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Originally Posted by RideFreeInTexas
I agree. One lady I met was not at all what I expected, her personality was a bit "out there" and she wasn't as firm as her pics looked. But it wasn't a case of false advertising so much as me having worked up a different image in my head of how I thought she'd look and act. But I felt it had gone too far by then to back out. Here's the difference- whereas OP told himself it was going to go bad, I told myself she may not be who I thought, but I'm going to have fun anyway. And boy did I, it was an amazing session!
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I really liked reading this response. And the reason why it makes such good sense is that I feel, from reading the OP's topic and responses, he's having either buyer's remorse or he's just getting those last minute jitters (which is completely normal especially for less experienced lovers).
I cannot tell you how many times that I've opened the door to a client and even knowing how he's supposed to look, it's surprising to me. And I'm positive the opposite has happened.
Most of the time, it works out just fine. Often, even better than fine.
Other than the obvious reasons to leave an appointment before it even starts, and I completely understand if a man leaves because of being misled, etc., how in the world can you tell if you're going to enjoy the physical pleasures of a woman when you haven't even touched her yet?
When you start to like someone, they become better looking to you. If you do not like someone, it doesn't matter how attractive they are. So much of "this" is chemistry and it's amazing who you'll find chemistry with.
I used to have the above statement on my website for years because I used to get calls that went something like this, "I'm a good looking guy. You'll like having sex with me. Can I get a discount?"
I see incredibly attractive men, and much younger men (and I complain about that constantly!), all of the time. It's almost shocking how attractive my client base really is.
But that's the rub. Often, the more unattractive men are the really good lovers. Looks are so secondary for women (I know!) because the ones that are experienced, know that it's impossible to tell the sexual acumen of a person by just looking at them.
Disclaimer: There have been times, when I've opened the door to let someone in, that I've just KNOWN that our time together was going to be delicious. It doesn't happen all of the time but sometimes, it does happen. So for what it's worth, my above statement isn't quite on the mark all of the time!
I'd follow the advice of the ones who seem to be experienced with seeing ladies of this realm. Unless the sex worker maliciously has given you false information, or you're feeling unsafe, then why don't you don't give it a try with the one that you're with?
I cannot speak for everyone, but the ladies that I've personally associated with have always wanted to completely please their partners. We have a bit of a knack for doing so, too!
Just my morning thoughts on it. Uncaffeinated thoughts, by the way.
Take care,
Elisabeth
My Bio Page - Texas - Dallas
My Bio Page - Texas - Dallas
