I don't have any Dominatrix stuff, not anymore.
I noticed with using them I would ALWAYS get asked, "Did you clean them right?" or other questions along those lines. It didn't bother me as much as one would think. But, I could understand their concern. If you don't clean those toys right, or/and clean them too roughly, they will start tearing apart. Nothing says, "Ouch" like going to the restroom to pushing out bits of plastic. I now ask guys to bring their own toys.
Why? Because, I feel they can get more comfortable with their own toys. They know where that toy has been, and how it's been clean. Verses, not knowing who that toy has been in. But, nothing wrong with having your own toys to use on them! Where did you get yours, Molly?