Do I write a bad review?

[Iron Chef]

I'm torn..

The lady and I just didn't click. And it was a overnight. Should I chalk it up as an expensive learning experience or what?

There was nothing wrong with her, I (and her) just had a crap evening.

Live and learn, I guess.

IC

[NikkiWhite]

I totally suggest being honest in your review , save other guys from the same experience and give her some constructive criticism to grow from.

[jerkn2u]

So you didn't see her first for a shorter session before you did the overnight?

[Iron Chef]

Originally Posted by jerkn2u

So you didn't see her first for a shorter session before you did the overnight?

No. and that was my mistake.

[Guest112916]

You can write an honest review of a not so good experience and it still be a 'Yes" for a recommendation even though you guys didn't click. WALDT.

[slowmover]

Write a factual review. While you didn't click, others may read the review and make their own decision. I have made a vow to start posting no reviews. In the past I have not written a couple of no reviews because it just didn't work. The girl was nice and tried, but it wasn't my cup of tea. I didn't want to hurt her business. That wasn't useful to others. If more no reviews were written it wouldn't be such big deal.

If it's factually correct, nobody can object, and this site would be more helpful to guys making appointments.

Perhaps we should talk about what a no is. Von Spieler may be correct. Maybe a "no' should be reserved for someone who doesn't live up to their end of the deal. A statement such as I will not see her again could accompany a yes. (Yes meaning all was as advertised, and the meeting was professional) No would mean I would not recommend making an appointment.

All that being said, I have gotten grief from girls for ROS comments in no reviews. The bitching didn't bother me.

[oldbutstillgoing]

I looked at your reeviews. They look OK to me...

[bored@home]

Originally Posted by Iron Chef

No. and that was my mistake.

Sounds like you have already learned from this encounter.

[Technomad]

If it just didn't 'click' something should have been done.

Without feedback this community is pretty worthless. Given that this WAS an overnight no one can say that time was a pressure.

Sometimes we are too nice and too gentlemanly to admit when someone is not very good. But it must be done to help the community and possibly the provider get better.

my two cents.

and for what it's worth... the overnight or long duration pushes it over for me... How can someone on an overnight not realize things did not 'click' for you?

[gpws4cfit]

just write an honest review and say YMMV and that you didnt "click" bc XYZ, some guys may realy be into or like what you didnt click with....you never know thats why you should be honest.

[matrix0071]

all these extra attention now is gonna make her look twice as bad.. just think it over, you might not of "clicked", but this is her job and means

[Guest092216]

I would focus on the teachable moment that overnights are best precluded by a short session to make sure you do click. Maybe she is a good provider but not the right provider for guys who look at your experiences as a reference for their experience which is the purpose of reviews right? Its not saying she was bad in general just bad for YOU and what turns YOU on. The guys who follow your reviews will consider your perspective when they decide who to see but the guys that don't will maybe see her anyway. If she was a good provider just not your flavor make that the focus of your review. Honesty can be offered diplomatically.

[Chung Tran]

when somebody writes a good, thorough, in-depth review, I don't care whether the recommendation is a "yes" or a "no"... my opinion is already formed before that vote is cast

[Bestman200600]

You always drive a car before you buy it. Not all girls click with everyone. Next time check things out first. Pass on the review, drama doesn't help out anyone on either side.

[General Feuerbacher]

sometimes it is not the girl. stress,economy,traffic,OBAMA,I RS audit notice,performance anxiety,and etc... my little andrew sometimes works great when i thinks this girl is not worth it. other times the girl is great and willing and i'll be a monkey's uncle little andrew will go to sleep