My first NC/NS Yummii

[MojoR]

Date: 22 Aug 2013
Provider: Yummii
Phone: Will provide after screening
Email Address: N/A
URL / Website: http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=819643
City: Addison
State: Texas
Appointment Type: outcall
Did the Appointment take place at the agreed-upon time?: No
Activities: Frstration (which was free)
Session Length: Was supposed to be for 1 hour
Fee: Review Special $175
Hair Length and Color: N/A
Age: N/A
Smoking Status: N/A
Ethnic Background: Mixed

Background:

17 Aug: Yummii posts an ad to the W.W.
I PM her for some background about menu & rates, not expecting a quick response. Was very surprised that I got a very nice and prompt response. We had a number of back and forth PM's over the next couple of days. She provides me with her number.

21 Aug: I send her a text asking if she was available to meet Friday. We agree Friday at Noon and she confirms that the review special will still hold.

22 Aug: Receive text confirming that she can meet at the later time. I confirm. Later that day I get an additional text from her confirming my confirmation. We agree to text each other on Friday at which point I'll provide the exact address.

23 Aug (Friday): I text her as agreed. No response. Text again after she didn't show and called as well. No response. Also sent an PM/Email. No response.

I don't mind if someone is late. I don't mind if someone has to cancel. Life happens. I do mind taking time off and having someone not show up and not provide an explanation. ECCIE profile logs show "Last Activity: Yesterday 12:53 PM" So someone was active on her account.

Hope that she is OK and that this is a one off.

[Luke Skywalker]

Happens eventually to all of us mojor.... principally with the newbies...

[MojoR]

Originally Posted by lukeskywalker7667

Happens eventually to all of us mojor.... principally with the newbies...

Yes, I know. I'll be staying out of the W.W. and leave it to the gentlemen who have more patience/understanding than I do.

If she had just texted me and said I can't make it. It wouldn't have been any skin off my back. Not hearing anything makes it difficult to be fair as I don't know if the lack of communication was due to being flakey or something more serious like some sort of emergency.

[Chung Tran]

I'm thinking Yummi has been overwhelmed with responses.... one reviewer said she is limiting her sessions to 2 per day, and I bet she's getting 20 requests per day

[Luke Skywalker]

Originally Posted by MojoR

Yes, I know. I'll be staying out of the W.W. and leave it to the gentlemen who have more patience/understanding than I do.

If she had just texted me and said I can't make it. It wouldn't have been any skin off my back. Not hearing anything makes it difficult to be fair as I don't know if the lack of communication was due to being flakey or something more serious like some sort of emergency.

Mojor, a lot of women hate confrontations. Young girls might just go on radio silence because they are affraid of the hobbyist reaction. I know, it is worse.... but I call it "the ostridge (spelling?) symdrrome". I hate too when it happens to me. But I generally forgive them. Once I had a NCNS from a provider... I forgave her... she is one of my favorites today.

It's their body, their choice, after all. I forgive them.

[General Feuerbacher]

i hope she does not burn out

[MojoR]

I agree with all your (G.F., L.S.W. & C.T) comments.

I hope that I've been objective as possible in what I've posted and done so in a way that Yummii will feel comfortable responding to, either in public or via PM to me. If she reaches out to me via PM I'll be sure that I post a fair follow up to this.

I've a generous heart, so forgiving someone a mistake is easy. But it does take two-way open dialogue.

Yummii - over to you. Please feel free to contact me vie phone/text (you have the number) or PM me so that I can ensure I've been fair to you with what I've written.

[Adonis]

[dallasfan]

Scared away another one.

[OldGrump]

I hope she doesn't burn out either. She got on this board totally unprepared for the onslaught of PMs. Her inbox stayed full. I suggested she join P411 and restrict new customers to that source until she had a stable incall and booking procedures.

She is a sweet girl. I too tried calling her Friday to see how things were going & got no response. She is probably suffering from the "deer in the headlights" syndrome.

[MojoR]

Originally Posted by OldGrump

I hope she doesn't burn out either. She got on this board totally unprepared for the onslaught of PMs. Her inbox stayed full. I suggested she join P411 and restrict new customers to that source until she had a stable incall and booking procedures.

She is a sweet girl. I too tried calling her Friday to see how things were going & got no response. She is probably suffering from the "deer in the headlights" syndrome.

--Great advise. Hope that its nothing more serious than being overwhelmed and that she follows your suggestions.