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10-15-2014, 10:15 AM
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User ID: 70186
Join Date: Feb 14, 2011
Location: Corpus Christi, TX
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How much would you be willing to share?
I've been gone for quite a bit and during that absence, was not active in the Hobby due to familial obligations, however, this absence gave me time to re-evaluate my likes/dislikes, want/needs/desires and allowed me to do some self exploration in terms of my sexuality/sensuality.
I am a submissive. Now, before anyone gets all excited, let me say, I AM NOT INTO HEAVY BDSM. I don't go for humiliation, flogging to bleeding, extreme restraints, etc. I am what one would term a "Sensual Submissive".
I am contemplating adding this element into my repertoire, and naturally am a bit apprehensive about safety concerns. I have some ideas on screening/verification that I'm kicking around but not yet ready to share, but I wanted to ask any of the Gents out there into Gentle Dom-ming...
Of course, if any of the Ladies have any input, please chime in.
How much information would you be willing to share in order to get verified/screened?
Any thoughts/opinions would be welcomed. If you don't feel comfortable answering in the open forum, simply PM me.
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10-15-2014, 10:57 AM
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"Sensual submissive" sounds way too vague to me. Maybe indicating you are open to "gentle domming" might work. Then, discuss the details privately.
Just some thoughts.
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10-15-2014, 11:27 AM
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Originally Posted by emptywallet
"Sensual submissive" sounds way too vague to me. Maybe indicating you are open to "gentle domming" might work. Then, discuss the details privately.
Just some thoughts.
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@emptywallet: truth be told, it ALL might need to be explained...lol
However, I would think that "sensual sub" would be known to those who are familiar with the experience, and what might be "gentle" to some, might be left open to interpretation. Also, given the nature of some "Doms", there is that thing of "topping from the bottom"...
But yes, I had not consider the vagueness of the term. I will most definitely take your suggestion to heart and factor it in.
Thank you.
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10-16-2014, 12:47 AM
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use safe words and let them know your limits before hand.
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10-16-2014, 07:33 AM
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use safe words and let them know your limits before hand.
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Good Morning, Donuts.
Yes, your suggestions are a given. I already have a "list" written out, but what I'm really wanting to know is how much information would someone be willing to provide in order to book, i.e. Name, phone#, copy of ID....in order to verify themselves. The very nature of what I'm considering would require a different level of trust as opposed to a "regular" booking.
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10-16-2014, 01:12 PM
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Ooooooooooh. Maybe references from others he has gently dom-ed. You won't get many guys who will want to give you personal information.
Meet and greet in public?
I don't know. You might want to save for regulars. There have been one or two domme-switch providers who have visited. Maybe you can PM them for pointers.
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11-08-2014, 10:05 AM
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Join Date: Jan 7, 2010
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Wow. KV is back. Brings back many fond memory's!! Is great to see you darling. Wish I was back in So. Texas now.
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11-08-2014, 10:20 AM
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Join Date: May 16, 2011
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Copy of ID? Good luck on that. Nobody getting my DL # and Bday....those are used in ID Theft.
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11-08-2014, 05:01 PM
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Wow. KV is back. Brings back many fond memory's!! Is great to see you darling. Wish I was back in So. Texas now.
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Get your ass back down here sweetie! I'm sure you remember some of our fond memories as well. 
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11-09-2014, 02:49 AM
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Join Date: May 23, 2010
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Lol pm sent
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11-11-2014, 09:04 AM
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Wow. KV is back. Brings back many fond memory's!! Is great to see you darling. Wish I was back in So. Texas now.
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TQ!!!!
Howdy Love!
You mean to tell me, that after my long absence and fulfilling your request to return to South TX, you're not here?
Darn the luck!!! 
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11-11-2014, 09:06 AM
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Originally Posted by emptywallet
Ooooooooooh. Maybe references from others he has gently dom-ed. You won't get many guys who will want to give you personal information.
Meet and greet in public?
I don't know. You might want to save for regulars. There have been one or two domme-switch providers who have visited. Maybe you can PM them for pointers.
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This is great advice/info...thanks for sharing.
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11-11-2014, 09:08 AM
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Hey Chica!
I'm back but still on the fence about what my plans are...I'll PM you so we can exchange some 411.
Be Safe!
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11-11-2014, 09:12 AM
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Copy of ID? Good luck on that. Nobody getting my DL # and Bday....those are used in ID Theft.
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LOL...after setting up safeguards to sell my body, if I have to steal identities too, then I would most definitely need to be tarred and feathered. 
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11-11-2014, 06:26 PM
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You want verification? Get P411! No one else gets to see ID!
Personally, I'm in to to straight up DATY, BBBJ, LFK, DFK & CFS
Your tits look WONDERFUL!
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