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Originally Posted by ilovethemgirls68
if you think you're ready for something more, put if off as long as possible and develop the relationship
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I believe this for the most part to.
But after said long time frame in development mode.......a lady or mans love making doesn't quite measure up.........if you break up with them immediately after that first encounter.......does that make you a gentleman in her eyes for the most part since you did get to know her better before breaking her heart........or a huge dick who got to know her then left her when she exposed her glaring weakness. Or because you guys mesh so well non sexually.......is that enough to carry you into a healthy relationship going forward.
I think most of my strength dating is I can read people well.....and if I can't read them I'm respectful yet bold enough to ask and be gregarious. I work and connect better with people who are open. If she was shy or closed to sharing parts of her life........then that's different. Its based on her vibe and mood.
A nightmare for me is dating a woman who's a born again virgin, newly celibate cause of stupid past issues and no concrete religious cause, or a virgin with past daddy issues and trauma. I've been there and done that.
