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Originally Posted by SAangel27
I never understood being stingy with vouches. If a man wanted to be in a committed relationship with a female then why would he hobby to begin with?
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Such truth!!!
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Originally Posted by TemptationTammie
There have been numerous times when a guy will give me a lady as a reference and I ask either on here or text and crickets. Sucks since we should be here to help each other out.
But I'm also not gonna lie if the guy has NCNS'd me or if it's been a while.
I feel the guys that use me as a ref is one that will come back to see me again and if I don't give the ref then I could lose them altogether.
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Exactly. I will let the lady know if it's been a while. But I always respond to every request and look for PMs from the ladies first.
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Originally Posted by LadyV
I recently had a gentleman provide 6 references and I only got one response... Thank you Miss Meagan!  That is absolutely pathetic odds. I may not always get right back as we all have lives outside of the hobby but I always make an effort to answer when asked to give a voucher. For me it is simply a matter of the old golden rule. I wish more providers felt this way too. Great thread Tracy!  |
Yes I agree. We all have busy lives.. but safety is paramount so please please please answer PMs from other providers ladies.
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Originally Posted by travelerman
That is why I use p411. Never have to use references.
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I love P411 for this reason! Best thing ever!
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Originally Posted by sms918
Yea, p411 has helped a lot. As far as I know, only really had a few not Respond when I used them as a reference. I usually contact them and tell them I used them as reference, maybe that helps. I've had a few say that it was ok, because I had some reviews here. I also prefer providers that also p411. Makes me feel safer.
Will say like previous comments. If a provider doesn't give reference for here or no response oto ok request on p411 or date-check, etc., I rethink if I was see that provider again. Because I usually ask if provider wants reviews or ok requests before I make requests. Understand some don't get back to me or don't go on those sites. It goes both ways.
Hi tracy. Good thread, but not surprising since I know you have a beautiful mind as well body.
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Thanks love! I've asked a few of the gents to reach out to the providers to see if that would help. We will see!
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Originally Posted by Malaya
I've had this issue with 4 other providers. They never replied to vouch requests but I would see them logging in and posting ads. The client would get frustrated with me because I couldn't verify them. It's irritating because I always try to respond quickly to any and all vouch requests as quickly as possible. Providers like that won't last long in the hobby anyways. Their greed and selfishness will eventually show through and they will only get cruddy clients or none at all.
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I feel you doll. It's very frustrating
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Originally Posted by nushi
I dislike the vouching process so much that I no longer see new providers requesting references.
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Well that sucks! You might be missing out on something.
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Originally Posted by HardnThick
Some how I sense that this thread is somehow about me.  |
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Originally Posted by lovemeandleaveme
I saw a well-known provider in Austin at least weekly for months for a two-hour appointment until June. Went on vacation for three weeks and tried to set up some future action from long distance and used her as a reference. During the second week of my vacation, she stopped vouching and I stopped getting any action. Guess who is not getting any more two-hour appointments?
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Exactly. Ladies, pay attention.
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Originally Posted by CamilleFox69
Karma... That's all I have to say. They know who they are. Some ladies don't even bother replying to my reference requests. Smh... Main reason I ask for TWO references... Thank you very much for the professionals who do.
Camille
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Thank you Camille for responding to mine!
