Getting out of the car etiquette question

[modus]

Originally Posted by dallasfan

I like to get to the incall and call in and honk my horn while driving around the parking lot to announce by presence. Then i would ask if my horn was getting louder or quieter.

My first apartment incall I followed what I thought was a police officer through the security gate. Later found out it was the security guard, but it scared the shit out of me.

[VIP Mya Michelle]

Originally Posted by alphaturtle

I think you did everything right. Especially the "I left" part. I really can't tolerate rude, entitled people with bad attitudes.

Exactly with all the competition Dallas has to offer, you have to treat guys like you are happy they picked you. NOT like they are lucky you even saw their ass lol.

Originally Posted by dallasfan

I like to get to the incall and call in and honk my horn while driving around the parking lot to announce by presence. Then i would ask if my horn was getting louder or quieter.

I just spit out my drink laughing! Too Funny

[Guest112814]

Originally Posted by dallasfan

I like to get to the incall and call in and honk my horn while driving around the parking lot to announce by presence. Then i would ask if my horn was getting louder or quieter.

If that doesn't work I then approach any people walking by with my smart phone and show the people her ECCIE profile to see if they know where she's located.

[DarthDVader]

Now, does anyone know who the provider is?
The OP hasn't PM me and has been quiet ...
I wonder if he's got any unfriendly pm's ...

[Guest092216]

Originally Posted by VIP Mya Michelle

Exactly with all the choices Dallas has to offer, you have to treat guys like you are happy they picked you. NOT like they are lucky you even saw their ass...

Fixed that for you. "Competition" is an unhealthy perception held by way too many ladies, clouds their behavioral judgement makes them look insecure. I despise the overly competitive types. Its futile. No matter who you are or how good you think you are someone will always be better. Guaranteed.

Be as good as you can be with an honest heart - not bc ur trying to be better than someone else. Competition is a healthy motivator in small doses but don't let it get the best of you. We all have our unique qualities that make us attractive to others. Dallas has an abundance of CHOICES, not competition.

[GoManHo]

Originally Posted by dallasfan

I like to get to the incall and call in and honk my horn while driving around the parking lot to announce by presence. Then i would ask if my horn was getting louder or quieter.

So that was you circling the parking lot, lol..........

[Guest112814]

Originally Posted by thathottnurse

Fixed that for you. "Competition" is an unhealthy perception held by way too many ladies, clouds their behavioral judgement makes them look insecure. I despise the overly competitive types. Its futile. No matter who you are or how good you think you are someone will always be better. Guaranteed.

Be as good as you can be with an honest heart - not bc ur trying to be better than someone else. Competition is a healthy motivator in small doses but don't let it get the best of you. We all have our unique qualities that make us attractive to others. Dallas has an abundance of CHOICES, not competition.

SOOOO true. Everyone of us has different things that turn us on and makes so many guys that have seen the same ladies have different ATFs.

But I am pretty sure the lady that goes crazy yelling at us for getting out of the car doesn't make too many ATF lists.

[eccienewbie]

OP, you've gotten answers to your inquiries on whether the provider's reaction was kosher (it wasn't). Now help us out and tell us who it was. I don't do the PM thing. Spit it out. It's one of the obligations that I think we all owe to the community as a whole (others may disagree, but that's my position). She'll then have the option of either rationally explaining her side of the story or she'll go bat shit crazy and ruin herself in the process. Everybody's entitled to a bad day, so if that's the case, all she needs to do is say so. Either way, the information is important to a lot of guys, and so is the response.

Do it, friend.

[Guest100514]

Wow! I'm so sorry that someone treated you that way. For someone's first appt I give them very detailed instructions on parking and what to do when they arrive, including how to get to my unit so they look like they have been here many times. I do not see this as your fault. She should've given you better instructions. Especially if that was that important to her. Good for you for leaving and now allowing someone to treat you that way.

[Eva Damita]

Originally Posted by Tsmokies

This thread is far from useless for the girls and boys. The worst thing a boy can do is hang out at a private Incall. The worst things a girl can do is leaving a boy hanging outside a gate or say just follow someone in (wtf). The best girl I've seen gave me the # and said please don't knock (noisy neighbors) the doors unlocked just walk on in. Thank you miss Knoxx

Wow. Just wow. Come on and walk in? The door's unlocked? The woman had confidence...

[Guest060214]

Originally Posted by Eva Damita

Wow. Just wow. Come on and walk in? The door's unlocked? The woman had confidence...

Maybe she was still finishing with her last appointment.

[Eva Damita]

Originally Posted by Jarvis

Maybe she was still finishing with her last appointment.

hehehehe , it's always a possibility!

[Eva Damita]

Originally Posted by thathottnurse

Fixed that for you. "Competition" is an unhealthy perception held by way too many ladies, clouds their behavioral judgement makes them look insecure. I despise the overly competitive types. Its futile. No matter who you are or how good you think you are someone will always be better. Guaranteed.

Be as good as you can be with an honest heart - not bc ur trying to be better than someone else. Competition is a healthy motivator in small doses but don't let it get the best of you. We all have our unique qualities that make us attractive to others. Dallas has an abundance of CHOICES, not competition.

I don't see it as a negative or "unhealthy" . Mcdonald's and BK and Wendys are competitors, its simply business terminology - as this is business not always so emotionally correct.

Her perspective works for her and I don't see her saying the word "competition" in an "who's BETTER than WHO" way. Anything can be unhealthy. Any word can be seen as negative with an infinite breakdown of why it's negative... we're adults on an adult site ECCIE , this is not a Candyland fantasy board game. Sorry the word disturbed you, hon.

Back on topic - SAFETY FIRST and follow provider instruction. Also ladies , work to lay out all expectations prior to arrival instead of step-by-step. Communication is KEY.

[alias77]

Eva,

You are right! Competition is relevant and it is moronic to think it doesn't have any importance. The rates are set because of competition or escorts would charge 5000 per hour.

[Halfbad]

Originally Posted by alias77

Eva,

You are right! Competition is relevant and it is moronic to think it doesn't have any importance. The rates are set because of competition or escorts would charge 5000 per hour.

While I agree that competition has SOME importance, I believe supply and demand as well as level of service is far more important. Some providers can name their price and some would have problems even at silly low rates even if they were the only ones around.

There are women on Eccie that could ask for, and GET more than what they are asking and have great reviews and a steady flow of clients. If competition was the primary rate drive, they'd all be offering $50 sessions.

Just MHO after being around for longer than I like to remember