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Originally Posted by Fast Gunn
It appears that many folks are missing the point of this conversation either deliberately or simply not understanding the thrust of my argument.
It is not so much any particular outfit that the provider should wear especially on the first visit so much as the visible preparations to make the session special and inviting.
. . . My position is that certain things should be self-evident and should not require any explicit instructions if indeed she is interested in building up her business. When a man enters a room to see a lady for the first time, I believe there should be as a minimum, soft music, romantic candles and the lady dressed in an alluring outfit. When the room is stark without any apparent preparations and the lady dressed in drab jeans it indicates that she does not care or else has no clue about how to conduct her business.
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Yeah well, most times, I ask when it's not apparent. Most gents do have a preference for music, and just because yours is soft music which is fine, doesn't mean other gents prefer it and some even dislike it. I also like candles, but some gents might not like them at all....no scents is often a request. Alluring is awesome and what woman doesn't want to feel alluring, but when asked, each gent's "alluring outfit" also seems to be different, as I have had requests such as answer the door naked, shorts, sundress, business casual, jeans....and the list goes on.
This is why I would indicate to you that until you take appointments and different requests from lotsa ladies, maybe it's best you not take it for granted that your opinion on the subject is absolute hobby law that we should all abide by. If a gentleman doesn't make a specific request, then I'm liable to dress in whatever fashion that suits my mood.
Once again, hon....Communication is KEY to having something turn out as closely as possible as you might prefer or expect. We actually do treat each gent as individuals when given the opportunity, and maybe some of the gents should consider, we too, might be individuals.....ya know? We are great at a lot of things, but I have yet to meet a psychic provider. LOL And truly, I have yet to meet or know of one provider who is able to please every single gentleman who has contacted her and had an appointment.
Ya know, if you didn't care to be specific with a lady, she probably just thinks it doesn't matter to you, as believe it or not, some gents just don't care about what you believe should be obvious to others. You have your perspective to work with, but from our perspective it's a whole can of worms you couldn't even imagine and has surprised some gents, who actually cared and made an effort to know what we go through, trying to please each individual gentleman.
Hopefully, you now understand a little better why you might not always get what you expected, or even that we really don't know what YOU want unless You speak up, or even that one or more of the ladies had willfully disregarded what your expectations were.
C'est la vie
