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Originally Posted by 3daygetaway
Who appointed YOU a "safe base" to contact?
So,.... Whispers, Who appointed you SAFE people to come to in the case of a sour date?
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Over the years people have come to me when they feel something needs to be said and they lack the ability, for whatever reason they perceive, to immediate tell it themselves.
Often times they have come me INSTEAD of a Mod as they felt that there may be some friendship of sorts or that the MODs were too busy to care about it or that they might not feel it important enough in light of many other issues they may be dealing with at the time.
They have come to me because they know that if I verify it and believe it as well as believe it worthy of being said I will post it.
Often times, after the thread is running and the posts are up they step forward and participate. They find at times, that they were not the only one with the concern.
Many people here feel they cannot speak their mind. They are concerned with those like Codybeast or IronButterfly or others that will barrage them over and over and wear them down as they lack the ability to press it.....
Many will not speak their mind because they feel it labels them in some way and it will affect their ability to hobby. Point of that is very well demonstrated here as people tend to try to suggest that I have a problem seeing ladies I might want to see.
Hell... it is not just the ladies but many of the men here lack the ability to simply stand up for themselves and are afraid of what a bunch of hookers and johns think.....
maybe they have no lives outside this board...... I tend to believe that is the case for many.
There are those like me that have come to the conclusion that there are SO MANY Providers that know NOTHING of this board or what gets posted that there is no shortage of girls to spend money on.
I could care less if some lady will not see Whispers because he is a mean spirited Poster. If I REALLY want to see her I simply contact her in another way and she never even KNOWS she is seeing the guy that posts as Whispers. But mostly I have found that the kind of girl that I spend my money on is seldom on here posting.
IF there were more open minded women around here that were not concerned with competition you would think that there would be some woman posting to the Welcome Wagon Threads or PMing the ladies with a summary of what they should and should not expect in regards to behavior and a little looking out for each other.
We do it. Guys are always looking out for other guys here..... Not EVERY GUY... but enough to matter.
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Originally Posted by 3daygetaway
Are you all their "pimps?"
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Me? No. And I don't think any of those that contacted me are pimping any of the girls mentioned.... Do they HAVE Pimps? I tend to think so. I think every girl in the Welcome Wagon is getting approached by 2 or 3 different people if they are not already represented.
And how much you wanna bet that they are using THIS story to their advantage in recruiting?
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Originally Posted by 3daygetaway
Question: Is anyone else concerned that providers ARE discussing your appointment details with other hobbyists--hobbyists who seem okay with then discussing our business on the board?
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And some wonder why they don't want to come forward huh? I suppose a lady getting raped is at fault for wearing too short a skirt? That's the kind of insane logic you are presenting.
This entire thread has stayed focused on a single hobbyist....... You know... I'm surprised no one ever asked what my opinion of this was in regards to the other guys doing it every day.
Ladies. Guy Shorts you? You were robbed. Call the Police or post an alert. Do nothing and you will probably see it happen again.
Ladies. Guy stays too long? Oooops..... Of the two people in the room YOU are the professional. I don't think ANY of us have a problem leaving when told to do so. But let us stay and I don't think ANY of us won't stick around a bit. It's YOUR time. We all WANT as much of it as you will give us. And NO I don't think a guy should PAY for staying over if you never reminded him it was time to go.
Ladies. Guy asks for a discount? Expect it! It is going to happen. Say Yes. Say No It's your decision. Just be direct and do not engage him in a conversation on what you think you are worth or feelings are going to get hurt. Yes or No works!
IF all this had happened and Trees was NOT a Mod..... or if it was any other guy that was not a MOD....
I would have had nothing to say other than what was posted above.
Still Looking and I tend to agree a lot on this subject. Trees "crime" here (if there was one. Jury is obviously still out) was that these allegations were of his behavior during the last couple of months he was a MOD....
