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Houston.Epicurean · 01-14-2015, 01:03 AM

I was in the mood for a diversion so I started perusing provider ads on eccie and bp and noticed Raven had posted both places.

http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1273694

http://houston.backpage.com/FemaleEs...shell/24601536

I checked out a few of her reviews and noticed the all seemed to be from Austin but they were all good so I decided to call her.

She answered promptly. I said I saw her ad on bp and asked her if she was still taking appointments. She said yes. I asked her when the next available was and she said "now". I asked where she was and she said 45 and Richey. I said it would take me 1/2 hour to get to her location and asked if 8:45 would be ok. She said yes. She asked if I was interested in hh or hr and I asked how much for each. She said 120 and 220. I said how about we start with 1/2 hour and do the hour if we both agreed. She said yes. I asked for the hotel and room number and she said to call when I exited.

I must have really wanted to see her. I rinsed off and got there in 15 minutes or 8:30. I called and asked if she was ready and if I could have the hotel and room number. She have me the hotel name and said she give me the number when I got there.

I turned the wrong way on 45 and had to loop around. The entrance to the hotel was in a weird place so I had to loop around again and pulled in the parking lot and called at exactly 8:45 the time we had originally agreed. No answer.

I called again at 8:50. No answer. I left a message asking if we were still on. I called again at 9:00 saying I'd stick around for 5 more minutes and leave. No return call.

Raven may look hot and have some good reviews in Austin but as far as I'm concerned she is just one big waste of time.

Still Looking · 01-14-2015, 01:37 AM

If I go to Houston and she is there.... I'm NOT calling her!

rockerrick · 01-14-2015, 07:14 AM

IMO you got blown off because of the let's start with a half hour then see about an hour shit! I know lots of providers and next to sending cock shots, it's probably the second most irritating thing you can do. They have schedules you know? They aren't just sitting around waiting just for you.

siberia · 01-14-2015, 07:58 AM

^^^ Exactly

Houston.Epicurean · 01-14-2015, 08:29 AM

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Originally Posted by rockerrick

IMO you got blown off because of the let's start with a half hour then see about an hour shit! I know lots of providers and next to sending cock shots, it's probably the second most irritating thing you can do. They have schedules you know? They aren't just sitting around waiting just for you.

Thanks for the advice. From Siberia too.

I didn't realize it was irritating and won't do it again.

I meant it to be polite.

I'm an older bigger guy and I realize that may not appeal to some ladies so if there is no chemistry we don't have to do the whole hour (I make this clear it is her choice as well as mine) and if the lady isn't into it I don't have to write a bad review. By doing the option thing I meant to convey I was trying to be polite not cheap, but it is clear now that strategy is backfiring on me.

But if she didn't want to do a half hour with the option to extend to the hour all she had to do was say so. I don't think that justifies a NC/NS.

I get it. Her body, her rules. But it would be nice to know the rules before I make the appointment.

Thanks again for the input.

A question though. Do the ladies find it offensive if as the half hour comes to a close the gentleman asks if it is ok to extend to an hour for the agreed upon few? I've done it that way too.

rockerrick · 01-14-2015, 08:37 AM

I would agree with you on the just saying so, but they tend to not like confrontations, and not responding is so much easier. Hope you have better luck on future endeavors.

onei · 01-14-2015, 08:51 AM

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Originally Posted by rockerrick

IMO you got blown off because of the let's start with a half hour then see about an hour shit! I know lots of providers and next to sending cock shots, it's probably the second most irritating thing you can do. They have schedules you know? They aren't just sitting around waiting just for you.

I say "Bullshit!" Sure it may be irritating, and I get that, but she booked the meeting knowing FULL WELL the arrangement. If you don't like the arrangement then have tits big enough to say "No thank you!" and move on with your 'scheduled day.' If a gal tells me yes, then strings me along, all the way to the hotel, then gives me crickets, I'm going to be one pissed off client and you can count on me blasting your ass all over this board. You either be professional or get the fuck out of the business!

rockerrick · 01-14-2015, 09:13 AM

I agree with you. But more than likely she said yes knowing FULL WELL it would get rid of him. I don't blame him for asking, nor the ncns post. Just giving him insight that I have from things that have been talked about with me.

onei · 01-14-2015, 12:06 PM

Help me understand here. How would her agreeing to a HH that could extend to an H upon mutual agreement be a means that he would not show? Is that what you are implying? If so, I don't get it. I've only done this once, but have thought about it many times. To me it sounds like a win-win. Where is my thinking off?

rockerrick · 01-14-2015, 12:12 PM

Not that he wouldn't show, she would end contact at that point. Like I said in previous post, they hate confrontation. And they have lots of experience with butt hurt and obsessives, this is why they use it as defensive mechanism.
It sounds good in theory to you, to them it's the equivalent of a haggler, or the guy they can't get to leave. So it's easier to say yes, bye. Then terminate communication.

onei · 01-14-2015, 04:36 PM

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Originally Posted by rockerrick

So it's easier to say yes, bye. Then terminate communication.

Forgive my denseness (is that a word?)

If I remember right (I didn't go back and read the original post) she said yes, then continued to communicate until it was time for the appointment, even saying call me when you get here (he had arrived early, then took wrong turns), he just needed the room number, she even gave the location. To me that is no pt stopping communication after saying yes, that is stringing him along, directing him to the incall then blowing him off ... AKA:EFN Special!

I can fully understand your stated scenario above as that has happened to me multiple times when I'm trying to find out more information that they are willing to share. No loss, no gain. I never left the comfort of my home. Anyway, I don't want to ride a dead horse into the ground. If I'm seeing it wrong so be it. I'm not always the smartest cookie in the jar.