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Originally Posted by colt
The only expression of love is thru giving gifs of monetary value.
You missed the punch line
In her deepest loins it is what she truly wants.
If he follows your advise he is just like every other chump out there desperate for some ass.
This ones for you SAangel27: It is why you dump nice guys that bend over backwards and shower you with gifts.
If you allow a woman to make the rules she will resent you with a seething contempt even a rapist cannot inspire. The strongest woman and the most strident feminist wants to be led by, and to submit to, a more powerful man. Polarity is the core of a healthy loving relationship. She does not want the prerogative to walk all over you with her capricious demands and mercurial moods. Her emotions are a hurricane, her soul a saboteur. Think of yourself as a bulwark against her tempest. When she grasps for a pillar to steady herself against the whipping winds or yearns for an authority figure to foil her worst instincts, it is you who has to be there… strong, solid, unshakeable and immovable. |
Haha, you even more messed up than me or an amazing troll. The whole point of him following my advice is keeping her hands out of his wallet while still fostering a relationship.
Fun fact: Most younger girls are starved for real affection. If she's genuinely attracted then being awesome when they are together coupled with kinda cold texts and phone calls means that she keep coming back to get the affection she craves.
Sweetheart, I can guarantee you that I spent more money on gifts than my SO's. Why? Because most people are dumb enough to equate money spent with love. So anytime I messed up by forgetting a date, birthday, anniversary, or to return a call or text I'd just buy them something and it shut them up. It kept the SO complacent and out of my hair.
No woman wants to really give up all control. The easiest way to manage someone is by giving them little demands that don't really mean much then using that against them when there is something you actually want. They have the illusion that they have a lot of power in the relationship while you still get everything you want. My father employs this with my mother....and I've used it on my SO's.
Also, if I ever have to describe someone's emotions as a hurricane or tempest....I would get out. Speaking like adults in a calm manner is less stressful for everyone and no one regrets things they say later. Plus, the good china stays intact.
Maybe I approach relationships too much like a man and I'm outside the norm, but it works for me and everyone stays happy. Don't get me wrong, I'm nurturing, sweet, let them feel like a manly man while I fetch their friends' beer, serve dinner while wearing a dress or lingerie, and NEVER belittle them or argue in front of his friends....but they treat me EXACTLY how I want them to and will do what I say the first time by the time I'm finished.
I would have been married four times over by now if I didn't have deep commitment issues.
