Dammit! A wasted window

[Chung Tran]

Originally Posted by Texasm31

what if I had a plan b and we were actually able to meet. How do you let plan b down?

my definition of a plan B, is someone easy to contact, with a higher-than-normal chance of successfully negotiating a session on short notice.. an AMP would be an ideal plan B, accordingly.

the plan B only goes in motion after you've come to the realization that plan A was a stiff.. of course, you need to be realistic about your true chances with plan A... don't hang by the thread of "maybe she'll text me any minute, and we can hurry through a session"

[phildo]

Originally Posted by Prolongus

Painful, SL...but...here's real pain: inject yourself after the two-call confirmation, head towards her door and...you've suddenly been texted out of a session.

So now you get to drive home, wrestling with an hour-long, raging rocket in your pocket.

I had no real pain for the OP because of the no com thing, but dayum, Prolongus, that REALLY sux!! Let this be a lesson to anyone who wants to whine about NCNS, if it didn't hurt this bad, keep it to yourself!

OUCH!

[ManSlut]

To the OP: I'm just glad you made it out alive.

[Sir Lancehernot]

Originally Posted by phildo

The first bit means that you knew when the communication got unplugged that there was a better than fair chance this appointment wasn't going to happen. You've been around plenty long enough to know that when the TCB / Communication window is non existent in the 60 to 90 minute out window and worse, non existent in the under 30 minute window, you're going to your nooner dressed like Hand Solo. The little head can justify anything and send your reason on vacation. I once waited over an hour for a hottie but she was texting me from traffic the whole time. No communication means no appointment, and you know that, and I'm sorry you wasted a pecker pellet and and extra hour and a half on nothing, but I know you saw it coming. This is one of those experience builds character and wisdom moments, right? Better luck next time (be sure she answers the phone)!

Maybe I've led a charmed life, but I've never made a 60- or 30-minute-beforehand call a part of my standard operating procedure. And this is only the third time I've ever had a NS.

The only reason I texted her this morning was because she had suggested the time last night but we hadn't settled on it.

NOW I know.

Incidentally, L1nda at Ojos Locos is teh hawtness. If someone can convert her to the Dark Side, his session is on me.

[Ramjet]

I've read this bit of wisdom which I haven't read so far with this thread.

It may be best to wait a day before posting anything, if for no other reason for many to cool off.

She may communicate with you that same day.

[Sir Lancehernot]

That's why I didn't mention her name. I was just venting, not reporting a NCNS, and I appreciate those of you who put up with the rantings of a disappointed PL.