Curious about the hobbyist

[srt8amatt]

Are many of you married and take up the hobby due to an unhappy marriage/sex-life? I have yet to indulge but I am curious and considering it.

If I am still undecided, should I just stay away?

Just looking for a little perspective. thanks

[Netx9]

I wouldn't look to an escort board and total strangers for perspective on your personal situation... You already made the first step and got an account here... What you do next is entirely up to you.

[strawberrycar934]

Wow, well Str8Matt,

You have actually asked what is probably not the most comfortable question for many of us to answer. Are we married? Are we cheating? Why do we do this? It is a personal decision for many of us and it has many layers. You are also asking this as one of your first questions. We don't know you. We don't know if you are a disgruntled wife who found this site and is trying to find all the married guys to expose them.

Crazier shit has happened.

Next is right. There is nothing that I can say or that he can say that will make your decision easier. We can tell you that there are some great big chested ladies who would love to meet you and more importantly they would love to meet your friend Ben.

There is an emotional toll that this hobby takes. It takes it tolls on the ladies. It takes a toll on the men. Some of us are probably harder edged because of this hobby. Some of us find that this fits a perfect need for us and makes us better husbands or fathers. Some here are married and have an understanding. Some here would be ruined if people discovered this lifestyle.

You are asking a very loaded question out of the gate.

Why not tell us about your situation, first. It will make folks more likely to reply. Rather than, "Hey, who here is fucking around on their wife?" No one wants to answer that question.

How did you hear about Eccie? Why are you here? What kind of lady do you want meet?

Let us get to know you a bit and I think you will find folks willing to share.

[farmstud60]

You could talk to 10 guys and come up with 10 different reasons. Some have wives that lost their sex drive, others just like the thrill of something different. Some say they are happily married, love there wife, others don't want to get a divorce so come here. It is all a personal choice, and whatever your reason, it won't be unique.

[Guest022718]

Best. Post. Ever.

Originally Posted by strawberrycar934

Wow, well Str8Matt,

You have actually asked what is probably not the most comfortable question for many of us to answer. Are we married? Are we cheating? Why do we do this? It is a personal decision for many of us and it has many layers. You are also asking this as one of your first questions. We don't know you. We don't know if you are a disgruntled wife who found this site and is trying to find all the married guys to expose them.

Crazier shit has happened.

Next is right. There is nothing that I can say or that he can say that will make your decision easier. We can tell you that there are some great big chested ladies who would love to meet you and more importantly they would love to meet your friend Ben.

There is an emotional toll that this hobby takes. It takes it tolls on the ladies. It takes a toll on the men. Some of us are probably harder edged because of this hobby. Some of us find that this fits a perfect need for us and makes us better husbands or fathers. Some here are married and have an understanding. Some here would be ruined if people discovered this lifestyle.

You are asking a very loaded question out of the gate.

Why not tell us about your situation, first. It will make folks more likely to reply. Rather than, "Hey, who here is fucking around on their wife?" No one wants to answer that question.

How did you hear about Eccie? Why are you here? What kind of lady do you want meet?

Let us get to know you a bit and I think you will find folks willing to share.

[Marcus Aurelius]

Yep. strawberrycar934 put one over the fence that time.

[Netx9]

Originally Posted by Marcus Aurelius

Yep. strawberrycar934 put one over the fence that time.

+1 I couldn't have said it any better.