BBBJ or CBJ... Does it REALLY matter?

[Willow Monroe]

Okay so I'm having a dilemma... I always use protection (condoms). Yes even when giving oral! I do this for my own safety, as well as my clients but it seems to be an issue for some "potential" clients. I don't really understand how being cautious is a problem. With all the "CRAZIES" out there one would assume it to be a positive that BB is a negative. What's your opinion... BB or NBB?

P.S. I'm not knocking the ladies that do BB, I
think its completely expectable after a business relationship
has been established with the client; I just want to
understand the reasoning behind BB.

XO

[watchoutthegameisrigged]

Simple. Because it feels about 1000 times better to me and I am paying to feel great. I won't see ladies that don't offer bbbj.

[Guest042514]

From a guys perspective .... it's a completely different feeling with bb. some guys are ok with cbj's. If it's just bbbj Theres not much of a chance you would catch something .for that matter if a guy has something there are tall tale signs. If he got blisters or sores I wouldnt even consider a cbj for him. There's ladies out there that do bbbj and some that don't. For the same donations. Lets look at it this way reeses penutbutter cups one with chocolate one with out both same amount. Wich would you choose. Just my .02 . and I'm not knocking you for being safe

[TechOne]

No, no. no....It's like comparing Mounds(CBJ) to Almond Joy(BBBJ)...one just does not give you the nut!

[Ass4Me]

Because it feels so much better for the guy. The risk of STDs is low for the guy, except for herpes. If the girl lets you CIM, then she has a higher risk of getting something. A lot of guys want a girl that does BBBJ/CIM. CIM is sort of like the icing on the cake!

[firststick]

Bbbj is the natural way and better. That said I would never not see a quality provider just because she wants protection. No dfk/daty is the deal killer for me.

[dirtysanchez0069]

I don't see CBJ providers. Not now, not ever. Just doesn't feel as good.

[JustaguyLR]

I've never experienced a cbj so I can't give a fair opinion, but a thought comes up. Willow, or any other provider can chimes in, I see that daty is on your menu. Do you require the use of some sort of shield when you allow it? Seems you are defeating your purpose to insist on protection via cbj, then require none for daty. Now I suspect someone will chime in here and say the risk of transference is low with daty. yeah, yeah, yeah.. It seems we always find some unqualified "fact" that benefits our position. I will admit I do not know what the statistics are. Here's my position. Fluids are fluids, viruses are viruses. When fluids mix with fluids or skin touches skin transference can occur. Period! Willow, I promise I am not calling you out. I've yet to see any provider advertise that they use a shield or whatever the membrane that is available for specifically vaginal oral sex. No, I have no experience with this either. Many ladies just as you, offer daty but only cbj. It's just a decision we all have to make. I just sharing something to think about and discuss. Eventually all sex will have to be done with body suits with sensors that we have to wear and we stimulate our partner via the computer. I hope to be dead and gone by then.

[cowtoy]

No CBJs for me. Seeing that on the Review is usually what makes me quit readying.

[Lonesome]

I've experienced the use of a "dental dam" for vaginal oral sex. It's just as bad as a condom for a bj. I don't like the taste of latex, and am glad some providers don't like it either.

[willro]

It does matter. I don't know any guys that think CBJ is just as good. It is not a deal breaker for me, but it is a consideration when I choose a date. I greatly prefer BBBJ. As far as safety goes, there is a world of difference between BBBJ and BBFS. One is relativly safe, the other definitely is not.

[theotherguy1]

I think if she is beautiful it doesn’t matter because it is going to be all in my head anyway. However, after meeting some of the providers that have been called beautiful on here, I would not trust the reviews and damn sure would not trust the provider.

[Willow Monroe]

Thanks for the input guys... I will continue to use protection and the fact that doing so limits my clientele I'll except. I'm fully confident in my personality appearance and talent enough that I know a condom cant hindered my abilities. If you are one of those guys that only want bb I hate that you would miss out on an amazing experience because a lady choses to protect you and herself. Xo

[firststick]

What do Sara and Roxy think and do?

[MrHappy4u]

If you advertise yourself as GFE, my only question is when was the last time you gave your boyfriend a CBJ? Probably the last time you had a boyfriend. Just sayin'