Open Discussion: Discrimination In The Hobby - Experiences & Reasoning

[KaylaRyder]

Originally Posted by elghund

Damn.......I gotta get a new wardrobe........


elg.........

And pick up the pace when crossing the street? Lol

[pyramider]

Maybe its as simple as personal preference. All fucktards discriminate. Some want spinners. Others bbws.

The fact is we all discriminate is some way. But to get butt hurt because a provider will not see you is juvenile at best. Providers do not have to do business with everyone, unlike Target, Walmart, or the USPS.

[Guest070916]

Originally Posted by pyramider

Maybe its as simple as personal preference. All fucktards discriminate. Some want spinners. Others bbws.

Yup!
Done all the time....

[TSlyC]

Originally Posted by pyramider

Maybe its as simple as personal preference. All fucktards discriminate. Some want spinners. Others bbws.

The fact is we all discriminate is some way. But to get butt hurt because a provider will not see you is juvenile at best. Providers do not have to do business with everyone, unlike Target, Walmart, or the USPS.

My disagreement relates to a lack of understanding as it concerns "preference" and how those preferences are used to inform providers. Obviously we all discriminate, but to discriminate against someone due to factors outside their control is a different discussion.

[makethe33]

Plain and simple blacks are more likely to put a working girl in danger than a white man. I hope you do not take it as me being racist because I am the furthest thing from it but it is true.

[JohnnyCap]

Originally Posted by TSlyC

Why keep that hardline when money is there...

A true gauge of what makes a person a whore is what they will do for money. Many of you on these pages keep saying these ladies aren't to be called whores, and the word is demeaning. Well here we have a whore not being whorish and turning down money for what ever reason, she is not required to say, and yet the griping continues.

Sometimes you just don't qualify for the action.

[JohnnyCap]

Originally Posted by greenpeace2014

TS,

May I come to the point you raise in my roundabout fashion (sigh!)?

I have a dark skin, too. Sometime last January, I had one of my infamous conversations with an African-American provider, no business contact, just heart to heart, who had been recently released from the legal system and was in danger of going back in for numerous reasons, including the types of men she hung out with. Eevntually, that proved her undoing. I asked her, what about this picture makes sense to you, this repeated In & Out, 4 months in, 4 months out, what benefit or logic do you see in this way of living your life? Are you getting any younger? She tells me, All I want is a nice husband who will take care of me.

I told her I shall find an exceptional husband, a US citizen, pulling in more than $120K annually, guaranteed to never cheat on you EVER, an exceptional father if you want such, works in the IT industry, I know this guy for years, he is 37 years old to your 27, etc. The catch? He is an Indian! This girl, darker than I, jumped like a scalded cat! 3 weeks later she was back as an honored guest of the government, probably costing the taxpayer upwards of $30K/year and doing her future economic prospects no good.

I am particularly concerned about women who are caught up in this In & Out syndrome. Let us first take the case of those who are not debilitated by other, dangerous problems or seriously abusive boyfriends. From this small group, it is possible to find excellent husbands just from within the Indian graduate student population. Carefully screened, many are anxious to get a US passport and make this a permanent home.

Also, they will treasure anyone who makes their life marginally worthwhile, having suffered hugely in the effort to get an education, to get ahead and to stay ahead. It is difficult to explain the punishing pace either in research labs or in the IT world.

I don't know what is preferable: a dead-end existence, or one which promises a decent life as the honored wife of a professor or IT specialist. The last I checked, $120K today means that only about 12% more Americans are earning more than you are. Not a shabby place to be in.

I have no idea what a provider earns or can earn, but the pay I quote comes with a host of long-term benefits that only get better with time. Should race and culture prove such insurmountable impediments? Is jail a more inviting environment?

Right now, those willing to enter into a serious [NOT SHAM] marriage, can find a quick way to a reasonable or very love-filled life, provided both parties are screened by someone who is culturally aware and has the interests of both at heart.

I'd rather go to jail than shack up with some shithead just cause he makes $120k. You try to set them up this way while telling them they're not whores?

[Gotyour6]

90% of the population ruins it for the 10%

An ATF I had years ago said they are all thugs, rough or think that because they paid her they own her and could do anything.

She could stop a white guy just by yelling no to them but when it came to a black guy they didn't listen.

Are all black guys like this? Nope

But if they see 10 of them and 9 are like that they tend to play the odds and not see them.

This is by a black girl.

[TSlyC]

Originally Posted by JohnnyCap

A true gauge of what makes a person a whore is what they will do for money. Many of you on these pages keep saying these ladies aren't to be called whores, and the word is demeaning. Well here we have a whore not being whorish and turning down money for what ever reason, she is not required to say, and yet the griping continues.

Sometimes you just don't qualify for the action.

I haven't called anyone a whore, or talked about how anyone shouldn't be called a whore.

I said in my opening post that it is the provider's choice, just as it's my choice to question and hear from providers and jimmies about the situation.

It was also, as I initially stated an opportunity to vent.

In any industry, it seems silly to me to deny an entire customer base due to a factor outside of their control. If a jimmie was in England and several providers said "NO AMERICANS", I would expect the jimmie to be frustrated and ask the same question.

This has nothing to do with calling anyone or protecting anyone from being called a whore, Johnny.

[TSlyC]

Originally Posted by Gotyour6

90% of the population ruins it for the 10%

An ATF I had years ago said they are all thugs, rough or think that because they paid her they own her and could do anything.

She could stop a white guy just by yelling no to them but when it came to a black guy they didn't listen.

Are all black guys like this? Nope

But if they see 10 of them and 9 are like that they tend to play the odds and not see them.

This is by a black girl.

Thanks for your input. I understand, it's just becoming more clear that it's something I cannot fix, as no matter what, due to who gave birth to me, i'll be viewed as a danger.

[JONBALLS]

any vibe from a chick that shes not comfortable with me

lazy

un enthused

I would rather just move on


if she could tell me BEFORE hand or if I had any indicater, I would scorethat a win ...... mostly in the wallet


these chicks make enough cash to call any shots

one time I was speaking with a friend that also saw the same girl

we both spent plenty (me at least 8k per year) yet the same decline in service was experienced by both of us

what we concluded is the girl couldn't care less and our donations probably were not even scratching her surface


theres plenty of ho's and plenty more jimmies

[Wakeup]

Originally Posted by TSlyC

In any industry, it seems silly to me to deny an entire customer base due to a factor outside of their control.

Originally Posted by TSlyC

...it's just becoming more clear that it's something I cannot fix, as no matter what, due to who gave birth to me, i'll be viewed as a danger.

You keep saying its out of your control...why?

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by TSlyC

My disagreement relates to a lack of understanding as it concerns "preference" and how those preferences are used to inform providers. Obviously we all discriminate, but to discriminate against someone due to factors outside their control is a different discussion.

I like my hookers older than most guys
yet hook errrr providers can't control when they was born

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by TSlyC

My disagreement relates to a lack of understanding as it concerns "preference" and how those preferences are used to inform providers. Obviously we all discriminate, but to discriminate against someone due to factors outside their control is a different discussion.

Pick different parents?

Originally Posted by TSlyC

I haven't called anyone a whore, or talked about how anyone shouldn't be called a whore.

I said in my opening post that it is the provider's choice, just as it's my choice to question and hear from providers and jimmies about the situation.

It was also, as I initially stated an opportunity to vent.

In any industry, it seems silly to me to deny an entire customer base due to a factor outside of their control. If a jimmie was in England and several providers said "NO AMERICANS", I would expect the jimmie to be frustrated and ask the same question.

This has nothing to do with calling anyone or protecting anyone from being called a whore, Johnny.

But you do not either understand or care for other's choices, or preferences, because they do not want to see you for whatever reason, real or imagined. You can choose to contact whichever provider you wish. But that does not mean the provider is obligated to see you, or anyone else.

[jokacz]

Just so you know it's not just a Black thing, a number of ads north of the border read "No Indians or Pakis". If you've ever been to 'Sauga, you'd understand.