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zme · 02-11-2012, 04:27 PM

I can see that if you don't have verifiable credentials some providers may we nervous in case you are with LE etc. But in that case they should either not agree to meet or should let you know they don't want to meet. Ladies wanting to play safe and be concerned about their wellbeing is totally fine, that is their prerogative. But the NCNS treatment is totally unacceptable.

vidagalore · 02-11-2012, 09:27 PM

I agree ncns is unacceptable.
perhaps you should post whoever ncns w/you so that other gents will know they are flaky.

Prolongus · 02-12-2012, 06:50 AM

Name 'em, dude. As everyone has said, this place is about sharing info. If I get NC/NS'd I'll give the lady at least 24 hours to respond. If I don't hear from her, you're damn straight I'm gonna let everyone, especially the guys, know about it and who they were.

Providers who act this way don't last very long in this business.

bigclitluvr · 02-12-2012, 08:47 AM

You should do a review, and be honest!

Once a provider and hobbyist agree on the time, place, rate, etc...the appointment is set! How you got to that point does not manner anymore. If either party has to change anything (cancel appointment, running late for appointment, that time of month unexpectedly shows up, dog ate your home work, etc....) they should notify the other party as soon as possible!

We all have busy schedules and a life outside of this life! Trying to schedule the two can be a challenge sometimes! There is nothing more aggravating than to set aside time for an appointment, and to sit there waiting on a no show! In almost every case you don't have time to make an appointment with someone else! The time, preparation, etc...is all lost!

In the case of a hobbyist getting stood up, he should post a review. Be fair, don't make things up, give all the details!

Chica Chaser · 02-12-2012, 03:02 PM

NCNS should be done as a "New Thread" not review and be in the local coed section rather than the review section. That way the lady has the opportunity to rebut/respond to the report .

la_princesa · 02-12-2012, 05:23 PM

This is, like many others said, RUDE ! In her defense, perhaps she felt uncomfortable, or maybe got a 'bad vibe'. It is "Provider code" to always go with your gut. If something doesn't feel right, then don't go. That's the only thing I can think of on her part.

Sorry this happened to you.

*GoddessDallas* · 02-12-2012, 06:01 PM

SPRCHF.
Do you NEED to be in Downtown Dallas?
A lot of ladies live in Far North Dallas by George Bush/Tollway/Addison.

sprchf · 02-13-2012, 08:11 PM

Goddess, I prefer to meet in that part of Dallas. I have found that the hotel where I stay is relatively nice and the staff are very respectful of their guests and their friends who might visit. That being said, I have taken under advisement what has been written here and will post more frequently. To those who have stated that I need to review and name providers who NCNS to me, I will be a Gentlemen and let was has transpired rest in the past.

bobjohnson99 · 06-06-2014, 07:24 PM

But then you read reviews and they all say awesome - but she only shows up 10 percent of the time and unless you search all over the boards you would never know. I think NC/NS should be at least linked to reviews so you can make a better decision. If you are only in a location for a night and set something up many times you won't be able to recover. I know that I have seen some girls with as many nc/ns as reviews but you would never know it by looking at their reviews. Yeah stuff happens - but if it happens all the time it should reflect in the reviews. When I search for a provider I not only want to know that she will deliver but that she will show up.

bobjohnson99 · 06-06-2014, 07:29 PM

Yeah - I think a provider has the right to decide not to go - but I don't think she has the right to just not show up with no contact. Just call and say you don't feel comfortable and aren't coming. Don't leave me sitting in a room for an hour waiting for you to not show up.

RedLeg505 · 06-07-2014, 09:45 AM

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Originally Posted by chipper

Part of the problem may be that you have been a member for over a year and only have two posts and both of them were today.

I'm curious how his not posting would be a factor. I can see it being a factor when contacting the provider to request the appointment and her saying "No, you aren't established enough for me". BUT. .once she's made the appointment and agreed to see him, what bloody effect does his posting history have to do with them not showing? DO providers often schedule to meet someone with no posting history.. then change their minds? If so, why agree in the first place? Secondly, if that's the case,. why not call and tell him.."Sorry, I don't feel safe with your lack of posting history".. it apparently wasn't a concern when she first agreed to see him.

I think folks are using this posting history thing to make excuses. It makes no sense whatsoever.

LNK · 06-07-2014, 11:35 AM

Why are we discussing a 2 year old missed connection?

ElumEno · 06-07-2014, 07:06 PM

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Originally Posted by LNK

Why are we discussing a 2 year old missed connection?

Because NCNS is and always will be a hot topic of discussion.
Therefore the thread topic is still very relevant.

LNK · 06-07-2014, 08:41 PM

It happened 2 years ago, I don't see the relevance to today, nor to this forum. It's not a Member Suggestion or Forum Request.

The guy wanted to know why the girl(s) didn't show up. TWO YEARS AGO.

If they didn't tell him then, how the fuck does anyone think they're going to find out now?

"Oh, yeah, I remember him calling me. I would have seen him, except I (insert random hooker excuse here)."

bobjohnson99 · 06-07-2014, 08:47 PM

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Originally Posted by bobjohnson99

But then you read reviews and they all say awesome - but she only shows up 10 percent of the time and unless you search all over the boards you would never know. I think NC/NS should be at least linked to reviews so you can make a better decision. If you are only in a location for a night and set something up many times you won't be able to recover. I know that I have seen some girls with as many nc/ns as reviews but you would never know it by looking at their reviews. Yeah stuff happens - but if it happens all the time it should reflect in the reviews. When I search for a provider I not only want to know that she will deliver but that she will show up.

This is kind of a suggestion