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Gfe Juliette · 01-24-2015, 04:51 PM

Some of you may or may not know that I am currently visiting another state at the time. Anyhow, I just got a request from a gentleman asking me to spend some time with him and should we want to take things further after our date is over and the attraction is there, would I object to not using a certain item during that time. He used the term going "natural". He promised me that he has never done this before and he is 100% safe. Huh? I wonder if this usually works for him. His excuse was that after doing research on me, he knew that I was 100% safe as well. I informed him that's true and I would like to keep it that way. I AM APPALLED THAT ANYONE WOULD SERIOUSLY ASK FOR THIS. Unbelievable,what a moron. I wonder what planet he lives on.

Frenchy29-2000 · 01-24-2015, 05:10 PM

If you do a little research on eccie you will find out that it not that unusual for people to make such request. I guess some people like to play with their lives.

JustCause · 01-24-2015, 06:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Gfe Juliette

Some of you may or may not know that I am currently visiting another state at the time. Anyhow, I just got a request from a gentleman ...

Glad to know at least it wasn't a home boy...

I'm sorry Juliette. That will teach you to leave us...

mike1701 · 01-24-2015, 07:59 PM

Juilette, you and I go back a long time. Does anything really surprise you anymore?

rrabbit6926 · 01-24-2015, 09:39 PM

Did you blacklist him or put him on your DNS list?

jim1995 · 01-24-2015, 11:24 PM

This happens all the time. Play safe and be careful.

I love what this guy. Considers natural sex, it's just not part of this hobby.

Gfe Juliette · 01-25-2015, 12:15 AM

OF COURSE I PUT HIM ON MY DNS LIST.

Juliette

Gfe Juliette · 01-25-2015, 12:30 AM

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Originally Posted by JustCause

Glad to know at least it wasn't a home boy...

I'm sorry Juliette. That will teach you to leave us...

Sorry JC, I just got a little bored in Nashville. It is soooo cold here. A couple of nights ago it snowed huge snowflakes. It was absolutely beautiful.

See you soon everyone.

Hugs,
Juliette

bluffcityguy · 01-25-2015, 09:31 AM

Honestly, the impression I have gotten talking to people backchannel and in other forums is that the vast majority of guys will do IT (© Tits McFloppin, used without permission) "au naturel" whenever they think they can get away with it. And that includes guys whose public personae involve loud protestations of "ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME? DO YOU WANT TO GET AIDS AND DIE?" And the rest of us who wouldn't do IT "au naturel" would, in the best of all possible worlds, do so if there were no consequences to be had by doing IT "au naturel".

So no, I'm not in the least surprised.

Travel safely, and return to your fan club in good health.

Cheers,

bcg

JustCause · 01-25-2015, 03:08 PM

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Originally Posted by bluffcityguy

Honestly, the impression I have gotten talking to people backchannel and in other forums is that the vast majority of guys will do IT (© Tits McFloppin, used without permission) "au naturel" whenever they think they can get away with it. And that includes guys whose public personae involve loud protestations of "ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME? DO YOU WANT TO GET AIDS AND DIE?" And the rest of us who wouldn't do IT "au naturel" would, in the best of all possible worlds, do so if there were no consequences to be had by doing IT "au naturel".
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Doesn't matter what I say in public. Sometimes I drink too many russians and say strange things.

In private, it's safe or its not happening. And please notice the period at the end of that sentence.

And just as I finished entering this response, this popped up in new posts. http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1284619

Curve Chaser · 01-25-2015, 04:13 PM

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Originally Posted by bluffcityguy

Honestly, the impression I have gotten talking to people backchannel and in other forums is that the vast majority of guys will do IT (© Tits McFloppin, used without permission) "au naturel" whenever they think they can get away with it. And that includes guys whose public personae involve loud protestations of "ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME? DO YOU WANT TO GET AIDS AND DIE?" And the rest of us who wouldn't do IT "au naturel" would, in the best of all possible worlds, do so if there were no consequences to be had by doing IT "au naturel".

So no, I'm not in the least surprised.

bcg

I like the way you put that, BCG.

I agree with Julliette. I can sympathize with the guy, though. I've been offered BBFS a couple times. I declined, and have never repeated with those providers. At the time, I was very tempted. Each provider waited until foreplay was finished. The wrong head was charge, and I don't often cum when wearing a condom. Needless to say I seriously considered it. And then it really freaked me out that I was in that situation - seriously considering it. I made it a point to never get so close to temptation again.

Julliette's non-customer is thinking with his penis. We're men, we do that from time to time. Hell, it's why we're on this board! But there's a reason BBFS is taboo. Let's keep it that way.

I appreciate the dialog - it's good to remind everyone that our actions can affect each other.

justme14 · 01-26-2015, 08:12 AM

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http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1284619

Yikes

jbcdefghijklmnop · 01-28-2015, 08:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Curve Chaser

I like the way you put that, BCG.

I agree with Julliette. I can sympathize with the guy, though. I've been offered BBFS a couple times. I declined, and have never repeated with those providers. At the time, I was very tempted. Each provider waited until foreplay was finished. The wrong head was charge, and I don't often cum when wearing a condom. Needless to say I seriously considered it. And then it really freaked me out that I was in that situation - seriously considering it. I made it a point to never get so close to temptation again.

Julliette's non-customer is thinking with his penis. We're men, we do that from time to time. Hell, it's why we're on this board! But there's a reason BBFS is taboo. Let's keep it that way.

I appreciate the dialog - it's good to remind everyone that our actions can affect each other.

I, and I'm sure many many many - did I say MANY enough times? - hobbiests can completely relate to this. The "offer" doesn't happen often in my experiences, but even once happening is TOO OFTEN. And I'm not talking about the vague times of heavy petting where you might be thinking "hey, she's getting a bit too close to my junk down there" and shift your body away just to be safe. I'm talking about the no other way to construe what was just said to you offer.

So if/when this comes up, ask yourself "why is she suggesting this?". And you really need to come to terms with, in advance, whether you really can accept the potential health risks, possibly lethal risks. And don't be naive to think you're the only one getting the offer too. And if you're still on the fence even with all of that, think about how fun it'll be supporting a child forever. If none of that dissuades you, get some therapy cause you're probably f'in insane.

Gfe Juliette · 01-29-2015, 02:14 PM

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Originally Posted by JustCause

Glad to know at least it wasn't a home boy...

I'm sorry Juliette. That will teach you to leave us...

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Yikes

WOW, I will be sure to put him on my DNS list in case he ever visits Nashville or I visit his area of town. Thanks for sharing.