"bad customers get bad customer service"...?

[chicagoboy]

Originally Posted by poppy71

Somewhere right now Lorena Bobbit is smiling and doing a lil dance

"Somewhere" would be Gainesville, Virginia.

Lorena Bobbitt speaks out 21 years after she sliced off her husband's penis

FTA: 'Believe it or not, I had quite a few gentlemen that wanted to date me,' she told NBC4, smiling.

[Wakeup]

It's a "no" review...from a faceless internet persona...on a hooker board...

Grab some perspective...

[Eccie Addict]

Originally Posted by BFCjosh

That goes back to my main point. Don't consent to something you may not be up for.

Being rough is one thing, not allowing someone to breath is another.

[SpiceItUp]

I like to play rough from time to time with the right girl but I have to concur with others who have mentioned that if you're going to do that you need to establish parameters and stick to them. Who knows what really happened here but I'm willing to bet a good portion of it was due to poor communication on both sides about what was desired and the boundaries. There is a way to do things safely and enjoyably for both parties, this demonstrates the wrong way to go about it.

Once she lets him know though there is no excuse for doing something again that she has told him she is uncomfortable with.

And yeah, it seems like he was trying to get a half hour for a BNG price, not cool in my opinion. If you know you take awhile to get going or whatever the case may be then book the appropriate amount of time you cheapskate.

[Jjhaus]

Honey you are great in my book and would not worry about the no review.

[boardman]

It ain't perfect but this is probably the best "No" response I've seen.
Mods might consider making this a sticky for the thousands of other dumb hooktards to use as an example.

[Pistolero]

Nobody reads the stickies

[boardman]

They would if it was about ME!

[SinsOfTheFlesh]

Originally Posted by BFCjosh

Sorry the session didn't go to your liking. Next time, don't get blinded by the dollar signs and agree to do something you're not up for. The guy was upfront about his desire to face fuck, play rough and stay long...you had the option to say no to any or all of those.

So when I tell you that I like a little ass play, and you agree, that means you won't complain when I shove a 12" black dildo straight up your ass with no lube, right?

Just askin.

[Guest021817-2]

Note to self.......

Hate ass play.

[Eccie Addict]

Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

So when I tell you that I like a little ass play, and you agree, that means you won't complain when I shove a 12" black dildo straight up your ass with no lube, right?

Just askin.

Your hypothetical seems to get the point across much better than mine

[poppy71]

Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

So when I tell you that I like a little ass play, and you agree, that means you won't complain when I shove a 12" black dildo straight up your ass with no lube, right?

Just askin.

If I read up on you to know that you liked using that 12" black dildo on your clients and called it a little ass play then I would know enough to say keep it away from me before we did anything. The point here is really how well did she screen the guy. His m.o. is not hard to see if she screened him before agreeing to what he wanted. Two wrongs don't make a right here and they both have a part of this bad experience to accept blame for.

[BFCjosh]

Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

So when I tell you that I like a little ass play, and you agree, that means you won't complain when I shove a 12" black dildo straight up your ass with no lube, right?

Just askin.

Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Your hypothetical seems to get the point across much better than mine

The guy wanted to face fuck her and asked permission to do it roughly. So your comparison is silly. A better example would if you told me you wanted to fuck me with a 12 inch dildo and do it roughly.

I would say no. I don't want to be fucked in the ass and I certainly don't want to be fucked in the ass roughly. The degree of roughness would make no difference.

Similarly, if I were the OP, I would have told the client that I don't want to be face fucked (which is already a form of rough play) and I sure as hell don't want to be face fucked roughly.

You two act like a lady has no right to refuse a customer request...that her only recourse is to complain afterwards if she doesn't like it. That's bullshit. She should feel free to say no upfront if the activity is out of her comfort zone.

If the request is vague, ask him to clarify. Get the information you need to make a decision. Don't just say yes and hope for the best.

[Guest021817-2]

Originally Posted by BFCjosh

The guy wanted to face fuck her and asked permission to do it roughly. So your comparison is silly. A better example would if you told me you wanted to fuck me with a 12 inch dildo and do it roughly.

I would say no. I don't want to be fucked in the ass and I certainly don't want to be fucked in the ass roughly. The degree of roughness would make no difference.

Similarly, if I were the OP, I would have told the client that I don't want to be face fucked (which is already a form of rough play) and I sure as hell don't want to be face fucked roughly.

You two act like a lady has no right to refuse a customer request...that her only recourse is to complain afterwards if she doesn't like it. That's bullshit. She should feel free to say no upfront if the activity is out of her comfort zone.

If the request is vague, ask him to clarify. Get the information you need to make a decision. Don't just say yes and hope for the best.

Not trying to argue with you in the least bit......

Your grasp of the English language is just a tad bit better than the OP, do you think something might have been lost in translation?

Just asking, you seem to get wound up quick sometimes...

Later man!

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by Pistolero

Nobody reads the stickies

I bet they would if taint photos were included.



l4b, bfc does not seem to understand if the rough play is too rough that the participants have the right to tap out and not have to endure assault.