Screening~Why are some of us screening nazis?

[Guest021716-4]

+ 1 priv8dancer. Well said.

I was wondering when someone was gonna catch that?!

Fleshlight/flashlight.... Eh, they both serve a purpose!!

[saustin]

Originally Posted by Scarlett Rossi

Fleshlight/flashlight.... Eh, they both serve a purpose!!

Both useful items; hardly interchangeable - Col. Sherman T. Potter, MASH 4077

[Janele]

Well the day I found my best friend beaten and unconscious in a hotel room was the biggest wake up call for me (she had very easy/quick ways of screening)...of course we all screen to some extent but things like that happen too often and I for one havent been arrested, robbed, beat up or anything of that nature. Thanks to heavy screening

[JustAGuest]

Originally Posted by Janele

Well the day I found my best friend beaten and unconscious in a hotel room was the biggest wake up call for me (she had very easy/quick ways of screening)...of course we all screen to some extent but things like that happen too often and I for one havent been arrested, robbed, beat up or anything of that nature. Thanks to heavy screening

Hey Janele, your friend that got beaten, was she exclusively advertising on eccie?

[VictoriaLyn]

Originally Posted by JustAGuest

I seriously doubt there are that many assaults or violations...particularly of the girls that frequent this medium. most guys who just had an orgasm are just smiling, not angry... Just sayin'.

What would you consider that many? There are bad/wrong things that happen often and are reported just not where non providers can see it...

While most are happy smiling most of the time..there are those few who's only intent is to hurt the lady once he gets there...It could be a brand new person or someone you trusted over many years can just snap and bamm your outted, badly hurt or even worse...

[JustAGuest]

Originally Posted by VictoriaLyn

What would you consider that many? There are bad/wrong things that happen often and are reported just not where non providers can see it...

While most are happy smiling most of the time..there are those few who's only intent is to hurt the lady once he gets there...It could be a brand new person or someone you trusted over many years can just snap and bamm your outted, badly hurt or even worse...

I'm sure there are incidents. Its a high risk/high pay profession, would you agree? I'm speaking mostly to physical assaults/rape-not "bad/wrong" things which is kinda vague, would you agree?

And if the sole intent is to hurt the lady, as you claim, what do you think will keep that from happening? Can you provide a % statistic for those being "outted/badly hurt or worse"? Are you talking real world numbers or imagined potential statistics? I'm not trying to be smart assed, I'm really asking... Is this imagined, real or just fear mongering?

And I even stated that there are two girls I have seen, who I think a lot of, who I have encouraged to be stricter with their screening...'cause they basically post an ad & take on anyone who responds...with no true screening follow up.

Again I ask...of the real world cases of a provider being hurt...that anyone actually knows...did they exclusively see the johns here OR are they using BP or some other open forum?

[VictoriaLyn]

Originally Posted by JustAGuest

I'm sure there are incidents. Its a high risk/high pay profession, would you agree? I'm speaking mostly to physical assaults/rape-not "bad/wrong" things which is kinda vague, would you agree?

I agree and so am I

And if the sole intent is to hurt the lady, as you claim, what do you think will keep that from happening?

Nothing other then her own self defense training

Can you provide a % statistic for those being "outted/badly hurt or worse"?
No I cant because not everything gets reported and I speak only for me

Are you talking real world numbers or imagined potential statistics?

I'm not trying to be smart assed, I'm really asking... Is this imagined, real or just fear mongering?
This is real.. for instance .I had a client I had seen for many years who one day decided he wanted to kill a girl I was top of the list ..sadly it was someone I gave a reference to because the incall changed to an out call.. so no screening didnt help at all in that case

And I even stated that there are two girls I have seen, who I think a lot of, who I have encouraged to be stricter with their screening...'cause they basically post an ad & take on anyone who responds...with no true screening follow up.

They should listen or pm on of use ladies who have been around awhile.

Again I ask...of the real world cases of a provider being hurt...that anyone actually knows.
Again I speak for myself not sure whats thats worth anything in this case because I choose not to give details

..did they exclusively see the johns here OR are they using BP or some other open forum?
Those few that had turned bad were exclusively from here..

I cant give a % but with their permission i can mention that in the past few years I have gone with 3 different girls to the er after a client beat them

[JustAGuest]

Originally Posted by VictoriaLyn

I cant give a % but with their permission i can mention that in the past few years I have gone with 3 different girls to the er after a client beat them

Wow...the guy just decided he wanted to kill a girl??? That's fucked up beyond belief.. I'm not even gonna try to make a joke out of that.

I guess there are just messed up people out there on both sides of the benjamins. Not sure more screening will help with the scenarios you mentioned though.

[LordBeaverbrook]

Originally Posted by JustAGuest

Wow...the guy just decided he wanted to kill a girl??? That's fucked up beyond belief.. I'm not even gonna try to make a joke out of that.

I guess there are just messed up people out there on both sides of the benjamins. Not sure more screening will help with the scenarios you mentioned though.

Yep, there are some messed up people out ther. Back in the 80's I had a friend who danced at Sugars, but not a provider. Coming home from dancing at Dallas after work, some skel followed her home and knifed both her and her roommate to death. He was a lunch customer at Sugar's and saw her in the 7-11 on the way home.

I saw her at 2am and decided to go home instead of staying and dancing til 4am. It happened about 4:30am but I found out about it the next day. Incidence of violence alongside sexually related business is quite a bit higher than in the general population. There are a lot of messed up folks out there for sure, but the general rate of violence has been going down now for over 20 years too.

Some level of sexual violence is also likely coded into men's DNA via natural selection as well, but most of us let social pressure and convention overrule it unless asked to do it.

[Guest010218]

Screening is not just for the ladies. Guys, should check reviews and chat rooms...

http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=992833

[Guest021716-4]

Very true. It does go both ways.