Help Needed on Referrals

[rifanni]

Dear Fellows:

I have been a member since 2011. However, i didn't post much as a family man who's been busy making ends meet everyday for the past years. i simply didn't have time/money for these fun here.

now things recently changed, and i finally get myself some free time and start looking around and try to relax a bit. I found one provider in Dallas, Relax2013, ask me to provide 'referral' so that they can schedule me since i haven't post much after registration.

i have searched the forum and have not found "HOW TO" get referrals, or what's context a referral should contain

Could you please enlighten me on this issue? or even kindly extend me a referral? I'd truly appreciate your consideration and time.

Please help, thanks!


rifanni.

[rlpolo69]

I am curious about this also. Providers are asking for referrals, but do providers remember every client they see?

[alaine]

SURE we do for about 3 days.
Really guys think we can remember them by the first name "John", for a minimum of 3 years.
YET, they don't want us to keep any written info on them at all.
IF they would JUST let us know in advance that they would like to use us as a reference, it would help tremendously. Certain providers here have hounded guys when they do this, with dropped rates or other types of solicitation. It makes guys cautious about contacting a previous provider to request they give reference. Also ladie, if you haven't seen said client more than one time, what is the limited amount of time that you will give a reference on a client? ! month, 3 months, a year? Guys, what's fair? Consider this, a guy who was fine 2 years ago, may not be good to see now. Life happens.