Providers Contacting You?

[BossyWillson]

My hobby phone stays off most of the time.

I like to pm the weekend ads Saturday morning and getting a reply the next week.
Helps me out a hell of a lots.

or hell just send a text with no name.

[Brooke Fox]

I send messages and text weekly sometimes every two weeks to my friends but I feel if we exchange numbers then you have given me the permission to contact you when I am available to see you...Is it wrong for me to let my friends who have contacted me first, know my schedule ...?? I never contact anyone who says only email or the line is not secure if after the fist time meeting you don't want contact with me then let me know.

[TinMan]

Brooke, you'd be a good person to answer the questions I posed in #21.

[Guest110416]

Originally Posted by pistolpete1234

I've been in this game for just a little over a year and still learning my way around. I don't know exactly how many girls I've seen but it hasn't been that many. Maybe 10 or so. Almost all of them I have seen will send me a text at some random time after I have seen them, usually after a week or so saying they are available or something like that, nothing rude, just suggesting. Is this normal? It doesn't seem very discreet to do this. I guess I didn't think I would have to say please don't contact me, I will contact you if I want. Really, I'd like to just say if I've seen you once I don't want to see you again, it just my preference. Don't like the same girl more than once.

Nothing wrong with a provider contacting you, as long as it is not constantly. Usually, that means that she had a good time with you and wants to see you again or she needs money or both. I have had multiple providers contact me, and I respond with thanks for thinking of me (even if I am one of a group pf guys who are sent a mass general text), but tell them either do not contact me, I will contact you or I may even set an appointment, but since she contacted me, I will ask about a special on the donation.

If you do not like to see the same girl more than once, you might want to keep that to yourself, a normal provider wants regulars and repeats.

[boomvang]

Originally Posted by davidfree986

Nothing wrong with a provider contacting you, as long as it is not constantly. Usually, that means that she had a good time with you and wants to see you again or she needs money or both. I have had multiple providers contact me, and I respond with thanks for thinking of me (even if I am one of a group pf guys who are sent a mass general text), but tell them either do not contact me, I will contact you or I may even set an appointment, but since she contacted me, I will ask about a special on the donation.

If you do not like to see the same girl more than once, you might want to keep that to yourself, a normal provider wants regulars and repeats.

Even though I don't mind providers contacting me at all DavidFree has reminded me of a single fuck up by a non ECCIE provider. She sent out one of those mass text. I didn't realize that was what it was so I sent my usual smart ass response. OOPS. It was bad enough that she had done this because some poor bastard's SO had intercepted the text. To make thing worse when I sent my reply she got it too. So now a very angry SO knew her man had been up to something she knew who it was with and she was demanding to know who I was. For once in my life I was able to just say nothing. I did contact the whiz kid that sent the text and ask to be removed from her list. I hadn't ever actually met her anyway. I'm still living and breathing I have no idea how it played out for anyone else.

[verygood69]

I have NO problems with a Lady texting me at anytime!
No SO, live alone so let the good times roll!

[Superlark]

I don't mind getting text or PM. I met some nice providers via Pm that i have never thought about them.

[NikkiWhite]

Originally Posted by Tay

Spoken by an individual who's self esteem depends on the degradation of others.

Shit happens, people get sick, kids get sick, cars break down..... and so forth.

IF, they have an understanding that it is cool, then so be it.
But IF you have NOT discussed it with him before hand, then a text/call is out of the question.


Kisses
Tay

I think maybe I'm taking the first line of this wrong but seems like a jab at me? If I'm wrong I apologize.

[Brooke Fox]

Originally Posted by TinMan

Brooke, you'd be a good person to answer the questions I posed in #21.

When I work which is not on a every day basis I send text to my customers and just say hi I get at least a response from 75 percent of the people I text . I believe if you don't want me contacting you unless it is via email or you contacting me first it must be said to one another. I don't see how its unprofessional at all to contact your friends unless they have stated the discretion of when and how to contact them.

[FunInDFW]

Originally Posted by Brooke Fox

... I feel if we exchange numbers then you have given me the permission to contact you when I am available to see you...

Sounds like some buried text you find in a contract. Not a fan.

[Hercules]

If a guy is going to play in this business then there's a 100% chance that at least one lady he's seen will contact him somehow, somewhere, sometime. If the guy is concerned these messages will be seen by people he doesn't want seeing them then it's up to him to take the necessary precautions.

[TinMan]

Originally Posted by FunInDFW

Sounds like some buried text you find in a contract. Not a fan.

Based on her 75% estimated hit rate, it would seem a significant number of your brothers might disagree.

That's one lady's experience. I wish others who do the same would share their's. If that hit rate is close to accurate, it's surprising more women don't do it.

[FunInDFW]

Originally Posted by TinMan

Based on her 75% estimated hit rate, it would seem a significant number of your brothers might disagree.

And that's all well and good for them; but personally I'm not comfortable with that kind of mindset. As such, a provider who makes assumptions like that is the type of provider I would never be interested in seeing. If you can't bother to ask if it's ok to contact me then who knows what else you can't be bothered to do with my privacy. I can see assumptions like that being extended into other areas, and that's not something I'd care to chance. Regardless of my safety measures or SO situation. I want a provider I can trust and will respect our circumstances enough to ask.

This of course doesn't extend to the text or two as I'm driving away; but more so of the cold text.

[daty/o]

Originally Posted by Brooke Fox

I send messages and text weekly sometimes every two weeks to my friends but I feel if we exchange numbers then you have given me the permission to contact you when I am available to see you

Originally Posted by FunInDFW

Sounds like some buried text you find in a contract. Not a fan.

FunInDFW has a point. The term "exchange numbers" needs to be clarified. If I make sure she has my number after a session for future use, then yes. But if she just captures the number from pre-session communication, that does not entitle a provider to send random solicitations. I feel like it's up to the provider to know the difference. I get periodic texts from several providers, but they all know they have permission to do so. In my case, it's not a problem anyway, but with many on here, that's not the case.

And to the other point; 75% response does not seem unrealistic. If a lady takes the time to send me a text or a pm, even if I can't play, I always offer her the courtesy of a response.

[FunInDFW]

^ a fair point.