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Originally Posted by chellachella
Bottom line, if averni was so wonderful, he would walk in the room, see the lady who is obviously in need, hand her the money and leave. Oh but wait, bitch ya gotta suck my dick first, bbbj or Im not paying.
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Could there be a more retarded post than this? No ... indeed there could never be!
I'm paying for the girl's time ... have I ever paid for her time without sex? Sure - I've taken girls out to dinner and paid their full hourly rate plus the dinner - with no expectation of sex. LOL - am I the only guy who's done this? I bet I'm not!
In fact I have a date on my calendar for a retired provider who does sex worker activism now who emailed me and said ... "Arv, I'm coming into town and will gladly accept an invitation to dinner from you!" So I'll be taking her to dinner AND paying her full former hourly rate - just for kicks!
It's only money - and she's a classy lady - and the money will go to good use whatever she decides to do with it!
I've never called a woman a "bitch", chella - sorry. I've never told one to "suck my dick or I'm not paying". I pay up front - the envelope's on the counter as soon as I get into the incall - whatever transpires after that - I've never asked for that envelope back. Tip's in there too - before anything happens. If the date goes south she keeps it all - I just don't come back. If she blows my mind - she may get a bigger tip the next time.
Do I have expectations? Sure. Am I there for a reason? Of course - this is quid pro quo, baby. Hey - I could take the "reverse" and say - "If the gal's so great she'd give it for free!" ... but that's not how the world works chella and that's why your post is so stupidly uninsightful.
"Mangina" - that's funny. I'll take that shit off a woman - and I suppose a guy too posting in the "small man" world of the internet ... of course he'd never say it to my face if they met me.
What I HAVE learned from this thread - is that, not only are there some extremely jaded men out there (which I've seen in other threads and in the men's locker room) - but there are also a few grossly jaded and cynical providers - which I have to just marvel at. I'm in this because I LOVE women and generally think they are cool and honest and trustworthy. I know many providers who think the same of their clients.
I think you're a better client if you LOVE women and a better provider if you LOVE men - but obviously - you don't have to just to participate in this hobby. This is why I try really hard to identify providers who share my love for the opposite sex - and try to stay away from the ones who hate men and view them simply as a means of support.
There appears to be an element on both sides that just seems so negative toward the other side - always assuming the worst. This hobby must be really miserable for you guys and gals - having to interface with the opposite sex - which you have such a negative view of.
LOL
Annie
