be like the people in LA. But, we will defend each other. My suggestion privately was to apologize because even though we defend each other we are also a very forgiving group. But, I'm pretty sure that ship has sailed.

BP in LA might be huge? I have no idea? BP here = ripe pickings to get arrested.

So, all those other websites you mention don't matter. I traveled to Colorado last year. I used The Other Board and P411. Because that is what THEY use. I didn't tell them they did it wrong because they didn't use ECCIE or GBN.

It is all about how the question is asked.......not the question itself. If you don't see your original question was insulting...........then...... ..that is on you.

[Ms.Lady Y]

I need a penny fund to have a play date with Kay, Shayla and Dallas all at once.

[DallasRain]

Originally Posted by Ms.Lady Y

I need a penny fund to have a play date with Kay, Shayla and Dallas all at once.

[topcat123124]

Lady Y now that's what I would call a pretty penny

[iris.hart]

Yep, I can be woman enough to apologize to anyone who thought my initial question was badly worded.

What I will never in my life apologize for is disrespecting someone, ANYONE, who disrespects me for no reason, because my initial question may have not been worded right, but it certainly wasn't disrespectful, as many of the follow-up responses WERE. And I certainly invite anyone who CAN'T handle being a decent human being, to not ever contact me. I don't have the time or patience!..