I agree with leaving it on for the sake of not losing it, and also for the sake of it being a bit of a turn on for us knowing we are satisfying something that you
might not be getting at home. Or maybe you are, but you like the risk of taking it to another level and getting something extra on the side.
No one likes the idea of another bashing their SO, I'd never want to put that idea on the table...but I sure would love to put the idea on the table that I can do all kinds of things that she might not let you do, all you have to do is read some reviews and find out if that is true.
Or even more fun - bring her into the party and let's have a blast!
Two wedding rings is more fun than one when I'm involved! I can't think of one time I've not had a blast with a couple. Woo hoo!