PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT PART DEAUX

[pyramider]

I am trying to get into the holiday spirit but old demons are tugging at my 1.3" of dangling death. So I thought I would repost my Public Service Announcement from last year, with some more insight.



This is a Public Service Announcement for the wives, girlfriends, and future exes of the members of the hobby. Welcome to icky. Just kick your feet up and stay awhile ... maybe even post a little taint. Hey its the holidays, why not?

You are now discovering that your soon to be ex husband/boyfriend has been playing around with other women. I know you will be hurt by this discovery. You will lash out at the ladies of icky and other SHMBs. You will be calling the them cumsluts, whores, tramps, harlots, jezebels, etc. We understand the initial hostility.

There is really no need for that behavior. You need to focus your attention on you. What are you going to do? How are you going to confront your soon to be ex? Are you willing to let him weasel out of the mess "he" created? Why did this happen? How did this happen?

Let us focus on the last two questions: Why and How. Even the best relationships are difficult to maintain over the years with both parties contributing. But things happen. Things change. Sometimes its just time to move on.

If you look in the mirror a lot of it comes back to you. Have you taken care of yourself? We all know that as we grow older we need a little more maintenance. Have you bought some new lingerie? Or have you been wearing onesies for the past decade? I will admit not many women can rock a onesie. Have you acted out some fantasies with you soon to be ex? Only you can answer these questions. Its like Smokey the Bear use to say "Only you can prevent forest fires." I will admit you can only do so much and some of the blame goes to your soon to be ex. But you played a major role in your soon to ex being here, or playing with another woman.

If you played the role of cumslut, whore, tramp, etc in your relationship and kept your soon to be ex sated you would not be looking here. Had you had sucked and fucked him several times a week, and I am not talking about just laying there. But actually meet his needs ... Ride him like a bull. Suck his cock with meaning. Get involved in fucking his brains out. Perform BBCR, or occasionally engage in ass play. Your soon to be ex will be drained. He will not have the desire, or energy, to chase some strange. Oh his eyes will wander ... But his pecker will stay at home and have some more home cooking.

In closing ... Ladies keep the fire burning at home. Up your game. Or welcome to the hobby and be hurt over discovering your soon to be ex has been playing around and your vacation funds have been donated to several ladies on icky. It really is up to you. Learn the hard lessons now and remember them the next time you get in a relationship.

Now if you took care of your end of the deal and the soon to be ex still getting strange ... then that is on him and you should dump his dumb ass. I am sure there are several divorce attorneys on icky that would be more than willing to assist you in the future.

Now post some taint photos. If you have a need for some tender tainted pleasures feel free to PM me here. Do not worry, I am a certified taintologist.

[RochBob]

Very well said Pyramider. The most quoted reason for why most men Hobby. Is the Wife or SO is not taking care of business at home. Neglect by one or both spouses is why most Marriages fail. And I am sure somebody will quote the tired statistic that Money issues are the number 1 cause of Divorce. But its a smoke screen. Just like all of the "Relationship" articles that put the blame on Men. Our Grand Parents and Great Grand Parents faced much tougher Economic times and some how managed to stay together. Our Great Grand & Grand Fathers were off fighting in Wars for Months (sometimes Years). Our Great Grand & Grand Mothers waited for them at home and for the most part (except for the occasional straying(let's face it everybody is Human folks)) were their waiting for their Men when they came home and didn't let them out of bed for the next 3 Days. Some how we have created a self centered, self absorbed Society where all a person cares about is how something effects them personally and it will be our ultimate downfall.

[watchoutthegameisrigged]

OP, great post and exactly why I am here. In nearly 30 years of marriage to two different wives, I never strayed. But when I realized that sex was over with the current one and that I had a limited number of years left in my sex life, a difficult decision had to be made. It was not an easy decision but I have not regretted it one single time.

[chicagoboy]

The importance of BBCR cannot be overstated.

[RochBob]

After having thought about it overnight. It's a shame that Pyramider's PSA is not written up in a "straight" publication. It probably would do a number of couples some good.

[Sport0728]

Let's also look at it from the other side. Guys if you have gotten fat and uninteresting I don't blame the wife from not wanting to let your 300 pound ass wallow around on her.

[Guest120113]

Hmmm

Leave him twiddling his keyboard ( and his dick ) in a fancy hotel room and fuck some hot stud that is 20 years his junior.