What do you consider your rights when you see a provider?

[Justapervert]

Its always interested me to know to what limit and extent, the clients believe they have the right to go to with a provider. We all know that we pay for time and not services, however during that time, what do you think your rights are? Is anything you want to do your right? Rough? Biting? Slapping? This has nothing to do with the girls consent, this is about the clients, and how far they think their donation allows them to go... just curious... and im interested in hearing the girls opinions as well. I am not trying to single anyone out here, so please be as general as you want, but make a damn point with regards to this topic.

[jokacz]

Full amount of time purchased.
Time to shower not subtracted from this time.
Right to all activities advertised or agreed to.
No phone or text interruptions.
Nobody else in the room or hiding in the john.
Right to terminate if she flunks the smell test, even after the clothes are off.
Right to refund if above rights are violated

[mcmurmur]

Originally Posted by jokacz

Full amount of time purchased.
Time to shower not subtracted from this time.
Right to all activities advertised or agreed to.
No phone or text interruptions.
Nobody else in the room or hiding in the john.
Right to terminate if she flunks the smell test, even after the clothes are off.
Right to refund if above rights are violated

Hit the nail right on the head

[trojantide]

Good list. I'd just add no running into or seeing another dude either going in or heading out. Had one dumb ass hooker on the phone telling the next client to come on in before I was even dressed 10 minutes before the hr. Broke 3 rules w/in 5 seconds, lol. Then when I politely emailed the feedback she gave me shit and said if I did not like it I could go elsewhere. Needless to say, that is what I did.

[Guest031416-1]

Respect goes both ways. Discuss what is available before, and don't push it. Yes we pay for time with the girl but that doesn't mean we get to treat them like a piece of meat, like some like to do. I realize some may like that, but that's why you have to go over do's/dont's ahead of time.

[jondalart]

I am simplistic. Get my rocks off. LOL

for me the first visit, because i do not discuss terms and conditions, the provider does the driving. I may ask for what i like when we get going. If i do future appointments, it is the comfort level we both agree with. I simply take it that whatever we agree to has to be with mutual consent. I dont look at as having rights.

[JohnnyCap]

Originally Posted by Justapervert

Its always interested me to know to what limit and extent, the clients believe they have the right to go to with a provider. We all know that we pay for time and not services, however during that time, what do you think your rights are? Is anything you want to do your right? Rough? Biting? Slapping? This has nothing to do with the girls consent, this is about the clients, and how far they think their donation allows them to go... just curious... and im interested in hearing the girls opinions as well. I am not trying to single anyone out here, so please be as general as you want, but make a damn point with regards to this topic.

OP please share your thoughts as well.

I don't look at it as rights to be had either. Not many rights are tied to this sort of transaction.. When I have wanted the rough stuff, I've sought out a gal with that rep and cleared it ahead of time. I don't expect a shower or even a wet-wipe, I think it's namby-pamby to need to wash after such a natural act. If a gal is providing a shower and you need to wash, I'm not sure why she should supply that time and resource. I expect to be the focus of attention for a certain amount of time commensurate with the fee. I expect to be partially responsible for the atmosphere during that time.

[woodywouldpekher]

Consistency is important. Repeat visits should always have the same "menu" as previous visits. Phone and/or texting is probably my biggest pet peeve. I paid good money for the time and I'm selfish with that time. I don't like to share!

[naughtyreppirts]

Woody,your the closest one out of all of what was said...Its like the government,we pay all our bills make the government happy happy joy joy,we might get alittle happy ending hear and there,but IF we forget to pay our housing taxes or anything for that matter,or try and change or break the rules in anyway,they can take it all away from you just like that .. yes we can always leave and move on to possibly somewere better(Another provider if your not smart enough to know what im talking about) or a state or country,but we will all get fucked in the end.....AGAIN....AS THE WORLD TURNS....

[Guest072323]

Originally Posted by JohnnyCap

If a gal is providing a shower and you need to wash, I'm not sure why she should supply that time and resource.

I agree.
And if the provider is demanding an absolutely sterile asshole before activities, she should do the cleaning herself, in the shower, and I have no problem paying her for including that time as part of the service... as long as hers is clean as well.

[SammyB]

The right to a clean, safe, and discreet incall location.
The right to have the TV turned off before arriving, but providers choice of non-radio station music is ok unless customer asks differently.
The right to a clean, neat, functional bathroom.
The right to something clean and sanitary to clean up with. Better yet the provider should "take care of me" that way.
The right to leave not smelling like smoke, perfume, lotion, or anything else.

[Justapervert]

Thanks and these are all great. My bigger question is about activities. I know that this is a kind of incriminating thread, but it is really just to see if there is this attitude that "Im paying her, she should do whatever i damn well want"
I just want to know, and really need the ladies input here (no names or handles please) to see if there is this underlying hostility towards to the ladies in person, or is it just online and due to anonymity? Again, I am just curious if guys online personas carry into real life, or is is just a show for on here? My online personality is what you get in life. I have no reason to hide my personality
I treat the ladies i see the same as i do here. With respect and class. I do not overstep my bounds with them, and respect their boundaries and DO NOT EVER try to make them go against their wish's. I like to develop a certain aspect of trust with someone when i see them. That only adds to my experience. But thats how i operate. Im not nearly Naive enough to believe that my way is what everyone wants. Nor are anyone's expectations the same as mine.
Mine are simple. Be who you say and show you are. Dont have someone else there. Dont put me in harms way. IF you want me to respect you, show me some as well. Lastly, have fun... this is supposed to be fun. If its not fun for you, fake it. You entered into this agreement with a set of expectations. honor them.

[JONBALLS]

this is another creepy thrAD

I canteven imagine why someone would get so wrapped up here to start wanting to know about other GUYS no less,,

your title does not ask providers so if you want them to respond ask the real mods to maybe edit the title or start a totally new maybe even more creepy thread as a follow up.. just sayin..

[JONBALLS]

oh yah ... sorry


its none of your fucking business..... my answer