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Originally Posted by Bob the Nailer
THN,
Let me weigh in (on tiptoes) Sometimes, it is out of regret that we may have wanted to see so and so and boom, she's gone. Sometimes it's out of real sadness from loosing a (hobby) friend. Sometimes, it's people stirring the pot or stalking.
From my perspective, I think it's more the first two rather than the latter. But, I could be wrong. We could have gone around the corner where there isn't much good left in civil society in general.
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Lol @ tiptoes.
I see your point and most inquiries or general "i miss her" threads are likely well intentioned. But why not send a pm or a text or an email or at least keep the inquiries private. Why post a mass feeler? Isn't in the best interest for all to keep the whereabouts of other's private and not open the door for public speculation. What if - and a BIG WHAT IF - a provider (NOT THIS PROVIDER - LEMME SAY AGAIN, NOT THIS PROVIDER) was in a car accident and comatose up at some ICU. What if enough speculation and rumor were posted out in the open for a lurking stalker to find said defenseless, comatose lady. Ijs its a door that should not be opened. And again that was a WHAT IF situation. I have no knowledge whatsoever where any providers are or what they are doing (and neither should anyone else unless they are paying for her time at that particular moment).
When ppl aren't here they aren't here. And when they aren't here its for a reason. People post things all the time that causes behind the scenes drama and we never hear about it. This is no different. If guys are so fond of a provider then don't create an oppotunity for others to openly speculate about her whereabouts on a hookerboard when she obviously isnt around to speak for herself. Just leave it alone and don't even chance it.
Saying it all in kindness. Don't mean to come off too harshly.
